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This will seem very untoward, I'm sure, but I'm deeply concerned for an online friend whom I believe lives in Utah, and uses this site.

Clearly I don't want to give too many details openly, but.. She's told me she goes on a "picnic" with others in the lifestyle on Sundays - Yesterday, she was the girl you might have noticed wasn't there. I think you might have missed her home baked bread that she tells me she prepares every Sunday morning for it.

If this very vague description rings any bells, please please please get in touch with me as I'm very worried for her. I promise you don't have to give me any information about her if you're not comfortable doing so, but I would like to know that she's safe.

Of course, knowing her only online, and living in an entirely different country, I only have what she's told me to go on, but I hope I have enough for someone who cares about her to recognise her.

I apologise for posting this here (not even sure if it would be the right subforum, if there was a right subforum!), and I don't know if posting my email address would be suitable in this instance, but I really would desperately appreciate anyone who might know her contacting me - Especially if they know if she's OK.
Fresh Home Baked bread and swingers finding something to do on a sunday morning, sounds like a good idea. Hope somebody can help.
It seems like you really don't know her, with a vague description and the clandestine nature of your post. I'm not sure If I can take you seriously after reading your profile. Perhaps... but my gut tells me there's something not right with the post itself.
Actually it sounds a little more like something from the singles ward play book.
Troll Alert.
Administrator!
Le sigh

I'm not going to put all the details she's told me about her life on a post on the internet am I?

I expected this though.. The scepticism is understandable, but imagine, for a moment, someone you have spent a lot of time talking to online, possibly is in a very dangerous situation, and you have no contact from them after.. A rather worrying conversation. Would you start plastering a site they told you they belong to, with photos, full life story, etc?

Her friends, if she has any here, will hopefully recognise her from the very vague description given. People that don't recognise can call BS as much as they like, and I'm not asking anyone who doesn't think they might know this girl to believe me, or give a flying fig. What I am doing, is trying to consider her privacy whilst trying to ensure she's safe.

I now have contact with her, so I know she's alive.. But I'm still concerned so I would like to leave this open in case anyone who knows her spots it, and they can contact her just to say hi or something, to let her know people care. If they care. If they don't.. Well don't contact her I guess!

Oh, and my profile.. Try signing up as a UK resident, where the site works out your postcode and then town.. But if you put London the timezone, it sends you back to the start, and keeps looping! In the end I found choosing a random not UK timezone let me in, but it was a mite frustrating watching it go through the pages time and time again. Kind of went a little crazy by the time I filled in the profile boxes for the I lost count.. time.

As it happens, I have a profile on a UK specific site, but that mostly mentions my fridge.