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Single dudes - - [quote=JEFFSMITH1972]It's the way it works. Generally you swingers want the hottest of the hot, to enrich the fantasy. Taller than 6' with a huge cock is usually what you shoot for. "In the U.S. population, about 14.5 percent of all men are six feet or over...3.9 percent of adult men are 6'2" or taller" So you are shooting for less than 15% of males. Throw in the other desirable traits you want, and they are going to be massively in demand wherever they go. If they have any sort of social skills they can easily get a night of sex outside of the swinger life, so they are less likely to jump on the wife, and much more likely to cancel at the last second when something they view as more desirable pops up.[/quote] I don’t think you get it, just looking for honesty and integrity, find an excuse and that makes you feel better not the rest of us, but what ever

Swingers Party - Doesnt mean who ever is there is open to everyone elsa - first and foremost, boundaries must always be respected and no one ever has the right to do things to another person without their permission. however, i also acknowledge that at a party where the intention/perception that playing will or is occurring can create some areas of "unknown". it is important to find out what is ok and when it is ok. for some, that means french kissing within the first few minutes, others may not. i have seen different ways that people have tried to find out. the simplest and most direct is to ask. however, i have seen people do so by "testing the waters" - small hug, then a bigger one, then a peck, then a lingering kiss, then french kiss, etc. and at each step trying to "read" the body language of the other. and i have seen that some people have become so "desensitized" to some of these things that their starting point is further on the scale than others. i dont have a problem with someone trying to open-mouth kiss my wife (even if they have only met for 2 minutes - which she has done with some guys and girls that she was immediately attracted to). i have a problem if they try, she tells them "no", and then they try again. but we go to these parties with the mindset that if there is a mutual interest of the involved parties, then sex is a likely outcome for the evening (unless the party is a "meet-n-greet"). and for us, open-mouth kisses are part of foreplay with our partners. we have even had some parties that we have just "made-out" with some without engaging in sex. ultimately, it is important to find the common ground of what is acceptable for those involved and being respectful of that. it is also important to politely inform someone when they have crossed a boundary. it is unfair of us to expect that others implicitly know all of our boundaries.

Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - We would love to join the right couples. Mosstly for like minded friendship, but in regards to sex... Everyone has their thing, no offense to those who want condoms, but he finds them to be a turn off. He is too analytical, lol: if you kiss, do oral with your tongue, then fluids are exchanging! With birth control, vasectomy, etc... why use condoms? She also likes the idea of a guy loosing all control and not able to avoid cumming in her pussy. Ergo: tested and would love to find other couples who are safe, clean, D&D free, tested and can be regulars wihout too much worry.

Church Swingers, are they out there? - - well i don't know about you all, but we do the church thing, and if we had more of are fellow members that could understand the pleasure of sex we could be more open. But since are religaion is very against it. we have deside to keep are religain aspect to are self sence most have a hard time that we are the religain we are and that we are in the lifestyle. so if you can do both more power to you. my 2 cents MR.

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Clits, Dicks, Asses, and assorted body parts. - Parts are Parts. - Just to be the devil's advocate... why come to an adult dating site then shun truly adult pics???? Please allow me to respond... because I'm a little devil too and this is MY POST which YOU should have read? Please let me quote ME. "This is not a dig to the BPP's (Body Part Posters) because I believe you should post what you want to as long at it's within the rules set forth by the administrator. If someone doesn't like them then they should scroll on to what's behind the next door." I had hoped that "Disclaimer" would have covered any whiners who felt us kids would try and "shun truly adult pics". So let me get this right, "truly adult pics" require a ZOOM LENS. Match.COM is an "adult dating site" This is a Swingers Site.. (Notice the name Swinglar) LMAO "It's like city folks moving out to the country, and bringing all their city ways with them and imposing them on those already there" MENTALOS... if you want to post your wang go for it... and let me quote you. That's why there's a "next" button folks! We are all wating.... post that dick! (Please crop out the shirt... I'm shuning that fugger) Ewwww

Another reason swingers live longer. - - Ohhhhh..I see it now!!! A new job opportunity for me!! Why settle for squeezing your own..when you could have a professional do it for almost nothing? Hmmm..might even be able to franchize this.....

asking your swinger friend if you can join them. - - [quote=USSIR]Well, I have a co-worker that I have been friends with for a while and recently found they are a swingers, it wasn't shocking to me or anything just thought it was interesting. So some time has passed and I thought I wonder if I could join them sexually. To me it would just be awkward to as him that. Obviously I'm not going to ask him "hey can I bang your wife?" I don't care if it was both of them or just her, I've always thought she was hot and I consider my co-worker a good friend. So, how do I ask that and/or is it a bad idea? Thanks [/quote] As a single male also in this lifestyle who has faced a similar situation my advice would be to just openly talk about the lifestyle, involve both him and his wife in the convo casually over drinks one night when your just hanging out. Basically plant a seed and see if it grows, realistically if they are into the lifestyle and are open to the idea they will invite you, but its best to let them think its their idea to include you. For some couples it just might be out of bounds to include friends into their sexploits.

Anything but Habits?! - Chill Hangouts? - Habits is a fun club, and we've tried it out a few times, but we're not really into the club scene. We like to chill, play pool, drink beer, talk and listen to rock and roll.... is there any swingers places like this? Help!!!

Looking to establish a group of safe swingers - - Interested as well