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swingin - thought this site was a swingers site - man look who is already whining i do not care if i the best spelllers i do not care u it make u feel good about your self calling other names and things like that do so, enjoy life
so if anyone else wants to step up and call me name go for it i have big shoulders for this or i would have not started the forum so who next you TR go for it i do not care or if any one of your forums buddies wantds i am speaking my peace , i THINK alot of u whining babies need to take your own advice , and i know alot of u will have NOOOOOO clue what that means..
so as i have said before ENJOY LIFE and fuck every one else who gets in your way
and as Larry the cable guy says"""Get'r' done"
This lifestyle - What are we really? - MORDON: Huh??
Wow...no easy task to consolidate concepts as broad and inclusive as swinging and/or polyamory into neat little boxes. I'm still trying to follow how you grouped the two into polar opposites.
I'm not sure that the way you're defining either of those would be true for the majority of those in the swinging communities, and especially not Sirensextress or myself.
If I have the ability to to love more than one person...then yes, I suppose I am polyamorous, but NOT in the same way that a couple who is truly polyamorous might view it (I do love not just one but all my children/siblings and whatnot).
You've painted a rather bleak and harsh picture of us non-polyamorists, by boldly stating that swingers are, "friends with benefits....True swinging is having sex just for the sake of having sex. No talking ...no getting to know each other...not caring one iota about the other person. Basically have sex and if the other person dies on the way home ...who give gives a shit!"
That statement is well, to put it bluntly, naive and uninformed.
We've never engaged in sex without talking, or getting to know one another. How else would we know if there's any chemistry?
We care greatly for most of the people we've encountered through swinging, and would most CERTAINLY care if they died on the way home!
In short...we "give a shit"!
I think in it's broadest sense, the term "swinging" is large enough to cater to the appetites of a wide spectrum of people, from those that are inclined to polyamory, to those that prefer to fuck 'em and leave 'em, to those that are the swinging wannabe's, to those that are exclusive.
We are by no means polyamorous, but yes, we've run into couples that are in the truest sense of the word, poly. In fact, we've met couples that have wanted us to participate in the poly lifestyle. However, they are looking for something quite different that what we are looking for.
Neither my wife nor myself are looking to be "married" to another couple, or to become a "secondary" husband/wife to them. Yet, being the "non-polyamorists" that we are, and according to your definition, we should be unable able to maintain very close friendships with any other swingers.
Actually...our experiences have been quite the opposite.
Most of our closest friends have come out of The Lifestyle.
Do we love them? Yep.
Have/are we sexually intimate with them? Yep.
Are we romanticaly involved, exclusive and IN love with them? No.
Do we love them like family? Yep.
Are we polyamorous? No.
Does this just boil down semantics? Yes..probably. However I felt compelled to speak on behalf of those of us that actually do care about the people that we meet through the lifestyle. Cuz we DO give a shit and we're NOT the cold-hearted people we've been made out to be!
:)
Game ON....which sign is Hornier...(is that a word?) - zodiac signs of swingers? - Add 2 Virgo's to the count.
swingtown - a new show on cbs - I think the drug use is going 2 be its down side I hope they don't make it seem like all swingers do is have sex and do drugs
LOOKING FOR LADIES THAT LIKE TO CAM FOR A JOB - MY SITE IS GOING TO OFFER WEB CAM SERVICE FOR ALL THOSE THAT LIKE TO PUT ON SHOWS - IS IT A SAFE JOB ????
THE SHOWS ARE DONE FROM YOUR HOUSE OR A FRIENDS OR WHEREVER YOU WANT TO SET UP A COMPUTER AND PUT ON A SHOW .
THAT PART HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME .. OR THE SITE ITSELF . U PICK WHERE U WANT TO DO IT FROM .
THE SITE HAS FREE CAM AMOUNG MEMBERS . WE ARE SETTING IT UP WHERE PEOPLE CAN CHOOSE TO DO IT FOR FREE . OR CHARGE .
WHEN WE HAVE IT SET UP SO PEOPLE CAN CHARGE . U CAN STILL DO IT FOR FREE FOR THOSE THAT U WANT TO IF U DID WANT TO GIVE THEM A FREE SHOW . OR U CAN CHARGE WHOEVER THAT WANTS TO WATCH U AND WHO WANTS TO PAY . .
U CAN PUT ON NAUGHTY SHOWS WITH YOU PLAYING WITH A TOY OR PLAYING WITH A SPOUSE OR FRIEND OR U CAN JUST TURN ON YOUR CAM AND LET OR CHARGE PEOPLE TO WATCH U DO ANYTHING . LIKE CLEANING THE HOUSE OR WORKING ON THE COMPUTER OR TRYING ON CLOTHES . WHATEVER U WANT TO SHOW .
THERE IS NO RULES .
THIS IS NOT A CAM WORKING SITE . WHERE WE TELL U WHAT U HAVE TO DO OR NOT DO . . ITS ALL UP TO U ON WHAT U WANT TO DO OR SHOW .
WE ARE JUST OFFERING A SITE TO DO IT OFF OF .
WE DONT PAY YOU ANYTHING . U HAVE TO EARN WHATEVER MONEY BY DOING WHAT U WANT TO THE PEOPLE THAT WANT TO WATCH U . SOME PEOPLE LIKE TO WATCH LADIES CLEAN THE HOUSE OR STUFF LIKE THAT , OR DIRTY CHAT WITH THEM . IF THATS WHAT U WANT TO DO THEN THATS ALL U HAVE TO DO . IF U CAN GET PEOPLE THAT WILL PAY U TO DO THAT THEN GREAT . THERE IS NO HOURS OR ANY RULES ABOUT STUFF THAT U HAVE TO DO OR WHEN .. U CAN JUST TURN ON YOUR CAM AND DO WHAT U WANT TO DO AND WHEN U WANT TO DO IT .
THE ONLY RULES IS NO KIDS ANYWHERE IN VIEW . LIKE IF U ARE A STAY AT HOME MOM DONT TURN ON YOUR CAM TO JUST CLEAN HOUSE IF U HAVE A TODDLER WALKING AROUND OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT .AND NO KINDA OF PLAYING WITH PETS OR CRITTERS . ANYTHING ELSE IS UP TO U .
WHAT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW OR FAMILY MEMBERS COME ON ??????
I CANT CONTROL ANY OF THAT STUFF . CAUSE I DONTKNOW WHO YOUR FRIENDS OF FAMILY MEMBERS ARE . OR WHO U DO WANT TO SEE U OR NOT SEE YOU IN THE LIFE STYLE OR ON A SWINGERS SITE OR ON WEB CAM ...
THE SITE IS OPEN TO ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY THAT WANTS TO JOIN IT AND THEY CAN USE IT FOR THEIR NEEDS AS THEY SEE FIT .
AS FOR YOUR CAMS . WHEN U ARE CHARGING PEOPLE THEN U WILL PICK WHO GETS TO SEE U OR NOT .U HAVE TO OK THEM TO SEE YOU . AND YOU WILL KNOW THEIR SCREEN NAME AND INFO . SO IT WOULD BE UP TO U TO SCREEN WHO U ARE PUTTING ON SHOWS FOR .
AND I THINK IF U HAVE THAT MANY FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS LOOKING FOR STUFF LIKE THAT . THEN MAYBE YALL SHOULD GO INTO BUSSINESS WITH EACH OTHER AND START YOUR OWN SITE WITH CAM AND MAKE LOTS OF MONEY .. HA HA HA
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
kids and pets - why - *Yawn*....oh...is this topic still being discuessed? I thought we moved on to the next one already....
Regardless of anyone's personal feelings on the matter, Swingular has policies in place regarding pics.
If it states no kids...well then...there should be no kids.
It's kind of a no-brainer folks.
Relative legality and other gobbeltygook is pure nonesense. It's part of the rules of the site we all agree to by signing up.
If you don't like pics of pets...simply browse past them.
If you don't like pics of messy houses or looking at the relative slob-like nature of your fellow swingers...simply browse past them.
It's that simple.
Now quit your damned whining and party!
Game ON....which sign is Hornier...(is that a word?) - zodiac signs of swingers? - Leo here. :h
Hello summer - Swingers couple party - Let's hear the explanation
Memes - Adult memes - My kind of Pineapple heheh, shout out to thr stoner swingers!💨🍃🍃
Why so much hate in the swingers world... - - Ali,
He's just frustrated with me. LOL! I am a mouthy prick a few people would probably like to punch. LOL! I know this guy is a vet, because he talks like one. LOL! I do not take offense to what he said. I think, in reality, by reading him, he'd probably save a life before he'd take one. Let us boys bask in our bantor.
-D-
P.S. Thanks Ali, you're such the mother spirit.
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