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Swingers clubs in Amsterdam - - We are looking more for some interaction with others SUENDAN, LOL. It's always an option to have a party for 2 however. May try suggestions from PANDJSWING. Thanks for responding.
Swingers In Uniform - Pay your memorial day respects here. - From one of those highspeed sons of bitches out there who make this all possible to you civilians who pay those damn taxes so I can have more fun than one man's lifetime can possibly bear... I miss way too much home time but when I'm home we make the absolute most of it!!!
THANKS FOR THE RECOGNITION but we truely do it all for YOU!!
Your 'not so local' Quiet Professional
Swingers cars??? - What ya driving?? - I love muscle cars... but I drive an '04 Mazda 6
fantasy football league free trying to get only swingers in leag - free autodraft fantasy football league - We have never played but have signed up and willing to learn. Our team is CFLDOLFANS.
Anyone going to Habits tonight - First time for us... Habits in SLC, it sounds fun.. is anyone going - Habits has been great for couples and other swingers.
They have put a lot of effort and money into their club and they deserve our support and patronage.
That little nudge many of us need - - [quote=PARTYINLV]We think honesty is the best way to be. If she found out about the meeting without her knowledge, your tryst into the lifestyle may be over. Plus, she might feel the pressure to play at some point anyway. Also, she will always wonder if the next meeting is arranged without her knowledge.
Evildoers is correct in meeting with zero chance of playtime. Take their advice. She will feel more relaxed and could enjoy herself with the pressure off. We will take it a step further:
Step 1: Set up a date with ZERO playtime opportunity and let the other couple know that. Do something fun (a hike, Topgolf, etc) and get to know them. At the conclusion of the date, let them know that if they do not receive a message from YOU within 24 hours, you don't feel you are a match.
Step 2: If you send a message to meet again, let them know your intent and your boundaries. For example, (kissing ok), (fondling ok), (bi kissing ok), (same room, separate room, either room ok), (nudity ok or not). But, speak honestly with each other about this. It's not nice to lead people on after you have committed. At the conclusion of the date, let them know that if they do not receive a message from YOU within 24 hours, you are not ready to go further.
Step 3: If you send a message to meet again, let them know what is acceptable. For example (full swap or soft swap), (same room, separate rooms or either ok), (kissing or no kissing), (bi play) etc. Again, you will have to be honest with yourselves if you can do this. By a third date, the other couple has invested a lot of time in you. So, be nice and don't lead them on. Enjoy the playtime. Save enough time for the afterglow sex with them relaxing, chatting, and laughing.
By this point, you may have found a couple that you can see multiple times. Doing vanilla activities with them might be a bonus. They may even introduce you to their lifestyle friends too.
The other option is attending a house party where play is not expected. You will be able to speak to several couple and perhaps, use the process above. Or you can play that night.
When we entered the lifestyle, we never had that couple who could mentor us. After we considered ourselves as no longer newbies, we became the newbie "whisperers" to offer what we never had. However, we've gotten away from newbies since our circle is with experienced swingers now. But with covid, we would date newbies again.[/quote]
Sounds like an excellent plan to avoid those one and done awkward meet ups👍
Temptations Resort - - We thought about going. We actually went on the Temptation Resort Lifestyle Cruise. It was fun. But for us, Hedonism and Desire resorts are a better fit for us because they are all nude and the vast majority of people there are swingers.
New Swingers Club in Utah - Gauging interest in new club - Put one of these in Southern utah and I'm there!
An out of this world (or state) encounter - swinging parties - The problem we have noticed in Utah is that there
seems to be far more wanna be swingers than actual
swingers. There are quite a few who think if the
girls kiss or show their titties then they have had
a great swinging evening. To us it is a lifestyle not
a fad & the cool in thing to pretend to do. We almost
always avoid house parties & private parties for this
reason. In fact we almost prefer finding new couples
& singles in a regular club & converting them over
to swinging over meeting playmates here because
it's easier & usually less drama. Not to mention it helps
weed out the wanna be's & the ones who used a 20 year
old photo that was taken when they still had teeth or before
they put on that extra 125 lbs.
MSNBC Article on Swingers - actually a positive one :) - We are members of this club.We have been for about three years now. Tabu is a great place to go and meet people or just have fun. There have been many times we (hubby & I) have went to only have sex with each other.
For someone who knows nothing about our lifestyle to go on Blackout night that says a lot about them. There are many themed parties every weekend!!
I would encourge any and all who live in this area or visit add Tabu to your to do list!!! Fun will be had by all!!
P&J
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