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Calling all losers! - LS and club scene - We have said to ourselves before that 'we must be the worst swingers in the world'. We say this because sometimes we will get a text or email at 11pm and all it says is 'we are horny, lets meet and fuck'...hell we are already in bed and sometimes hubby is asleep.
For us it is about friendship first..dinner to get to know each other...movies, bowling, etc, etc and than when we all decide to play it is really fun and you actually know the others you are with and want to see them again. Seems like a lot of pressure to always be on call to play. We have very busy with work and life, a friend or two would be great. Don't get us wrong, we have met some amazing people through the lifestyle.
If you are close to us and would like to be friends...let us and let's met.
Thanks T and B
Use to be a girl who's handle was MollyWhore, anyone seen her? - MollyWhore6969 - these responses are priceless. I'd never be searching for molly in a swingers group, that would be crazy. The wife won't dp unless Molly is holding her hand. Well....that's a lie, but still!
How did you start the lifestyle? - - I was invited to be in a couple of amateur porn movies back in the 80's. It was after the first gang-bang scene that the cameraman gave me an issue of a swingers magazine. Did the whole thing with the PO box and snailmail. Which wasnt easy, even if you live and worked close to home. I was driving over the road, so meeting other swingers was almost impossible. Eventually the internet came along and sites like SDC, Fantasyswingers and Swingular made contacting people so much easier.
I Have A Question - Poly vs. Open - We have friends in both of those communities and dip in and out of both but don't actually consider either what we have or want.
Simply: Swinging is generally, ironically, too casual for us while also having way too many cultural rules (but we fucking love your parties), We also find that while we have fun with and enjoy the company of a lot of swingers, most are culturally pretty different from us. Polyamory, as people play it, is typically far too intense for us and that community also has a lot of cultural strictures and high expectations (but we've had great parties there, too, and have made really close friends, even though we're not into Star Wars 😜).
So we look for genuine friends, because that's how it started and that's how it's always been with us. We're as likely to go to coffee than get naked. And our lives are crazy busy, so we don't have a lot of time to give. But we each go out with someone probably once a week. That said, it's not necessarily the same person and actually getting together for a night out, rather than coffee or lunch, probably only happens twice a month each at most. Once a month is more common.
We don't really have rules. That's kind of antithetical to how our relationship works in general. Instead, we spend focused time with each other. We go to coffee together once a week. We go to lunch together once a week. And we go out together once a week. We plan that on Saturday over coffee or ok a run. We also talk constantly. We've always been completely open with each other. Having a mutually wanted and understood open relationship makes transparency easy for us. We also like to inevitably introduce anyone were seeing regularly to each other. We also don't pry at all but like to be sure the other person's spouse or primary partner is good and that they're relationship is healthy.
It sounds a lot like what people call polyamory except that it stays casual. For that reason, the other people need to realize that's all it will ever be. The flip side to that is making sure we only get involved with grounded and reliable people. We've been doing it long enough that we both have a whole set of friends we might go out with on and off. For us, regardless of their jobs, they're often artistic, musical, literary, dancers, etc..
Pink flamingo - How many swingers have a pink flamingo in their front yard? - [quote=MountainAdventures]Yeaa, all the "secret" swinging hints and references are all just funny. Even then I would love to see an upside down pineapple in the grocery cart.[/quote]
I have actually shopped numerous times with an upside down pineapple in the cart but have never got a reaction. So sad 😞
Swingers Vacation Spots - Help us - O.K.we are going to blow all your minds how about this SNOW Skiing in the Swiss or Austrian ALPS. After a day of skiing take all those cold bodies and retreat to this huge Suite where you spend all night until the following morning in a HOT, SEXY, WILD ORGY with a grouip of Cold but very horny ski fanatics and then you go skiing right after you got a bit of sleep then this continues for a FULL week just think about your knees would be numb by the end of the trip all you wouldhave to do is figure out was it the skiing or the fucking that made them weak ;)
We have done the skiing part in these Alps an can attest to the great slopes unfortunately the Swinging part never happened although we did manage to go to a Austrian swing club after the last day of skiing and it was the first time my wife had her pussy ate bye a lady. Thats our dream trouble is at 45 and 48 we don't have many years left till our knees give out !
Norm&Sharon
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - ULUVBIGBLKDICK,
We definitely have nothing against the single ladies nor fellas.. We dont mind being emailed and if we arent looking for a single person at the moment we do the same as when a couple writes us. We write back explaining we appreciate the approach and we arent looking at the moment. Everyone is a human being and deserves to be treated as such. We have found the Mr and I that swingular attracts a lot of very opinionated people which is wonderful but also a lot of argumentative people which is not so great. We have found several other sites out there which tend to be more excepting and friendly. So just let any harsh words roll off and realize that you are very sexy and just a great person.
swingin - thought this site was a swingers site - I guesss certian people do not get things when u enter here and it says SWINGERS AND SEX ALL OVER the site and the wanna bring things here that have no place for it, then they wanna look at me as i the person that should not be here.LMAO when u enter and u see naked lady and sex dvd and u wanna say sex is not on your mind when u enter site like this or u meet couples from this site.. get the fuck real
bring it on
oh and btw i can care less i am not the best spell did i say i was or claim to be so the fuck what bunch of panty waste babies cring of some who stands up to u wanna be computer rambos
NEXT
We have heard about it many times........... - Couples that are swingers - I think alot of people would agree that it can be difficult to find a good, solid 4-way connection when swapping with couples, and sometimes you don't know things aren't clicking until you're already playing. The best thing to do is put it behind you and move on to the next. When you finally do make that awesome connection with another couple, it makes the "not so good" experiences worth it.
40i-ish couples - - [quote=SHENANIGANIZER][quote=EVILDOERS]In our 50's, Mormon (well, technically I guess, haven't been ex'd...that we know of) and looking for our next sisterwife. Hit us up![/quote]
Keeping your options opened incase jesus comes?[/quote]
Whaddya mean "in case"? Oh, He's a comin'. Just wait 'n see. And then all you nasty wom...er, I mean swingers 'er gonna be sorry. Any idea what the penalty for swinging is in the Bible? I don't either but it's prolly pretty bad. Right up there with wearin' cloth woven of two different types of fabric and eatin' a cheeseburger (mixing meat and dairy). Don't say you haven't been warned!
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