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Black Rings - Do Swingers really? - Problem is many vanilla couples have black rings as well because they think it’s new/cool.
Swinging versus poly/open - - [quote=SEXYSLC30]I'm speculating here, but it seems the millennial generation as a whole is more open to an open/poly relationship, and it naturally is bleeding into Swingular as more and more younger/ish couples sign up.
We started out with very strict rules about emotions for others, ect. Now, we find ourselves on a spectrum where we still occasionally love the "wham bam, thank you mam" aspects of swinging (what were their names again...😁?), but after several years of that, we are now far more interested in developing relationships with the people we meet. Sometimes that means we have really good friends with benefits, however neither of us are closed to the possibility of dating the right person.
And I don't believe dating others leads to divorce, however not being honest and failing to communicate certainly does. And that applies to swingers and monagamous couples alike.[/quote]
I really relate to your comments and feel we are very similar. Maybe not to the point of dating others but we definitely want to have feelings for others as a couple and individually. The problem is that most of these open relationships seem to be very secretive which leads to distrust and hurt feelings which leads to more extreme behavior and we just don’t want to get caught in the middle of it.
We share and communicate everything, half the fun is turning everyone on which cant happen when it’s all secretive. We just feel more and more pressure to be fully open and people care
About our boundaries less and less. Guys start actively messaging and trying to sext my wife without asking me if that’s okay first. Women start getting extra demanding of my attention and then finding out their husbands know very little about what’s going on. Single guys who simply can’t be our friend as a couple and enjoy some occasional bull time with the wife without wanting more. It’s just been really odd for us these past 2 years.
We also feel that because the current culture of lifestyle parties is more open relationships, new couples get introduced to it and start thinking that’s the only way. So they either do it that way or leave the scene entirely. Our post is partially to let other newbies know there is another way.
At what point do you out yourselves to family and friends?? - - More people know than you think. We have two small kiddos and so mums the word around them, but as for adults well we don't tell anyone except the vibe we throw off to the univeres is contantly comeing back. Hell we don't even know we are throwing it, but We surely are even other swingers in Wal Mart, Gas stations anywhere and more and more we notice them too and then confirm it with them. They might as well be wearing a T-Shirt that say "I'm A Swinger" LOL So the answer lyes in you your vibe is the answer to your ?
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kisses Jeaaica and Tre
Swinger Friendly Businesses - Business or services friendly to swingers - I agree cuz I am looking for someone experienced with brazialian waxes. I would realy love to be waxed but the one time I tried I tore skin off so I think we need to find someone with experience. If anyone knows anyone send a email our way.
D is a carpenter (for 20 years) and he says he would also offer site members a discount.
I sell Scentsy and would also offer site members a discount. I am also offering any site member a FULL SIZE Warmer for hosting a party.
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Polyamory - Pro's and con's of Polyamory - Question... As a new and exploring member, I find it difficult to understand where the difference is between FWB, Polyamory, and Swingers. Don't we all fall into the same lifestyle classification? I understand what each is, but maybe there is more for me to understand.
Orgy Party by Swingers Circle in Las Vegas - - We have been talking about going to that too! Looks like fun but are a little hesitant. If you do go we would be interested in what you guys thought. We are looking at going to Vegas either the ending of March or first of April sometime.
ITS TIME FOR A NEW VIBRRRRRATOR - - tryhttp://www.a2zerotica.com an online adult toy store run by swingers for swingers. Joe n Ann
Late Night Television Ad for Swingular - Anyone interested? - [css]background:url('http://www.artofadambetts.com/images/postgraphics/downloads/desktopbgs/LeatherHoles-Apple.png');color:white;[/css][quote=XPLORR94248]Have you explored whether TV will take ads for a swinger site? And would an ad cost about the same nationally as in a local market? Cable and satellite have channels which sell toys and such as well as the W network with the canadian lady sexologist on Sunday nights...National and international coverage at least US and Canada...Just a thought that I'm sure you've probably thought of and explored already... [/quote]
The ad would be so discrete, it wouldn't mention anything about swingers so the networks wouldn't have any problem accepting it. We would rather target one market at a time to concentrate the membership in that area which in turn would 'blow up' in itself. Once we achieve that, we would move on to the next area. However, we will be launching a huge Canadian campaign once we finish the new site because it will be ready to support a Canadian membership.
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Un Cut Cocks - What do the ladies think of uncut cocks? - I just read a thread on another forum about this issue. The forum is LPSG, which stands for Large Penis Support Group. Anyway, the thread was a poll for female members to answer as to whether or not they would circumsize their future male children. The poll also included the women's own opinions about sexual preferences for cut, or uncut cocks. The female members voted for uncut in both regards. While some of these female members are into swinging, most of them are up for monogamy, so the poll results may not ve relevant for swingers.
I can understand your situation, but this year I actually started desire to be uncut. I believe that the extra skin has a purpose, just as pubic hair has a purpose. I do recall reading that it provided a tad bit more stimulation to the vaginal walls during penetration.
Partners with hall Passes - - [quote=HAMMER_AND_FQ]Bummer you haven't found single guys worthwhile. (This is the Mrs. by the way.) I guess we have just been lucky in that department. So many people bash single guys and I just don't understand why. We play separate more and more often. We have a harder time finding single women or women with hall passes. Maybe because I am the picky one :) I mean if I am going to share my incredibly sexy and amazing man she better be worth my night alone watching the kids! So ladies, please let me know if you're game to play. All you need to do is read our profile to see what "worth it" would mean to us. I also find it amusing how so many swingers claim to be open minded then are incredibly judgmental of people who choose to play separate. What is up with that? It isn't always easy finding couples where all sides are attracted and ready to get naked. [/quote]
As a single male, I approve of this message! LOL
But, in all seriousness, I think the discussion just boils down the the OP having a challenge finding the right SM that fits with their own personal interests and tastes, along with the stamina issue. I genuinely don't see an issue with having your own tastes and preferences as we're all human and all have the different things that attract you (or the couple as a whole) to someone else. My two cents is what WHITECOCOCPL shared above ... apply your own experience, your own attractions, and good referrals and start there, and don't be shy to test the waters with those you find attractive, and hope the whole package (pun intended) is as good as hoped!
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