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On a serious note... - A court case that could effect lifestylers with children -
IMPORTANT COURT CASE MAY AFFECT SWINGERS WITH CHILDREN NATIONWIDE!!!
URGENT NOTICE TO RESPONSIBLE PARTICIPANTS IN THE ADULT LIFESTYLE
This Notice is directed to all swingers, exotic dancers, adult
business owners and anyone involved in the adult industry. There is a
very important legal case going on in the state of Florida which can
affect everyone in the swinging and adult community nationwide who
has children under the age of 18.
Deltadawn who is a fairly well known member of the swinging community
in the Tampa Florida area has lost her right to see her 2 1/2 year
old baby girl simply due to being a swinger. Deltadawn had shared
custody of her 2 1/2 year old baby girl with her "ex," who happens to
be an attorney. He found out that she was in the swinging lifestyle
and has filed a motion with the Hernando County Court of Florida to
remove all of her parental rights, primarily on the basis of her
swinger lifestyle.
THE OUTCOME OF THIS CASE COULD HAVE VERY SERIOUS AND
DETRIMENTAL REPERCUSSIONS FOR EVERYONE IN THE ADULT LIFESTYLE.
The outcome of this case is critical and could set precedent for
everyone involved in any form of the adult lifestyle nationwide. If
the argument that participating in the adult lifestyle reflects
adversely on parental rights, losing this case could open a Pandora's
Box for lifestylers with children across the country. An adverse
decision in this action could mean that anyone, gay or straight, with
children could be at risk of losing their children and having their
parental rights stripped away, simply because of the lifestyle that
we all enjoy. Swingers and everyone in the adult entertainment
industry would have to live in fear that they may be turned in and
could lose their children simply because of our lifestyle choice.
WINNING THIS CASE COULD HELP ESTABLISH CASE PRECEDENT AND HELP
PROTECT OUR PARENTAL AND CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS
Winning this case will mean loving parents do not have to live in
fear that our legal system, some governmental agency, or some
adversarial parent, will have the ability right to terminate your
parental rights or take your children, simply because of a lifestyle
choice that never involves well nurtured children.
The rejection of private sexual lifestyle as a basis for terminating
parental rights will set precedent that could serve to protect those
in the lifestyle or in the adult entertainment business from
unjustified intrusions into their personal lives. Under the U.S.
Constitution we should have the right to our lifestyle choice without
censure, condemnation and fear of losing our children.
Deltadawn has retained Luke Lirot as her attorney in her fight to
maintain her parental rights. Luke Lirot is one of the premier
Constitutional and adult civil rights attorneys in the country (you
can do an internet search of him to verify his credentials). He is
constantly traveling all over the country defending peoples civil
rights and is a true champion of justice. He is constantly in the
newspaper and often appears on television nationwide. As any lawyer,
he depends on his clients to provide him with a living, and Justice
comes at a price. Deltadawn needs your help...
We need all people involved in the swinging community and adult
industry, nationwide, to reach into their pockets and contribute to
her legal defense fund by donating what help they can to attorney
Luke Lirot.
THE OUTCOME OF THIS CASE COULD HELP US ALL
Please make checks or money orders payable to: LUKE LIROT, P.A.
(Please write in "Deltadawn Legal Defense Compensation" in the memo
section of your check or money order)
For further information, please contact:
Luke Lirot
Attorney and Counselor at Law
112 N. East Street, Suite B
Tampa, FL 33602
(Tel) 866-387-8469 (TOLL FREE), OR 813-221-9533
(Fax) 813-221-9175
Email: [email protected]
We sincerely appreciate your goodwill and support in this urgent and
important matter!
POST SCRIPT FROM LUKE LIROT:
This legal battle is truly tough. Deltadawn's lifestyle experiences
are being used as a weapon to try and take a loving child, much in
need of her mother's love, away from her. To stop this effort, we
must employ every possible tool at our disposal. We need the services
of psychologists, social workers, and other professionals to show
that Lifestyle characteristics, never revealed or foisted on any
child, have no detrimental impact on children.
Under Florida law, like virtually every other jurisdiction in the
nation, the factors evaluated by the courts are whether parental
contact "is in the best interests of the child." To do this, we need
to show that participation in the Lifestyle, in and of itself, does
not make anyone a bad parent.
There are only a few formalities. Under Florida Law, Rule 4-1.8(f) of
the Rules Regulating the Florida Bar governs "Compensation by Third
Party," and allows for parties unrelated to the litigation to pay
fees and costs on the clients behalf.
The Rule states:
Compensation by Third Party. A lawyer shall not accept compensation
for representing a client from one other than the client unless:
1)The client consents after consultation;
2)There is no interference with the lawyer's independence or
professional judgment or with the client/lawyer relationship; and
information relating to representation of a client is protected as
required by Rule 4-1.6 (confidentiality of information)."
If these conditions are acceptable to you, and you care about this
important case, we would welcome your help.
These donations are not tax deductible, but they are evidence of true
human kindness. Thank you!
-Luke Lirot-
A paradigm shift - polyamory - Your thoughts? Here are mine... - Hitting the topic of Poly.... I am poly my wife is not. We swing. I have a lady friend, spice if you will who is also married and her husband is not poly and they do not swing. We, all 4 of us are fast friends and both my wife and her husband have no problem with her's and my arrangement. THey also know that We swing. Now how did that person come into our life.. we met and became friends almost immediatly. I fell in love with her but am sill "IN love with my wife as well. I< we, like to become friends with people before we jump into the sack with them... BTW they both know that we swing. Could I fall in love with another woman, definitely.. Could I fall for a woman who we might swing with....I could and have. No biggy...If she is not into that I understand... Not everyone can handle the situation
Some one mentioned that jealousy are natural.... Only in the sense that by example we are programmed to them, just as we are not "taught " not to eat other people but we kind of get that impression...Canibalism(sp) is not acceptable any more than is marrying ones own sister or brother. Possessiveness is about owning somthing that is not yours to own. No one owns anyone else and especially not their spouse. Is it natural to own a person? I say no. Somehow when people get into a relationship the idea creeps in that says that the other person is your exclusive property. One need to put that aside if one is a swinger. As for jealousy.... Jealousy is a combination of both possessiveness and ones own insadequacies. Maybe one could describe that as fear.. Fear that she or he will meet someone better. Fear that we are not good enough, etc etc etc. So Jealousy is a reaction to these fears and the possessiveness not a true emotion at all. Everyone thinks of Jealousy as an emotion, which it is not.
So polyamory is very possibly with swinging but may purists of poly will say that poly and swinging are difinitely two different things... Maybe but they can exist simultaneously.
Just a note; More than 60% and I've seen figures up to 77% of all married couples, and I'm sure that it extends to LTR's as well...maybe even swingers, are at some time in their life engaged in serial monogamy..; i.e., either cheating or getting ready for the split-up. Isn't this a simpler form of or something like poly? ... THink about that....
This one time at Swingers Camp - Discussion about N by N camp out - Damn we missed meeting so many people most we didn't even know went up there so just a idea how about another campout before the end of the year. To all we met thanks and to all we didn't meet hopefully next time. Thanks again host hostess and all that helped
network swingers - - So...who is Hosting a "swingtown" party?
Swinging and Children Don't Mix With Me, What about You? - Unforgettable experience - I have to say, having children and trying to meet with couples can be very hard on your lifestlye. Family always comes first in my book, but it doesn't seem like every parent thinks that, which is why I'm letting you know why they should start thinking about it.
We thought that maybe if we could meet with a couple that also have a child or has children, that we could have a better, lasting relationship and have other things to enjoy with these couples, besides just swinging. Well, one couple didn't work out with us and I don't know how to go about letting them know they were wrong in what happened.
I'm the only one that even seemed to get upset about the situation and I wanted to get others opionion to make sure I don't owe an opology to them. Here's what happened.....
Me and my husband met with a couple at a swingers club, which was off-premise, and we talked some and explained we had children and that we wanted to meet with couples, but it was hard with younsters and it was also hard to find a reliable and trusting babysitter to be able to enjoy the night out. They the told us they had a child and that if we wanted to talk more and get to know each other better, that we could come to their home for a dinner, with our kids. Now...we explained up front that we don't play seperate and we definitely did not play if we had our children with us. They said that it wouldn't be a problem, no hank-panky with kids around, because they too had a small one. This sounded really great to us, because we thought we found a good couple to be friends with and have some extra benefits too, if we wanted.
Well, things started out okay. We were greeted at the door by the family, and our kids was introduced to their child, and was showed some computer games and such to play. That gave us time to talk a little to the couple and was shown the outside of their home and such before dinner. After dinner is when everything went WRONG. First, I had to go to the bathroom. Well, while I was gone to the bathroom, the Mrs. decide to give my hubby a tour of the rest of the house, mainly the extra bedroom....and when I asked the hubby where my hubby was, he said.."Don't worry about them, they'll be okay for awhile"...well, that really ticked me off, especially knowing our children were now mixed up in this...and our oldest asking where his daddy went with that lady.....that was about the last straw for me....but I was in these peoples home, not mine, and I respect others homes, but in this situation, I was ready to leave, and without my other half....because he too knew our rules of playing.
Well, when the Mrs. and mine came back up, my other half knew I was mad, but for some strange reason, he felt like he had to still play around with her, and in the same room all the children were in!!!! Not to mention, she couldn't keep her hands off him, which was not making my situation of trying to calm down any easier.
When I finally got my hubby alone, I "very persistantly" told him me and the kids were leaving...NOW..and if he was smart he had better be out the front door before me or I would leave him there, and I truely meant it. I was so angry and hurt by all of the happenings around me, I thought that if this is what it's like to try and swing...FORGET IT...my nerves or marriage weren't going to stay together if this is what I had to look forward to everytime.
My hubby didn't get out the door before me..he was too busy kissing the Mrs good-bye....and I mean french-kissing..... but, thank Goodness I got the kids out the door before me....and that didn't help out any on his part, believe me. We stopped swinging for many years after that because of trust with one another and with other couples saying one thing and then doing another.
This particular couple apparently feels that nothing was wrong with what happened, and actually contacted us again after many, many, many years after this incident happened.
I'm not one either to "shun" anyone, but this expereince really bothered me then, and still does, and after them contacting us again, through an e-mail, not by phone, it makes me wonder about my feelings on the matter.
Am I wrong to feel this way, even after all these years? I do trust my husband NOW, after the bad expereinces, because there was one more after that, but it took alot of talking, yelling, and regaining a trust that is hard to achieve after something that drastic that involved your kids in the process.
I e-mailed them back, but I know it was short and blunt, nothing mean, I don't do things like that, but what if they try again to contact us...what do I say?
Any help/advice/opinions is appreciated.
Hope no one ever has to expereince something like this...most marriages would never have lasted unless you really had a great understanding with your mate, and we put ours to the test and passed.......barely.
International Swingers Day - How are you celebrating? - We are headed to the New Yorker and have a room downtown
Swingers in Draper cause Super Dell to speed - - It this keeps up, legislature will soon require that we all carry a concelled swingers permit.
Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - It sounds like a great idea, we too are also looking for people that we can trust and let it all go. Count us in.!
Nuendo - Battle of the bands - ok fellow swingers, we need your votes! It seems a band came outta no where and is no leading by 40 votes! Please if you wouldnt mind, go to http://www.klzxfm.com/greatunsigned and vote for N-U-endo !
Thanks,
Mike & Denise
Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - we would just like to say for all those who are in uniform and are fighting for this great country we salute you you are real class people and we have alot of respect for all of you,and lets all not forget what the are fighting for, your rights to be free to keep peace here for all our families.and once agian we salute all of you!!!!!!!!!!
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