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Happy 6/9 - Best day of the year - Happy 6/9!
Congress is voting on making June 9 National Swingers Day. Post your favorite 6/9 photos!
New Yorker this weeknd? - - There’s an event at the New Yorker this coming Thursday the 19th.. not a “swingers”event but still going to be a lot of swingers in attendance. Thank me later
Friend collectors or swingers - - My opinion, which hasn't changed in ages, is this, and I'm not chastising anyone, just offering my 2 cents.
One of the recurring and biggest problem that swingers face is that they decide what they personally like, or want, and then assume everyone else should choose the same path or they don't understand why how everyone else doesn't feel the same way they do. I've read the forum posts for years and the same questions recirculate on a regular basis. "Why don't people want to be the type of swingers we are?" "We don't want friends, we just want to have sex." "We don't necessarily want to have sex until we are friends." "We really only want friends but rarely play." All valid forms of the lifestyle and perfectly acceptable to different people.
The lifestyle can take work. It typically isn't easy and will take some time and effort to achieve your lifestyle goals. Sure it's helpful to post your desires in your profile but I'm sure people read those only rarely, or maybe they are drunk searching, or maybe they can't read. :) There are all types. Try not to get frustrated because someone else isn't following you lead. Be patient. Within one or two convos you should be expressing your goals and figuring out the goals of the people you are trying to get to know. Get a system that weeds out the people you are't interested in, something that works for you. You will get better with time and hopefully someday what you are looking for will be much easier to find.
However, until then, realize life isn't black and white, nor is swinging. There are as many varieties of swingers as there are ice cream flavors, or flavored condoms. haha. Don't expect others to want the same thing as you but certainly look for those that do. Be patient, kind and realize everyone is possibly looking for a different scenario than you. Some people love to send blind requests, some hate it. Right or wrong, it's life. Accept that there is mound of bullshit between you and that perfect couple/single male/female/trans/group/poly/donkey/toys only/DTF.... (Well, you get the point we are all looking for something different)that you are looking for.
So don't be frustrated. Accept it will be a challenge and work on better ways to make your life easier. There won't be a good answer only many shades of grey.
"Don't try to bend the spoon, for that is impossible. Instead, only try to realize the truth... there is no spoon. Then you will see it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself."
And to the single males that post ridiculous stuff? WTF? Ugh. You make us all look like mentally disabled Neanderthals.
"Me have dick. Me like pussy. Stick it good."
Game ON....which sign is Hornier...(is that a word?) - zodiac signs of swingers? - Here are the totals as of 4-7-09 9:30am:
Scorpio 13
Gemini 12
Cancer 11
Virgo 10
Aries 9
Sagittarius 8
Libra 8
Leo 6
Capricorn 6
Pisces 5
Taurus 5
Aquarius 4
Swingers Club - Swingers Club - There's a Chinese Buffet/Swing Club? Why wasn't I told about this?
I'd like a number 7. You get egg rolls with that, right? A number 12, oh and some crab wontons. (And some hot unicorns.) [em]Emo_84[/em]
And I have a coupon from The Clipper...
Spitroast - Mfm - [quote=COUPLE4_U]Single male swingers,,,, Really doesn’t make any sense to me[/quote]
So if you’re single and a cpl is looking for a single female, works for you?whats the difference in between a single m or f? Is basically what the cpl needs…
Swingers in the Mountains - - Is there really a swinger's convention in Alta right now???
Seeking mormon swingers - - [quote=EVILDOERS]Exactly [i]how[/i] Mormon we talkin' here? I'd wager that a fairly good portion of swingers in Utah are or were Mormons at one time. We're [i]technically[/i] still Mormons so I guess we should get together and play Strip Know Your Gospel and or Spin The Book of Mormon. It's MUCH hotter when you think you're gonna finally get to see the goodies and you really only end up seeing some sexy garments. [em]Emo_100[/em] [/quote]
Alle-fucking-luya, we got sum balivars up in this bich!
We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - As an open couple i can say its not abnormal to find that alot of people are NOT what they say they are.. Take us for the ride of your life... We CAN promise no drama and lots of naked times... We are here not to find friends but to have sex and if the people we fuck end up as friends then so be it and if not then thanks for the sex hehehe... We have time on our hands and would NEVER do that to another couple or person...
upside down pineapple? - - [quote=JULESVERNE]Just was told that displaying a pineapple upside down is a way of advertising that you are a swinger. In 20 years of being in the lifestyle, how have we missed this?[/quote]
Greetings from your fellow 20+ yr. LS veterans.
I think is a forced meme with more fuzz than action. But is relatively new, 4 yrs at most. You haven't missed anything. We would not approach anyone using an upside down pineapple because there are plenty of safer, foolproof ways to meet playbuddies. Also, what if I'm wearing a pineapple upside down at the mall and a single male approaches us about it? My pineapple will for sure go up his ass and then I'll lose it.
As per urban dictionary,
The pineapple represents hospitality and welcoming. A pineapple is placed on a porch or mail box by swingers to signify that a swinger party is going on. A pineapple is turned upside down when a person is in search of a swinger party. Originally it was turned up side down in the individuals shopping cart. But pineapple popularity has made it accepts on clothes and other items. Swingers use this symbol to identify each other in public.
I'll stick to the good ol' internet or quality, single male free LS gatherings. There are plenty of those.
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