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Picky Picky - No not your nose - [quote=ALLWENEEDISU]I'm picky, like probably a little bit unrealistically so. I figure I have the man of my dreams who is hung, smart, fun, charismatic and attractive. I shouldn't settle for less then total attraction. This should be true for all. I realize I'm a old hand at this, been in and out (ha) of the lifestyle since 2011, and I've basically done all the things, but if you're with your perfect partner then my understanding is swinging is an enhancement to your sex life. Never settle for less (old swinger advice for the newer swingers) just to have a new partner/experience/taking one for the team. What are your thoughts? [/quote] I think it depends on what you're looking to get out of swinging and what you value in a sexual experience. While I agree with some of your points I also know from experience that different partners/playmates can bring many different things to the table. I've been with women who were absolutely amazing kissers. I've met play partners who knew little sex "tricks" that had never occured to me or to my primary partner that we've been able to incorporate in our own play. I've been fortunate to have sex with women who brought an amazing level of enthusiasm and energy to our encounters. And, lastly, and perhaps even more important, I've met and played with women who I wasn't necessarily immediately attracted to but who I became VERY attracted to once I got to know them a little better and the sex was mind-blowing. I've ultimately learned not to judge a book by it's cover. That physical attraction isn't necessarily the ENTIRE package. And that what makes a person a great sex partner sometimes transcends the purely physical. YMMV Ultimately you are likely get out of swinging more or less what you expect to get out of swinging. If you are less than thrilled at how other men compare to the physical criteria you've listed about your significant other then you probably won't really enjoy swinging all that much. Just my two cents after being in swinging even longer than you. [em]Emo_12[/em]

single males - - Thank you for opening the topic. I hope that it will be used shed some insight and not just complain. In a place like Habits there are vanilla singles that have no clue that swingers congregate there. So there will naturally be more problem in that environment than a private party. At a house party the only people that should be there are those that are invited by the host and hostess. Every one of the guests should have known the rules or etiquette of this lifestyle. If you had complaints, they should have been addressed last night with the hosts. Evidently the balance you were looking for was not there. Sadly it is difficult for most singles to figure out how to talk to a swinging couple. There are no schools or training centers to teach this. As a single male, conversation at a vanilla party with a couple is much easier. Most often the men and women separate and we talk with one or the other without expectations on either side. Sometimes conversation is just conversation. I find that making friends is generally more difficult in this lifestyle because of the sexual expectations of many. I think that you will find a number of the single men, after getting the cold shoulder from many husbands, find it easier to attempt to talk to the women because they lack the skills to talk with both. It is a mistake but it is also part of the learning process. There is no excuse for rude behavior on the part of the single male but neither is there an excuse for the typical married male attitude. Single males are always and have always been a pariah and dam few couples want them at any party. I came into this lifestyle as a single male looking to make male friends to hang with that would help me understand the rules. I found most of the males were cold and suspicious and difficult to talk with. I was not looking for women to play with nearly as much as I was looking for a girlfriend that was already in the lifestyle. But I am sure that as far as most were concerned all I wanted to find was their wife

BUSTED! Your Kids Found Out Your Swingers. Now What? - - Our kids our older and they know we're nudist...;) The oldest daughter kind of has an idea that we swing but, has kept it to herself. Actually, we know C's daughter, son-in-law, and middle son have been playing with friends... So, I guess we can turn the question around...hehehe ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Now "SPERMINT" like a true NEO-CON injects total conjecture, hearsay, and innuendo into a purely innocent question. As usual he has no hard evidence or facts to back up his pathetic statement. Hey, "SPERMINT" be a nice TROLL and go away and hide before you embarass yourself again. Oh, to late... Surf, out...

Club 90 - Hosting - We are trying to find clubs to host regular meet ant greets I held one at club 90 the owners let me know today that swingers are not welcome to their establishment we are not good for the club ugh Anyone have ideas on clubs to hold meet and greets ??

Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - SS Camaro

March Madness at Hedo III March 16-23 - March Madness with SunCoast Swingers - Sun, March 16 Pimp and Ho night ... Guys Just pimp it up ... Ladies where your most Ho outfit the more ho!!! the better Mon, March 17 Pirate night !!!! Arrrrrrrr mates, get yer sexiest pirate gear, Arrrr winches, make them rummies, desperate to show there daggers ... arrrr shiver me timbers Tue, March 18 Lingerie and Pajama night ... Your sexiest and daring !!!!! and if you sleep nude ... thats OK at disco ... but the lingerie and PJ's are good for dinner Wed, March 19 Fetish !!!!! OK bring out the leather, whips and cuffs ... What ever your favorite fetish wear is !!!!!!! Thur, March 20 TOGA !!!! TOGA!!! TOGA!!! Bring your favorite toga ... or make one there !!!! Hedo supplies the sheets and some instruction !!! Remember the rule!!! No underwear under your toga ... there is the panty police !!! Fri, March 21 Jamaica night ... Black, Yellow and Green. Black for the people, Yellow for the sun and Green for the vegitation ... find some sexy colors and show the love for Jamaica Sat, March 22 Wet and Wild ...mmmm but its Glitter, metallic, sequin and shimmer night... guys ... this is pretty much the ladies night to show there sexy stuff ...but if you have it wear it ... Some of the games we have planned for example is NAKED TWISTER, FIND YOUR MATE and NAUGHTY DICE. Remember to bring a wrapped erotic gift for our chinese auction limit $20. This will be held at the Piano Bar(date and time to be announced) Please bring school supplies and or simple meds we take for granted ...eg: cold meds, asprin, Tylenol, iboprofin even cough drops !!!!! Anything to help our friends in Jamaica

Wishbones - - Hi. Thanks for the advice where to buy them. But about wearing a swingers identification... We presume you don't wear them on a birthday party with the family. But its a good idea to show you are swingers on vacation, public party's or elsewhere. These are the places to meet like minded people and how can you otherwise find them. If they like you, they will get in contact and if others recognise you as swinger without being a swinger themself, who cares! A swingers hug from The Netherlands Bea and Alex

New Lifestyle Destination Coming Soon - There is a new lifestyle-only "BnB" club opening this Fall in the Ozarks - Funny you should mention this... my wife has a dream of opening a swingers BNB when we retire.....

Know any Mormon swingers in SoCal? - Single girl in SoCal wants to know! - Everyone in the lifestyle has their own personal preferences and kinks. Part of the lifestyle is not letting social norms hold us back from experiencing those preferences/kinks. This is just her preference. We don't want others to "hate" on us our preferences, so let's not "hate" on her. :)

Effinghman - Swingers - awwe dang u moved