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Christain Swingers? - - We have to say from our church background and understanding of scripture (and we were both unpaid ministry when we married...how things change lol!) that the answer is a big NO. Now we do not practice our faith at all and have totally fallen out due to some other reasons that we don't really want to get into. Not trying to start a flame war or change anyone else mind, if you still have faith, more power to you!:D This is just our personal understanding of the Bible, for us being a Christain Swinger is the same as a Jewish Nazi, it's just not going to work. Of course the church thing has had us so screwed up anymore that we hope we are wrong. We are on here as well, so you know who our friends are. Just two more people the church has shot in the back of the head and rolled into the ditch, Art and Dawn

Required info for swingers - - haven't seen that one yet, we will have to check it out.

looking for a fun gal - dating more - "any ideas are greatly appreciated" Ok.... I have a lot of lady friends that are very open minded but they would never be found on a swingers website and would not be interested in swinging. If you are just looking for a "cool chick to hang with" and are not looking for a single female swinger I'd say check out the regular dating sites. If I suddenly became single you would NOT find me here....I'd look for a regular relationship FIRST....

On Premise Swingers Club - SLC - Is there any good swinger clubs in las vegas we are going there next month and would like to play ?

Why did you join Swingular? - Wondering what brings people here - Someone turned us on to the site, and we are trying to make new friends in the Tampa area. Lots of swingers here in Florida, and we look forward to meeting you. R & C

Is anybody on this site for fucking real or just a bunch of tease - - [quote=Nitrohawk1]I have come down to the conclusion that single males here are not really wanted, 90% of the couples are looking for for unicorns which to me seems pretty biased. Not to mention the couples I have talked to flaked and others just treat me like crap. If I have sent anyone near me a friend request and you didn't want it just ignore it like I normally send in a message.[/quote] Single males are very wanted here, in the right circles. But they should only EVER be reaching out when someone is posting up looking for that. Any other time will come off as pushy or entitled. Yes, a very high percentage of swingers in Utah joined swingular with the unicorn in mind. Over time through meeting and parties they find some amazing couple friends and do move into swapping once in a while. That’s their niche, not sure how you view it as biased. Utah has always been very suppressed with bi-sexuality and the ladies have gotten to a point in their lives they want to explore that. Your profile is NOT a single guy, it’s guy with a pass. For us personally that is the lowest on our list we would ever look for. It raises so many questions - does she really allow it? If so why? Is it so bad she would rather you go out and play? What is she doing while your out prowling? Not judging you, but this is what most think looking at the profile. You need to search out parties and meets single guys are allowed to hit and start meeting people in person. If your honest playing won’t be an issue. There is a huge learning curve from deciding to swing and actually playing. Using swingular as a dating medium to meet other couples is the most frustrating thing I’ve ever done. Some tips, make sure you both have K!k and make sure they do too. Let the wives setup the meeting. Beware anyone sending friends requests blindly. Beware people sending friends requests that have no private picts. With the feet draggers that always have something planned, just move on. If they are honestly just busy they will message when they have time.

Who is going to Younge swingers week HEDO? - anyone going? - We have not been yet, but are wanting to. Is March, July, or October the best time of year for Young Swinger's Week?

Are you a Swinger or Liver? - - Lmao 😂 wow!! This post…. The problem your having isn’t that your lifestyle as a “liver” is wrong, it’s the fact that you are contradicting yourself . You can’t expect others to not have have rules but have them yourself. It’s not single males that are the issue either, rather the lack of respect/socialization. Everyone is here to have a good time and not everyone is going to be your cup of tea. A lot of swingers I know are mature, respectful and want the same thing in return. Maybe just your experience and what your looking for is the problem.

Why do you swing? - Why not? - [quote=DEEPMOAN]I started early in college, wasn’t called swinging but partying, had been with women already but the threesomes and larger parties started then too. Had gotten married after grad school to someone that hadn’t experienced any of it. Started as pillow talk when he asked about my past, I asked him then if he seriously wanted to know, in the back of my mind I knew I shouldn’t bring it up. But things in bed weren’t great and I had tried and was trying to talk about it but he didn’t take suggestions well. So I thought putting it all out there might help. In the beginning it did help, we were trying new stuff just between the two of us but always talking. Then he asked if I still knew anyone, told them pretty much everyone you have met of my friends had been or still are involved. He asked if I what sex with her or her or her, but then reluctantly asked if I had sex with him or him and told him. Those two I had threesomed with, been with her and her and him and him. We would have great sex while I was telling him about the parties or whatever. I asked him if he wanted to go to a party sometime? I made sure I asked while we were not having sex so he could absorb it all or hope he would. At that point personally I don’t think I would need to swing but the thought of starting up again was certainly exciting for me as well. Am sure you can probably understand how this all went. Unfortunately he didn’t have the mind for swinging, talking about it or fantasizing about it he did. Thought the best thing would be for me to invite a couple over. Friends of mine that he had gotten to know, he was quite taken by her. I had always had a great time with them. I spoke to them both to see if they were interested, told them how we got to this point. They said they would be up for, us three agreed we would take it slow and let him try and get a handle on how things progressed. Had asked him if he wanted to be in the same room with things heated up? We would see how it went and make a decision then. My gf thought it might be better if they were separate and he didn’t have to worry about me in the room with him. All went great, dinner and drinks, out by their pool, the 4 of us were talking about all and at one point Tina grabbed him and took him to their bedroom. Was telling him I had no idea how this was going to go, but relaxed and started having some fun myself. Very shortly after I could hear them in the kitchen, she and I had talked that before they came out she would take him somewhere close so I would know they were on their way out and I could stop rather than be in the middle of something. Her husband knew as well. Tina and my husband were telling us how much fun they had but I knew something didn’t go well. Finding out he was asking Tina about my past, all sorts of questions, things he didn’t ask me. Of course Tina’s response to all were I don’t know, we got home and in bed I was asking how it went, he was telling me a bunch of shit, how he got her off, how much she loved it, a lot more of the same, also how much of a stud he was and she did things I never did. He asked what we did, told him not much, mostly talk, had given him oral, why just that, because you were gone less than a half hour, but told him we were talking. So much for the great sex after. Like I said earlier, he just didn’t have the mind for it, nothing I was going to do or say would have changed that I believe. After we went to a couple of house parties, but the pillow talk had stopped and knowing after he saw me had sex at a house party it wasn’t going to continue like our marriage, snide comments about me with other men and other reasons were the end of our marriage. Was meant to be single, truly believe that even when I get a romantic connection now with a partner, man or woman.[/quote] That really sucks. Sorry to hear that. It makes me laugh (cringe?) when I hear so many swingers talking about vanilla hunting and/or converting their friends to swinging. The harsh truth is that MOST people simply cannot handle swinging and are best left to their fantasies about fucking other people recreationally.

Party Games - - We\'ve played around with a computer game called 4 play, from rwb productions, its kinda of like a monopoly style game but for swingers. Haven\'t ahd a chance to see what it might be like in a party situation but might be worth checking out...... Tandvplay