I see post often on here and other places complaining about finding nothing but Mr and/or Mrs Wrong. People make decisions about every thing based on a preconceived solution to the question. Given a similar set of conditions we all make the same decision over and over again. Some one once said the doing the same thing repeatedly expecting different results is a sign of insanity.
So
Especially if you are not connecting as often as you would like, what are your criteria for meeting potential playmates?????????
So
Especially if you are not connecting as often as you would like, what are your criteria for meeting potential playmates?????????
We have noticed a few things that work for us....
A.) We don\'t pressure ourseleves, if there is nothing going and we can\'t get any interest, we go and do something else that we enjoy together..
B.) Gut feeling counts for everything, it\'s it\'s not feeling right, it\'s not right. Even if the profile and emails have been perfect, but that feeling is still there, we don\'t go forward..the times we have is the times the night has been a very bad time for all.
C.) Even though we still reach out to others a little bit, ALL of our best playmates so far have been people who have contacted us first (there might be one or two in the works that we contacted but we haven\'t gotten there yet) It might be due to the fact we are a BBW couple so that those who contact us know/want what they are getting...
Mostly, it\'s like hunting, we bide our time and wait and enjoy our lives and enjoy it very much when it happens and try to not have too high of an expectation with a date until it statrts going good...and we are ourseleves all the time. We don\'t play games and what you see with us is what you get.
Hope this helps
Art and Dawn
A.) We don\'t pressure ourseleves, if there is nothing going and we can\'t get any interest, we go and do something else that we enjoy together..
B.) Gut feeling counts for everything, it\'s it\'s not feeling right, it\'s not right. Even if the profile and emails have been perfect, but that feeling is still there, we don\'t go forward..the times we have is the times the night has been a very bad time for all.
C.) Even though we still reach out to others a little bit, ALL of our best playmates so far have been people who have contacted us first (there might be one or two in the works that we contacted but we haven\'t gotten there yet) It might be due to the fact we are a BBW couple so that those who contact us know/want what they are getting...
Mostly, it\'s like hunting, we bide our time and wait and enjoy our lives and enjoy it very much when it happens and try to not have too high of an expectation with a date until it statrts going good...and we are ourseleves all the time. We don\'t play games and what you see with us is what you get.
Hope this helps
Art and Dawn
HMMMM what do we look for:
1. Folks that aren\'t too pushy and are understanding of conflicting schedules.
2. Laid back, friendly
3. Fun loving
4. Outgoing
5. Clean
6. someone who likes us. (lol)
7. sexy as hell doesn\'t hurt either. :-)
1. Folks that aren\'t too pushy and are understanding of conflicting schedules.
2. Laid back, friendly
3. Fun loving
4. Outgoing
5. Clean
6. someone who likes us. (lol)
7. sexy as hell doesn\'t hurt either. :-)
Doh! (Slap hand on forhead...) what we look for.....
The post above could not have said it any better...
Happy Holidays!
Art and Dawn
The post above could not have said it any better...
Happy Holidays!
Art and Dawn
Too bad we are so far apart. :-)