I once had a few girls say they were bi and bragged about eating a girl out saying they were the best. Once it all started, one girl went down. Started out OK until I felt something very painful. Looking down realizing she had bit onto my clit so bad, it brought blood making me stop completely. So I've been worried on every girl going down on me. I've even had some not let me touch them at all to return the favor and even when I did try, I stayed for like a good 30 min and they return the favor in 4 mins. It makes me wonder if there are any really good girls out there that are good and follow what they say?? And if so, how would you take this and is there any ideas or thoughts on this from you that I can use and what does it mean when a girl only wants me to pleasure them and them not pleasure me???
Please give me your ideas.
Please give me your ideas.
Hi Tink... As for your question. I would only suggest you talk more with your play partners and get a better understanding as to their desires. Then play, and if it isn't what you were desiring then keep searching for your play friend that meets your needs. In the mean time can I say.... Pick Me.....
Tink- Talk to your play partners as Herrequest suggested...make sure to tell them that you don't like biting and mention some things that you do like. They may expand on that and find other things that you enjoy 
sorry we cant help on the real topic other than to say some folks like to dine at the Y and some dont.
We actually are in agreement with the theory that the olfactory and sense of taste are deeply programed at the DNA level to trigger more aggressive behavior when a lady is ovulating and also to help match up compatible DNA that will help enhance human evolution and perhaps even help select compatible mates.
We actually are in agreement with the theory that the olfactory and sense of taste are deeply programed at the DNA level to trigger more aggressive behavior when a lady is ovulating and also to help match up compatible DNA that will help enhance human evolution and perhaps even help select compatible mates.
MAYBEMOR wrote:
sorry we cant help on the real topic other than to say some folks like to dine at the Y and some dont. We actually are in agreement with the theory that the olfactory and sense of taste are deeply programed at the DNA level to trigger more aggressive behavior when a lady is ovulating and also to help match up compatible DNA that will help enhance human evolution and perhaps even help select compatible mates.
Can you elaborate? This theory is very interesting, and I would like to know more. As for the initial discussion, I believe that your partner should please you as much as possible, and vice versa. If your getting the short end of the stick, find out why? Sometimes it isn't the most pleasant thing, and maybe you need a little help getting over that. There is this delicious cream called, "Oralicious" we have Banana cream, it is used for both male and female and really helps you get into it. There's a small numbing to the tongue, and it is very tasty and non sticky. Even if you are ovulating it can cover up any bad taste. lol
I believe you and your partners should be honest in what you like and don't like to avoid turning anyone off during hot steamy sex.
i've had some really bad oral for a girl. one time we had a 3some and we both thought we were gonna lose our body parts. we never invited her back to say the least. lmao.
also, i LOVE your ghost in the shell pic. we should be friends. :P
also, i LOVE your ghost in the shell pic. we should be friends. :P
try these links to get you started.
Have you ever noticed how some people can kiss first thing in the morning and never think the other person has bad taste or breath.. That is maybe one way nature helps us select sex partners for the common good. As far as I know there is no scientific data to back up this idea but DNA websites that claim it is best for us to select sex partners based on different protective immune systems.
http://www.physorg.com/news182609572.html
http://www.trendhunter.com/trends/smelly-pits-as-a-turn-on-dating-sites-offering-to-match-odor
http://www.komonews.com/news/tech/69979672.html
Have you ever noticed how some people can kiss first thing in the morning and never think the other person has bad taste or breath.. That is maybe one way nature helps us select sex partners for the common good. As far as I know there is no scientific data to back up this idea but DNA websites that claim it is best for us to select sex partners based on different protective immune systems.
http://www.physorg.com/news182609572.html
http://www.trendhunter.com/trends/smelly-pits-as-a-turn-on-dating-sites-offering-to-match-odor
http://www.komonews.com/news/tech/69979672.html
I've always thought it would be an interesting party game to have someone (male or female) lay back with a sheet hanging down at about their waist (so they couldn't see) and have both males and females take turns giving them oral.
Then, have them guess which giver at any given moment is male or female.
My best guess: WRONG at least 75% of the time.
Knowing EXACTLY who is doing you is a HUGE part of the total "mind fuck" experience.
Take that away, and I'm certain the result would be amazing.
Just sayin.
Then, have them guess which giver at any given moment is male or female.
My best guess: WRONG at least 75% of the time.
Knowing EXACTLY who is doing you is a HUGE part of the total "mind fuck" experience.
Take that away, and I'm certain the result would be amazing.
Just sayin.
WILDNSASSY wrote:
As for the girl on girl, I have been a little befuddled in this particular area. I am the MRS...and extremely interested in women, I have some of my best orgasms thinking about the naughty things that I want another women to do to me. However I get very gun shy and am not sure how to handle them. Any advice would be great!
Actually talked about this very thing with several people at the party on Saturday night, so it seems to be pretty common. There is extreme interest according to both parties - the profile says they are bi-comfortable, bi-sexual, and/or bi-curious, but at the same time seems intimidating, and where, when, how to approach. I suppose since it is challenging enough to find a sweet foursome, that it would also be challenging to find a woman that you click with as well. I would love some advice as well...
And Mrs. WILDNSASSY - since we are friends now, maybe we can figure it out together
This is tink's hubby. I think the biggest problem is that most bi and other types are trying to test drive you. This does not go over well with most people.Infact they might be out to get all they can out of you or there just scared and can not live up to there sales picth. I just wish if you think you are looking to be with the same sex you should know what you would hope to get from others. You really should have a good ieda about what things you feel safe with and what you might try.
In the end of it life is short have fun when you can and love when you can.
In the end of it life is short have fun when you can and love when you can.
OK, I'll put my 2 cents in on this even though I really can't address the girl/girl aspect being a single guy. Realizing the sensitivity of that part of the body I never allow my teeth to scrape or even have contact unless the lady specifically states she wants me to nip/bite and actually use my teeth. I have "nipped" with my lips curled over my teeth on a few occasions, but again, only when requested. As for "returning the favor"... I love to receive oral, but also realize that not everyone likes to give - now I am a very giving person in that regard, and sometimes think (as I phrased it once) I would rather lick it than stick it. I could go down on a woman for over an hour, but could only have intercourse for about 30 minutes (OK, I am being brutally honest about my short cummings here). Seeing that my female partners are totally satisfied, I have accepted that there is not as much magic left in my wand as there once was, but I have many, many other ways I can please the lady. It really matters little to me about the "return the favor" aspect as I have been known to have a spontaneous ejaculation with no physical stimulation of my penis when a woman has an orgasm on my tongue. Maybe I'm weird, but that's just the way it works for me. I have only had 1 woman in my life who had such a strong and pungent aroma there that I couldn't go down on her - turned out she had a major yeast infection, and once she got it cleared up we were able to have a lot of fun.