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Other activities? - Do you only meet swingers for sex? - 90% of the people we meet we meet for friendship only......... there are only 10% that we click with to go further. We think the open friendship is the best part of the lifestyle.
Its nice to have friends for clubbing, camping, bowling, etc......... One\'s that aren\'t shocked at your behavior...LOL
Our lifestyle friends are probably the best friends we\'ve ever had..... Must be what we have in common huh?
Tampa Meet & Greet - M&M / Shylatin Parties Tampa Meet & Greet - ALT PATHWAY
Friday AUGUST 7TH
9:00 PM Until Whenever
Ladies Drink 2 for 1
YOU HAVE BEEN WAITING AND YOU HAVE ASKED SO M & M PARTIES ALONG WITH SHYLATIN HAVE LISTENED.
WE HAVE CUM TO TAMPA!!
YES YOU HEARD IT RIGHT WE ARE HERE WE ARE HAVING OUR FIRST TAMPA MEET N GREET!!
IF YOU HAVE EVER BEEN TO ONE OF OUR PARTIES YOU KNOW WE MAKE EVERYTHING ABOUT THE PEOPLE!!
WE ARE REAL SWINGERS THROWING SWINGER PARTIES!!
WE INTEND TO MAKE EVERYONE COMFORTABLE AND HAPPY!!
ALT PATHWAYS IS A GREAT RESTAURANT AND STILL HAS THAT LOUNGE/CLUB ATMOSPHERE!!
FROM A NICE COZY SECTION AROUND THE BAR TO SIT AND ENJOY CONVERSATION. TO A STEP DOWN AREA WHERE THE MUSIC WILL
BE JAMMIN THE LATEST MUSIC.
DJ MISA AND MR SHYLATIN WILL KEEP THE DANCE FLOOR PACKED.
DONATIONS FOR THE EVENT ARE AS FOLLOWS:
COUPLES: $15.OO
SINGLE MALES: $25.00
SINGLE FEMALES: FREE
A $5.00 COUPON FOR FOOD WILL ALSO BE GIVEN AT THE DOOR!!
SO CUM MAKE A NIGHT OF IT ARRIVE A LITTLE EARLY EAT DINNER THEN SIT BACK GET TO KNOW SOME NEW ONES CATCH UP
WITH SOME OLD FRIENDS AND THEN GO PARTY ON THE DANCE FLOOR.
LOCATED 1 block East of 275 off of Bush Blvd.
The address is 810 E. Skagway Ave -
Tampa, Florida - 33604 .
The club phone # is 813-932-7400.
Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - I like to join the group I been off for alittle bit , is time to jump back in see Familiar faces :)
swingin - thought this site was a swingers site - BTW if u think my post is stupid WHY r u replying to it and u r caling ME stupid!!!!!
Have a good day
swinger ? or not. - - I am a widower. My late wife and I were swingers in the Seattle/Tacoma area for years. I remained a swinger when she died. A year ago I moved to be close to my grandkids and even though I would like to continue, the clubs out here don't want single men; even if they have 25 years experience in the lifestyle. Find me a private party though, and I will be there.
michigan ?. can anyone help us out. - - were looking for a swingers bar, club, hangout. so we can meet new people in the lifestyle
to hang out with and make some friends. so if you can please let us know.
thank you
watcher
An out of this world (or state) encounter - swinging parties - [quote=HOTFIRELOVERS]I love you ABC Women you described utah parties very well. You are AWESOME!!! We have had soooo much fun and we are non drama people. However most parties have one or two that make it not as fun but you chose to respond how you want. Looks do not matter as much to us. We just like having a good time. That is what I hope everyone is trying to do. We enjoy all the parties soooo far keep them coming!!! goooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo swingers!!!! [/quote]
Yeah...what they said! Have to agree..ABC has it dead on..in our experience!
Personal Web Page - - We never worried about the webpage here. We have our own. http://www.swingers.ws
How to get Girl on GIRL...solo??? - trying to find that elusive, no drama, chick - I'll chime-in reiterating what other have said. First, the reason these single females disappear, never meeting you is because they are horny guys playing online games and looking at pictures to get-off.
Second, we agree with Thoughtgarden 100%. EVERY FMF we've had came from the most unexpected place when we weren't even looking at the moment. These are women we met at non-swinger parties, night clubs, etc.
I think this is because for the most part, unlike single guys, single women are not actively pursuing threesomes and moresomes. Single women are not creating the number of profiles on swingers sites like single men. If they happen, great. If they don't, that's okay too. It's now that they aren't interested, they're just not out there pursuing it on a daily basis.
A couple of suggestions:
1) Look everywhere. Remember when you used to go out to clubs by yourself or with a friend when you were single and you'd meet someone? Same thing, except now you're doing it as a couple. Instead of boy picking-up girl, or girl picking-up guy, it's now couple picking-up girl. You are BOTH dating her, not just one of you.
2) Couples is a good place to start, even if you are not interested in full swap right now. Going to the meet and greets and getting to know people and them getting to know you helps. You may find a couple that is okay with playing solo and would love to fulfill your fantasy with wifey playing with you two. But, if you don't get out there and get known to people you'll never find them.
Good luck! And keep trying. We were in the lifestyle as a full swap couple for quite a while before our first FMF, and it literally came-out of thin air when we were least expecting it.
Playing Alone - - Couples all have different rules. Many categorically refuse to play alone with ANYONE ever. This is their "security" place. They feel comfortable in the place where they can see each other and "protect" if necessary. It takes some people a long time to get passed this.
It's kind of a 'control' thing leftover from the vanilla life. I'm not saying it's bad, good or indifferent it's just the way it is. Some people take longer to get passed their histories as vanillas than others. As they progress and get more comfortable with themselves, the lifestyle, their partners then they will slowly open up and begin to trust a bit more.
Don't take it personally, that's the key. Many people still hang on to their vanilla background that their partners are their most 'valued' possession. I liken it to my $450 deep sea fishing reel. Sure I'll loan it to someone to use if I'm on the boat with them and can make sure they're taking care of it. Is there anyone I'd just let 'borrow' it out right for the day or weekend? Not a chance in hell.
It takes time to let go of that 'she's/he's mine' get feeling. I think my wife and I took almost 6 years before we got there successfully. We tried many times before that but it never worked out well for either of us. We finally came to a point where it's okay to play separately everything from next room to next state it no longer bothers us. I personally prefer within 30 - 50 miles so she get's home faster for the "after play" sex you're describing (which I really like too.)
You'll have to find a VERY secure, VERY established, VERY strong couple to fulfill your fantasy. They are out there, my wife and I for example but even though we're open to playing separately are we open to YOU playing with her or me separately? That's a different level of trust. Does it mean no? No. It means "maybe" in time it's a possibility. (I'm speaking hypothetically of course.)
Don't worry your "couple" or "person" will come along. You might also try investigating a subsection of the lifestyle called "hotwifeing" while I know few swingers who are hardcore into only hotwifing, there are quite a few that tip toe in that part of the lifestyle (quick def, she plays he doesn't except with her.) That's the post play joy for you and the play and post play joy for her. Most people just bounce between that and swinging. There are people out there just be patient and don't expect it from any current playmates that you have established rules with, they need to progress at their own speed.
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