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Soft swap - Soft swap vs Full swap - Top definition according to our Unabashed Urban Dictionary via google search and everything is according to google, right?
SOFT SWAP:
To share spouses/mates with another to the point of digital and/or oral copulation only.
This term comes from the home of Stephen, SuperGenius, who invented it spontaneously while referring to timid wanna-be swingers unwilling to take the PLUNGE
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HARD SWAP:
When you trade sexual partners...as opposed to soft swap where you just watch, or be watched, the other couple having sex. Sometimes soft swap does entail the trading of oral sex between the different couples.
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No Seriously, everyone most likely has their own definition of these "soft swap", "hard swap" terms. So rather than leave it up to each individual's own version or opinion...wouldn't it be a good idea to simply discuss with all what each is comfortable doing and what the boundaries may be on a particular night and/or with a particular couple or play partner? We believe communication is the key and everyone should feel comfortable and that there should be no pressure and no expectations.
Orgy Solutions: Erections & Menstruation - Orgy Solutions: Erections & Menstruation - Fwiw, (and yes this will be a non-facetious response- don't get used to it) it's quite easy and safe to manipulate some birth control methods so that a woman doesn't get her period during a planned play date. Most doctors and pharmacists agree that taking an extra birth control pill or two...or starting the "period" pills a little early so you can finish your period and start the next cycle is quite safe to do. Ms. Evil did just that MANY times without consequence. Additionally, she used the Mirena IUD for a few years and that device effectively reduced her period to one or two very light bleeding days at the most. Can't speak to Depo shots or implants as far as periods, maybe someone can chime in(slight) . Of course if you don't USE birth control then all of this is moot and you're fuggin' cray cray unless you want to take the chance that the condom leaked/broke and you end up having a surprise, guess who the daddy is, orgy baby. For swingers, pregnancy may just end up being the ultimate STD. [em]Emo_8[/em]
UNIVERSAL "SWINGER" SIGN - UNIVERSAL "SWINGER" SIGN - Is there a Universal sign for Swingers? And if there is not, there should be! How many times have you been in a bar or out with your partner and spotted a nice looking couple and wondered???Are they??? What can you say without embarrassing yourself or them by saying, "hey are you in the lifestyle?"
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Speed swinging? Just a thought. - kinda like speed dating but speed swinging - [quote=CNKISS]I actually think it is a great idea. I am not sure any play would immediately come out of it, but it would certainly be a quick way to decide which couples you would want to contact further. Especially given busy lives, it may be just the think busy swingers need![/quote]
My thoughts exactly.
Policing Ourselves - Can it be done? - Policing ourselves, can it be done? NO!
Advice for a newbie, LOL! I would say "RUN, run away as fast as you can!"
Seriously the first thing I would say to a new person/couple is "What ever you think swinging is, its not."
I think that with each couple comes different rules, as well as with each different scenario. How can you have a set precedence with as many different types of people that are even on this site alone? Let alone in the lifestyle.
I have often wondered why swingers would even have rules, I think the lifestyle is about the moment and with each moment you should take it as it comes. But that's just my opinion.
To set ground rules is to invite anarchy. Why bother?, a person either has respect, or they don't period. For every rule you could come up with someone could justify breaking it.
My 2 cents.
~K~
What the Actual Fuck? - - Fine POSSIBITITYS but YOU have to be in charge of shoveling the sidewalks and keeping the hot tubs HOT...if memory serves that fucking island was like near the North Pole. If Trump is elected, word is that all swingers will be exiled to Atlantic City to work in forced servitude at one of his dumpy casinos...except for the hot foreign ones who will be placed in a special waiting area for when he needs a new trophy wife. [em]Emo_67[/em]
Exotic Dreams Resort and Hotel in Palm Spring - - [quote=TRIZZLE]My wife and I are just exploring the idea of engaging in the lifestyle but haven't quite yet. Would a resort like this be a good place to "watch from a distance" amd maybe meet and chat with others in a similar situation?[/quote]
You can absolutely go to a resort and "watch". When we went to Hedo we were shocked at how many total newbies were there (outnumbered the seasoned swingers 2 to 1...but that could have been an anomaly for all we know). But we also saw more than a few inexperienced couples who caused some drama because they got there, got all hot and bothered, and weren't ready for the consequences (and weren't on the same page as far as the "what if's" of jumping into the lifestyle). YMMV
swingers defined - - It pretty funny one so your all good
Another way to identify swingers - Totally hot T-Shirts - they look like nice party wear.. or swinger event wear.. I would buy a few The main problem is We would have to buy like 5 tops for her. and well a couple of items for me because we're always looking for something different..
Maybe we'll just get one of each of the buttons..
on a side note I do like my pendant I got at the bliss NYE party.. Those are awesome and discreet. The main problem is getting ALL Swingers to embrace a certain LOGO
Its like AFF VS SWINGULAR VS SWAPPERNET VS SLS>. Etc..
All pretty much the same Yet different too
LOL
Tooele swingers party december - Looking to meet other local swingers and have some party fun - Sounds like fun! :)
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