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is there any ladies out there that really just want to play ?? or is it all the big game or fear ?? there has to be women that think like us guys !!
guess there is no answer .. seems we got moved
um... 99% of the women on this site think just like guys do.
We have to agree with CPLINTOOELE! If the women in the lifestyle thought more like men no one would ever get turned down. Men very seldom care what the person looks like as long as they can get in her pants! IOHO :)
thinking like men is very different that not being picky and/or not having standards.
true a lot of men don't seem to be very picky, but i know a lot that have nazi standards about it too.
i think with my dick more than an actual male WITH a dick does these days.
and i turn lots of people down. i have a preference and i'm not fucking just anyone simply because i'm horny and/or a swinger.
There's gotta be a joke in there: "Field Guide to Nazi Swinging Standards".
we agree its good to see all the ladies stand up and speak out !! lets hear from more of you
oh trust me, we are here. and we definately get our voices heard. In fact last night my ex bf told me to quieten down cuz the neighbors might hear. Just because they are elderly I think they can tell the difference between a good scream and a bad scream. Hell, when i left they were holding up score cards and chain smoking. LOL.

I'm one of those open minded women...as long as it's (mostly)legal, doesn't require therapy afterwards, and possible, I say go for it. I may not go for it WITH you, but I sure as hell won't stand in your way.

I have very few boundries. Things I don't do are potty sex, role play (it bores me), receiving anal sex (it fucking hurts), or stupid people. Other then that, I'm pretty open. When I'm in the mood that is. Which used used to 24/7. Now, not so much. :-( I blame hormones.
I don't know if it's because I am in Florida and not many Florida ladies come into the chatroom or the other women don't find me attractive.I can't never seem to get another girl to play with me on cam. I can get tons of males which at times is fine but I really want to play with other females in person and on cam. None seem to be as open in showing themselves on cam in the chatrrom like I am all they do when they view me on cam is sit there viewing me and have conversations with other people but don't really interact with me at all. I'm really getting to the point to where I think it's a waste of time to try and play with another woman on cam here and I might just quit showing myself.


Becki
thank you sweetie :)
Dirty cockwhore slut here :)
WESEE wrote:

There's gotta be a joke in there: "Field Guide to Nazi Swinging Standards".


hahaha. I'm serious. I've seen the list one guy made for requirements a girl must have to date or even get fucked by him. But especially to date her. Some of them are contradictory actually. And there's approximately 138 rules on his list. I don't know if the girl that fits all 138 even exists. It cracks me up though.
um. went over last night to get my stuff from his house, he said "I'm trashed".

I pounced.

What can I say....he has the best tongue and cock in town. Or so my pussy and mouth keep telling me.

He hugged me, kissed me, slipped me me the tongue and he got hard and I got wet. Next thing I know we're both looking at each other asking each other if we are crazy to do this and I told him if he wanted me to leave I would, but if he wanted me to let me know. He pulled me in close, wound my hair in his hand, pulled my head back and kissed me hard. Clothes came off, and the next thing I know I'm counting over 20 big Os.

Sheesh. Just typing it made me have another one.
would be nice just to have a lady that acts like the guys who just wants to fuck .. not all the games just go for it .. now find that and well the world would changes as we know it lol
RIPBECKI
Hey I can cant seem to find any females to play either it's like we make plans, find sitters,and they always no show. We don't cam for that reason,( I want the real thing) we have cammed in the past then made plans to meet up and they no showed so we stopped camming same with our pics we don't just pass them out to anyone. We haven't played in a long time 1 major reason is we cant find anyone to play with.
SWEETTEE46 wrote:

RIPBECKI Hey I can cant seem to find any females to play either it's like we make plans, find sitters,and they always no show. We don't cam for that reason,( I want the real thing) we have cammed in the past then made plans to meet up and they no showed so we stopped camming same with our pics we don't just pass them out to anyone. We haven't played in a long time 1 major reason is we cant find anyone to play with.


I am more than willing to play in person and love to cam, because I use it as away to open up and get to know people and get over my shyness. I am more willing to show off on cam right away for some reason than in person, because I want to know someone really well before I do something with someone. I know it sounds alittle weird but I am weird :) . The only thing I don't like is the people that all they want to do is cam but make you believe that they want more and that is th eonly time they talk to me or rip is when they want to cam. I do love just a normal converstation but I'm not very forward so the other person generally has to start the converstation by saying hello to me first. Sweettee anytime you just want to talk just hit us up on Yahoo so we can get to know each other and we don't have to cam for me to be interested if your not comfortable with that. We would also keep any date we set to, we are new to this as in we haven't ever played with anyone in person and have been looking for years for the right person or couple. So feel free to talk to us , we put under our yahoo status which one is online or when both are. Hope to talk to you more I just need a aggressive woman get me out of my social shell :)
CPLINTOOELE wrote:

is there any ladies out there that really just want to play ?? or is it all the big game or fear ?? there has to be women that think like us guys !!

Yeah, I find that the problem is, guys just aren't horny enough to keep up with me!! ;)

Seriously, though, I don't know what you mean here. More like you guys? Aren't ALL the women here willing to have sex without love? Do you mean just being more willing to jump anything at any time without discretion? To be honest, I could do just that with one of my toys of any size/type I'm in the mood for, at any time I'm in the mood for it, without any possibility of too much drama or rudeness being thrust upon me.

I choose not to because I don't actually have a lot in common with my vibrator, and to be honest, it just doesn't have a good sense of humor or much in the way of personality. I don't jump just any guy without discretion for the same reason?!
I like to fuck like a rockstar most men cant hang. I love a beautiful woman, but hate an insecure one. I just wanna get laid and really enjoy it. Explore and not have to hold back based on someone else's worries. Most men I find are scared if you know what you'r really doing.
abc you are right and i was not trying to insult anyone here just a point of view and maybe a fantisy .. but you are so right about all the turn on and the differences thank god for that but once in awhile lol. thanks though for your imput :) friends i hope
yea it does suck to have a game played on you .. we are however suppose to be real in here and open minded is that not why we got into this lifestyle?? it is good for all that live it all the way .. and well after at home wow !! and great friends you make along the way i call them the real people .
its a good subject though very interesting points of view ..
so i just want to see one lady stand up today and show me !!! lol
To bad we're in Tennessee
CPLINTOOELE wrote:

so i just want to see one lady stand up today and show me !!! lol


I'm always more than willing to play with other females even though I haven't in person, I really want to bad. I'm always looking to cam with one everytime i come into the chatroom since there isn't many people in Florida here in the chatroom at one time, so if you see us in the chatroom with cam on you know it's me Becki and I am more than willing to play with you girls from Utah or anywhere for that matter, but you have to play back ;)
tb wish you was to looks like you got the idea :)
well is this a wore out subject lol
ROTTIETRAINERS wrote:

Men very seldom care what the person looks like as long as they can get in her pants! IOHO :)


That is not true at all. There and assholes and bigots everywhere, even in the community we all love. I love sexy women like nobody's business but even they can rub you wrong. If I think your a sack of shit in heals I'm not gonna put my dick in you.
TATERTOT1982 wrote:

I like to fuck like a rockstar most men cant hang. I love a beautiful woman, but hate an insecure one. I just wanna get laid and really enjoy it. Explore and not have to hold back based on someone else's worries. Most men I find are scared if you know what you'r really doing.


I wish there were more of you hanging around. I have met several women in my life that want to be torn up for hours and then wimp out totally. Or they just fall out after they cum a few times. I'm thinking we should come once a position and its not a good night unless there is at least two hours and/or a puddle of sweat. A few bathroom breaks and a slice of pizza to carb up. Know what I'm saying.
CPLINTOOELE wrote:

is there any ladies out there that really just want to play ?? or is it all the big game or fear ?? there has to be women that think like us guys !!

Wait, I think I finally get what your sayin' here. Yeah, I wish we could all just be more relaxed and open-minded and just GO for it. Not THINK about things so much--be more like you men. You know my thing? I LOVE MFM. So here's what I'm thinkin. My husband's not gonna do these things, but I know that you're just one wild and crazy dude, so here's the "plan." You me and a couple-a guys are gonna hang, whereupon I'll watch while they take turns with you orally and anally. Dang, ain't this just gonna be so hot?? I want a piece of ya too, so after they both come inside me I think I'll just grind away on your face while jerkin' you off, OK? OK? CplInTooele? CPLINTOOELE? HEY, HAS ANYONE SEEN CPLINTOOELE, WHERE'D HE GO??????
fun ?? hey very personal was that not i did not mean any of this mean just had a question and seeing if there may be some ladies that have a more agressive standard out there .. after all is this not what makes it fun for us all is the variety?? I am sure you are a super cool person and I must say very attractive .. hope we can be friends all through this research project ..lol
CPLINTOOELE wrote:

fun ?? hey very personal was that not i did not mean any of this mean just had a question and seeing if there may be some ladies that have a more agressive standard out there .. after all is this not what makes it fun for us all is the variety?? I am sure you are a super cool person and I must say very attractive .. hope we can be friends all through this research project ..lol

Oh heck, I SERIOUSLY didn't mean it as a mean post. (although what was suggested was pretty darn nasty, I'd say!) I can't help but kid-around on here! :) I was making a point though, in that it kinda seems what you're saying is "Hey why don't you women do the things I wanna do when I wanna do 'em and quit being so 'picky'". I know that I personally am very picky about who I'll hang with. I've got a gorgeous man at home to play with so it's not like I'm at all desperate or anything -- this is totally just extracurricular!!

Sorry if I sounded like I meant it personal -- at the end I was just "calling out" to you 'cause, like almost any guy on here, I figured you'd have bailed out half way through reading my description of what I wanted to do! (oh, and I really don't want to witness what I was describing by the way! ;) )