Tell us what makes the lifestyle so irresistable to you.
What are your swinging preferences, and why? What is essential to a totally hot encounter in your mind? Tell us what makes you the swinger that you are...
What are your swinging preferences, and why? What is essential to a totally hot encounter in your mind? Tell us what makes you the swinger that you are...
The lifestyle is intoxicating to us for several reasons...
The most important of which is that we can express our sexual desire in a format that allows us to experiment, explore, and experience our own, and other people\'s sexualities with out fear of reprisal or damage of any sort to our relationship. We cant imagine being so closed minded that this avenue was not open to us; this just seems to make more sense to us.
Something about seeing your partner with another person is very erotic. We both enjoy watching each other play. We are both 100% free when it comes to pleasing our partners sexually, so we take great pleasure in doing so...we enjoy mutual masturbation...videos...toys...you name it...if it makes the situation even hotter by doing it we are game!
We enjoy soft lighting, good music, dancing is fun to add to the element of flirting...kissing, touching, you name it...we are there! We swang exclusively with couples for about 9 years and found that we were ready to move on to singles...now we have found that we LOVE having threesomes more than foursomes...to us it is just an issue of dynamics...it is much easier to relate to one person than two. It is often difficult to find couples where BOTH partners feel completely attracted in the same way...atleast in our experience and some of the people we know anyway...
We will share more after everyone else jumps in...lol.
Mrs. Luvbugs!
This is more fun than the politics! HE can have fun with THAT thread!
The most important of which is that we can express our sexual desire in a format that allows us to experiment, explore, and experience our own, and other people\'s sexualities with out fear of reprisal or damage of any sort to our relationship. We cant imagine being so closed minded that this avenue was not open to us; this just seems to make more sense to us.
Something about seeing your partner with another person is very erotic. We both enjoy watching each other play. We are both 100% free when it comes to pleasing our partners sexually, so we take great pleasure in doing so...we enjoy mutual masturbation...videos...toys...you name it...if it makes the situation even hotter by doing it we are game!
We enjoy soft lighting, good music, dancing is fun to add to the element of flirting...kissing, touching, you name it...we are there! We swang exclusively with couples for about 9 years and found that we were ready to move on to singles...now we have found that we LOVE having threesomes more than foursomes...to us it is just an issue of dynamics...it is much easier to relate to one person than two. It is often difficult to find couples where BOTH partners feel completely attracted in the same way...atleast in our experience and some of the people we know anyway...
We will share more after everyone else jumps in...lol.
Mrs. Luvbugs!
This is more fun than the politics! HE can have fun with THAT thread!
We enjoy a sort of orgy style, everyone on one bed or section of floor and an oral free for all. We do not do full swap simply because we prefer to keep that as a sexual act that will always be ours. We have done a full threesome with a single guy before, and we have talked about doing the same with a single girl. We dont want to swap with a couple where we feel one of us is \'taking one for the team\'.
We usually end upstairs at the Red Rooster on a Fri or Sat and hook up with whoever is in the room. Some people we have hooked up with numerous times with others have been one hit wonders and sometimes we dont even know there name.
We usually end upstairs at the Red Rooster on a Fri or Sat and hook up with whoever is in the room. Some people we have hooked up with numerous times with others have been one hit wonders and sometimes we dont even know there name.
We would first of all Luvbug our preference is to swing with you. :-) We like to get together for a good meal, some wine and then slow lingering sex play. Just kind of go with the flow and do what feels good. We prefer same room so we can see each other being pleased and share the feelings.
Hi All .. Merry Christmas to everyone. Luvbugs thanks for posting this idea. We enjoy an evening of dancing and visiting to start the night out. In this way we all can flirt and raise the levels of excitement. When we get to our house a short visit to the Hot Tub starts things, after all our tub is \"NOT\" clothing optional (no option at all to wear clothes,,LOLOLOL ) We like same room and seperate room playtime depending on the couple we are with. Some couples are very into watching each other and we enjoy that too. We have found that we like one on one playtime as well. Threesomes are great. With all contact with another couple or person we get each others permission first. We don\'t feel it is cheating because when we get back home with each other the re-telling of the events takes place and escalates the mood for more fun.. We agree that we have found that with a lot of couples one or the other clik a bit easier. We don\'t know why that is but, just go with it. With all playing we reserve the right to say stop or no at any time .. even if in mid stroke.. And we tell anyone we are with to feel free to slow things or stop for a rest if they want. We have had the pleasure of making some really great new friends and love em.. I know ya can\'t explain it to anyone not open to the lifestyle.
One thing I would like to add \"Guys\" don\'t go pushing your lady into this. If anyone contacts us and are in the new status or looking to start or how do I get my wife to go for this mode. We encourage them to come to the house and have a visit where there are no expectations or pressure to do anything. In this manner the wife (or husband as we have met both) can ask any questions they want. We can all talk freely and get answers to anything we have experienced or ettiquette in the lifestyle. We don\'t know much, just what we like, and a private setting to talk sure beats the restaurant where the booth next to you has kids. Oh ya another thing, we tell folks no play first date. Sure drops the pressure... but sometimes it happens... oh ya.... wink wink...
Our 2 cents.. Rick and Nadean
One thing I would like to add \"Guys\" don\'t go pushing your lady into this. If anyone contacts us and are in the new status or looking to start or how do I get my wife to go for this mode. We encourage them to come to the house and have a visit where there are no expectations or pressure to do anything. In this manner the wife (or husband as we have met both) can ask any questions they want. We can all talk freely and get answers to anything we have experienced or ettiquette in the lifestyle. We don\'t know much, just what we like, and a private setting to talk sure beats the restaurant where the booth next to you has kids. Oh ya another thing, we tell folks no play first date. Sure drops the pressure... but sometimes it happens... oh ya.... wink wink...
Our 2 cents.. Rick and Nadean
We like to meet visitors to our area, after 20 min or so if the chemistry is good all around its play time in their room. With couples we prefer seperate beds, for three somes we prefer married males, we are VERY selective. Also we only play with persons over 55.
Hmmmm Let\'s See...
Same room. Same bed if possible...never apart. We enjoy being together when we have sex with others because so much of what we are doing is intended to turn on the other. Dont get me wrong, we are both very attentive lovers, but most of the excitement that we feel comes from observing the other be pleased.
We prefer it when we can spend time getting to know the person(s). It makes the sex so much better. We prefer a repeat perfomance to a one night stand for the same reason.
Even though I (Mr.) am str8, it pleases me to know that it turns her on to keep us both active with her at once, like DP. It has taught me to broaden my horizons, and forget my inhibitions about sex.
We are selective about with whom we share our sex lives. And for good reason. We have many friends online that we have spent time with in a completely platonic setting, and never taken it furthur. There are others that we cant seem to stop having sex with each and every time we see them, but we have little association with them outside of that. There are other yet that we onlyplay with when we see them in a club, or at a party. There are quite a few who think that we do not exsist at all, or refuse to believe that we are serious simply because we do not primarily meet with couples! LoL.
We are very diverse, and I think that it keeps us fresh and new in this lifestyle. We self evaluate our activities often, ensuring that we are still on the same heading and going at the same speed.
Well that\'s how we do it. Freely (with a clean heart). Honestly. (This speaks for itself) and Intelligently (we limit our experiences, quality over quantity). If we continue to do thingsthe right way, we will be doing this for a long time.
Luvbugs! (mR.)
Same room. Same bed if possible...never apart. We enjoy being together when we have sex with others because so much of what we are doing is intended to turn on the other. Dont get me wrong, we are both very attentive lovers, but most of the excitement that we feel comes from observing the other be pleased.
We prefer it when we can spend time getting to know the person(s). It makes the sex so much better. We prefer a repeat perfomance to a one night stand for the same reason.
Even though I (Mr.) am str8, it pleases me to know that it turns her on to keep us both active with her at once, like DP. It has taught me to broaden my horizons, and forget my inhibitions about sex.
We are selective about with whom we share our sex lives. And for good reason. We have many friends online that we have spent time with in a completely platonic setting, and never taken it furthur. There are others that we cant seem to stop having sex with each and every time we see them, but we have little association with them outside of that. There are other yet that we onlyplay with when we see them in a club, or at a party. There are quite a few who think that we do not exsist at all, or refuse to believe that we are serious simply because we do not primarily meet with couples! LoL.
We are very diverse, and I think that it keeps us fresh and new in this lifestyle. We self evaluate our activities often, ensuring that we are still on the same heading and going at the same speed.
Well that\'s how we do it. Freely (with a clean heart). Honestly. (This speaks for itself) and Intelligently (we limit our experiences, quality over quantity). If we continue to do thingsthe right way, we will be doing this for a long time.
Luvbugs! (mR.)
Chrissy and I enjoy the lifestyle when we meet like minded people who are totally open with their sexuality when it comes to the bedroom. We are both bisexual, and to meet that elusive bisexual couple would make it awesome. We also like to play str8, don\'t get me wrong, it is just an awesome experience when all 4 individuals can play with one another, regardless of sex.
We also like to be in the same room, as we get off watching each other give and receive pleasure. We will soft swap or full swap, whatever the other couple is comfortable with. We would never impose our bisexuality on anyone, nor should it be a deterrent for str8 couples.
We are just sexual people, and the love we share is great together, but, we also like to share our love with others, which is why we love the lifestyle, because it gives us that opportunity.
Ron & Chrissy
We also like to be in the same room, as we get off watching each other give and receive pleasure. We will soft swap or full swap, whatever the other couple is comfortable with. We would never impose our bisexuality on anyone, nor should it be a deterrent for str8 couples.
We are just sexual people, and the love we share is great together, but, we also like to share our love with others, which is why we love the lifestyle, because it gives us that opportunity.
Ron & Chrissy