I often get asked "what do you like?" or "what turns you on?". Guys ask women that all the time and I understand why. But I'm curious as to what men want. What do you like? What turns you on? What can women do to spice things up and make things fun? Or is there anything a woman does or may say that will turn you off or make you feel uncomfortable?
A curious mind wants to know.
A curious mind wants to know.
Good question. I also want to know this answer.
Billy Crystal said it best, "Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place".
This is the male of LVSTRIPPERBABE. I personally am visually stimulated. I love it when a girl gives me a lap dance... I love watching her strip down slowly and sexually. After the visual stimulation, I love when a gal is sucking me with her ass in my face. 69 position. You want to learn some new things to spice things up, well learn how to "Strip." I can't tell you how often I have Ms. Lvstripperbabe dance for me, with or without any others present.
I too am visually excited and my other half has her ways. Not only is she awesome when she performs in the bedroom but when she goes down on me and looks into my face as she gets busy, well I can only take a deep breath. I have had the chance to watch her get a little busy with another male and she did lap dances for him and got a little topless as he had his way with her breasts. I could only watch and the sex between us after that was great for weeks. I also look forward to her taking the lead once in awhile or even taking a part when my hands are having a good time in never never land. Ok, got juices flowing gotta go!
Me personally I like when a woman knows what she wants and is not afraid to say it...There is nothing more erotic than to be at a party and have a woman whisper in your ear "I wanna fuck you" at that my excitement is going.
Dancing with someone, and watching her move her body, does wonders for me. A woman that like to talk, laugh, and can be a little perv.(hee hee)
When she is into me, and not flirting with me to get to my wife. (Bad Very Bad)
Turn off- Stuck on themselves, to good to be friendly, thinks they are tough and can kick anyones ass.
When she is into me, and not flirting with me to get to my wife. (Bad Very Bad)
Turn off- Stuck on themselves, to good to be friendly, thinks they are tough and can kick anyones ass.
Very simple. Be honest about what you want. Take the lead if there is something you wanna try. Show me how to give you the best/biggest orgasm.... Men are generaly good at following directions in this area..
I like these!
I would like a woman to seduce me...see me in a club..walk up..whisper in my ear sweet nothings telling me what she wants to do to me.
Wes
Wes
I like it when a woman is comfortable with her sexuality and eager to pursue her sexual desires. She knows what she likes/desires sexually and can communicate them to her partner(s). And she has no inhibitions to pleasure herself and willing to pleasure her partner(s).
- M
- M
Honesty, for starters. And since men, or at least me, are not true mind readers, direction. Tell me what you want and how you want it. Let me know that special way you like things done.
Honesty, for starters. And since men, or at least me, are not true mind readers, direction. Tell me what you want and how you want it. Let me know that special way you like things done.
K for my hubby its just plain simple titties and beer lol just being honest. Oh ya and sometimes just eyes.
Gina
Gina
me the male half here, i dont need a naked women. i love it when they just look at you in the way that makes you feel like your going to get it no mater what you say you have no choice. dirty talk and looks really get me going.
Ya the thing that really gets him going are the eyes the titties and beer was a joke LOL. Like you hottie a simple look can really get him going. Sometimes its not what they say its how they look at him.
For me, it depends on the woman/situation, but mostly a combination of some of the above comments.
A woman that knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go for it. 9 times out of 10, I have to make the first move, which I'm ok with...but it's very erotic on those rare occassions when a woman comes up and says "I want you to fuck me" or even better yet, doesn't say anything, just comes over and grabs me.
Visually...seeing my partner is enjoying themself as much as I am. If it looks like she's not, or is distracted by something else...I'm done (literally). I love eye contact (when possible)...having a woman look me in the eyes as I'm fucking her. I love seeing the expression on her face...in fact, I love doggie, but try to set it up in a situation where we are facing a mirror, so while I'm enjoying one of my favorite positions, I can still see the reaction on her face as I'm taking her from behind.
I guess to sum it all up...for me, it's all about knowing that my partner is having as much fun and enjoyment as I am.
A woman that knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go for it. 9 times out of 10, I have to make the first move, which I'm ok with...but it's very erotic on those rare occassions when a woman comes up and says "I want you to fuck me" or even better yet, doesn't say anything, just comes over and grabs me.
Visually...seeing my partner is enjoying themself as much as I am. If it looks like she's not, or is distracted by something else...I'm done (literally). I love eye contact (when possible)...having a woman look me in the eyes as I'm fucking her. I love seeing the expression on her face...in fact, I love doggie, but try to set it up in a situation where we are facing a mirror, so while I'm enjoying one of my favorite positions, I can still see the reaction on her face as I'm taking her from behind.
I guess to sum it all up...for me, it's all about knowing that my partner is having as much fun and enjoyment as I am.
women thats what i lov.. the way they smell, walk, talk,fuck,suck,lick,etc it all turns me n my wife
on. having there nails done when her hands are wraped around my cock. i lov women to be women and be as sexy as you can. and show him that u lov yourself by flat out telling him what u like.
better yet show him mmm,,.we lov you to touch yourselfs show us the spots tell us if u like your neck
kissed n your ears nippled on.. most guys dont ever spend time rubbing, feeling ,licking, sucking
those wonderful nipples they just head on down. most of all just ask your lady what she likes.
they will lov to tell u or if u r lucky show you..yea.. lol. and lady the more you show n tell
the more you will cummmm.. cause thats what all this is about for us the ladys n giving them the best
orgasm we can n as many as we can..we lov the red lipstick nails all done done up sprayed up
the stockings high heels so to jack up her pretty ass..some little panties n a hot little short
jean skirt sexy hot little tiny top...
may i say more....the hotter they get i we get...so talk tell each other what u like n the word will be a better place lol
talk talk talk...
xo
on. having there nails done when her hands are wraped around my cock. i lov women to be women and be as sexy as you can. and show him that u lov yourself by flat out telling him what u like.
better yet show him mmm,,.we lov you to touch yourselfs show us the spots tell us if u like your neck
kissed n your ears nippled on.. most guys dont ever spend time rubbing, feeling ,licking, sucking
those wonderful nipples they just head on down. most of all just ask your lady what she likes.
they will lov to tell u or if u r lucky show you..yea.. lol. and lady the more you show n tell
the more you will cummmm.. cause thats what all this is about for us the ladys n giving them the best
orgasm we can n as many as we can..we lov the red lipstick nails all done done up sprayed up
the stockings high heels so to jack up her pretty ass..some little panties n a hot little short
jean skirt sexy hot little tiny top...
may i say more....the hotter they get i we get...so talk tell each other what u like n the word will be a better place lol
talk talk talk...
xo
Nothing turns me on more than a woman who is open with her sexuality. The type of woman that exudes sexual energy. With that energy, she can make anything hot.
Number one, the confidence she displays when she walks into a room. Second, there is nothing like a woman, soft skin, wonderful smell, and the look of passion in her eyes. It does not get any better.
WOW! Thank you so much for opening up and sharing. This is exactly what I was hoping for.
Are there any men that like to be chased? Or do you prefer to do the chasing? How aggressive do you like women to be?
Please, keep sharing.
Are there any men that like to be chased? Or do you prefer to do the chasing? How aggressive do you like women to be?
Please, keep sharing.
Chased? Both, who would not enjoy being chased?
I think in society it is expected that the men are the chasers so of course men enjoy being chased its kinda a turn on to be chased sometimes...
chase me!!!!!
I'm just going to state my opinion here but, men need and love to have they're egos stroked or boosted, during courting, foreplay as well as during and after sex. This means different things for different guys but, make a man feel like a man and testosterone will take care of the rest...simple science.
I would have to disagree with some of the above, the more chased I feel the more I lose interest. A woman should be mysterious, subtle...feminine. I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman being aggressive and taking what she wants but, when it's done too early it feels desperate.
For me, hot in the bedroom, is a woman telling me she's in control. No talking, it can all be done without being said and then her setting the pace slowly, even being a bit restrictive at times and then giving in little by little, all the while letting me know that she does want me but, when she says. The build up is unbelievable and the pay off once I'm inside, as well as all that energy being released, makes the seduction worth the wait.
but, that's just me
I would have to disagree with some of the above, the more chased I feel the more I lose interest. A woman should be mysterious, subtle...feminine. I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman being aggressive and taking what she wants but, when it's done too early it feels desperate.
For me, hot in the bedroom, is a woman telling me she's in control. No talking, it can all be done without being said and then her setting the pace slowly, even being a bit restrictive at times and then giving in little by little, all the while letting me know that she does want me but, when she says. The build up is unbelievable and the pay off once I'm inside, as well as all that energy being released, makes the seduction worth the wait.
but, that's just me
Being chased is awesome especially by a woman that knows what she wants and can be aggressive at getting it
i am one that has always liked to be chased. if they are willing to chase me then then i cant wait to see what they do next
TOMSCIRCUS wrote:
Nothing turns me on more than a woman who is open with her sexuality. The type of woman that exudes sexual energy. With that energy, she can make anything hot.
I like that too, but I also love watching a woman masturbate.
That REALLY turns me on!
Brian
The M half...;-)
theses are the things that I want.
#1 -Men want to know they please their partner. I want them to want me! They need that ego! At least for me.
#2- I love to watch a woman undress and tease me.
#3 - I love to watch a woman touch herself!
#4 - I love it when a woman talks dirty, and tells me what her inner desires are!
#1 -Men want to know they please their partner. I want them to want me! They need that ego! At least for me.
#2- I love to watch a woman undress and tease me.
#3 - I love to watch a woman touch herself!
#4 - I love it when a woman talks dirty, and tells me what her inner desires are!
oh, and one last thing. I luv to watch a woman orgasm. The look, the sound, the moves, and most of all, the exxxtacy!
The way a woman smells is such a turn on...as much as anything visual. But if she makes great eye contact as if she's trying to see into your soul...OMG!!! Look me in the eyes as I slowly enter you, and for as long as you can, don't let your eyes leave mine. Then after various positions and telling me you love what I'm doing, face me again and burn your gaze deep into my blue eyes as you explode. I wanna see the pleasure that you can't hide at that very moment. Your eyes can't lie.
I LOVE a woman to know what she wants and is not afraid to verbalize it.
I also love a woman to have SOME hair on the naughty bits, bald seems to juvenile to me.
Finally, I love women, enough said.
I also love a woman to have SOME hair on the naughty bits, bald seems to juvenile to me.
Finally, I love women, enough said.
For me the biggest turn on has been the woman letting me know that she is aroused at the thought of being with me. It has come in different ways but the message was definitely communicated!
Has always made the moment when we hook up very hot and steamy!
Has always made the moment when we hook up very hot and steamy!
Hmmm, all very good comments. For me..Mr. CPL Desire is the key...Then, the Kiss, OMG It is so easy to see where things will go when you kiss someone who has a desire to be with you. I love it. And one more thing for the road. I love a woman that knows what she wants and wants me to do it to and with her. So a whisper in the ear and a smack on the ass goes along ways...
I like women that are confident in their walk, style, subliminal messages and feminine actions. I like innocent, selective, stimulating banter. I love the soft touch, smell and soft kisses just because. I love a woman that can wear both seductive/sexual and tear her clothes off lingerie, and create those vibes. I like her to be a professional in work, vocabulary, and structure, but know when to release that hair over a glass of wine, open up that slit in her skirt a little more and let the tranquility inspire and lead us into the unknown. Also, I like a woman who is not affraid to have a quicky in the parking garage, or against the window of an outside elevator. I like a woman that likes to give oral as if that will be the whole night, but also allow my time giving as well, and can handle all the time of my exploring her body. I like a woman that puts all her soul into our passions so that everyting is incredible.
Now that Ive reread this, I might as better go in town and purchase that Ferrari.
Now that Ive reread this, I might as better go in town and purchase that Ferrari.
mmmm all good responses... being a single male(new to single..used to be male 1/2 of dsfun2day)i might be being overly catious.... not to cross boundried but i will only give back what i recieve.... if a single female or female of a couple gives me the mmmm look i will return it if interested... if she kisses me i will kiss back, if she wants to dance i will in turn ask her to damce at another song of similar speed.... im kinda shy untail things progress past casual conversation...then i tend to talk alot... as to what i like to se..mmmmm the look and feel of a ladies body, prior, durring and after a good orgasam or two... love to make them squirt... love confident ladies but after a bit of flirting back and forth they take the shy submissive, coy standpoint on things to CUME...
Male half here. Sexual confidence is incredibly sexy. Not being afraid of expressing yourself and your desires. Trust me, your desires are probably no more fantastical than your man's...we just tend to hear the man's desires more often.
On a physical/behavioral level, wearing something sexy on a stay-at-home Sunday is a good start. There really should be no reason to not dress and feel sexy whenever you want. In for the night, go topless. Lazy Sunday morning, a bra and panties is all you need.
Perhaps it's because of my limited experience but it's good to be the aggressor once in a while. You want a man to sweep you off your feet well sometimes we want a woman to do the same...literally.
Spontaneous bj's never hurt either...
On a physical/behavioral level, wearing something sexy on a stay-at-home Sunday is a good start. There really should be no reason to not dress and feel sexy whenever you want. In for the night, go topless. Lazy Sunday morning, a bra and panties is all you need.
Perhaps it's because of my limited experience but it's good to be the aggressor once in a while. You want a man to sweep you off your feet well sometimes we want a woman to do the same...literally.
Spontaneous bj's never hurt either...
Male half here. I agree with most of the men saying that self confidence is a huge turn on, no matter the body type. A woman who feels that she is sexy is one of the sexiest things, as well as a woman who has enough exhibitionism in her to tease me with a little peek at "something I'm not supposed to see", whether it's underclothing, or parts of her anatomy. A peek is just enough tease to let you know there is something there that you may or may not be getting.
I also feel there is a lot of thrill in the chase for a lot of men, including myself. I don't necessarily want a woman to "throw herself at me", although sometimes that is enjoyable too, but would rather be seduced by me.
I also feel there is a lot of thrill in the chase for a lot of men, including myself. I don't necessarily want a woman to "throw herself at me", although sometimes that is enjoyable too, but would rather be seduced by me.
Male half here. What turns me on? MMMMM..... Intelect, confidence, dignity. Physically I love the eyes, the hair, her posture. Nice titties don't hurt either, but aren't a necessity. Those things will get my attention, but to keep it, she's got to be mature enough to be past the "I could be so much hotter if..." please, don't get me wrong I'm all for self-improvement but let's face it we need to be comfortable with who we are before we can make real improvements. Also she needs to be able to form an opinion and back it up. I love a lady's lady, one who knows how to tell you where the bear did its business in the woods without being vulgar, yet concise. These things will ensnare me and drive me to your/ invite you to my bed. In the act...well I am very sensual and love to touch and be touched. I love for a woman to tell me what she likes, but more important is to know what she doesn't like, and leave the rest to exploration. I love to be explored, through touch, taste, smell and sound. I love to hear a woman's moans, groans, and yes screams of pleasure, that drives me on, and I am relentless in getting her to express herself. I like a woman to drive me to those same moans, groans, grunts, growls, and cries of ecstasy and who will push me to beyond the limits of pleasure, because I love to do it to her as well. Our brains are our largest sex organs and for me if you can keep mine engaged, entangled and entrapped in yours it will open a whole new universe of pleasure for all involved. Just my humble opinion. xoxoxoxoxo T
As to being chased....I enjoy it, but much prefer to be lured, tempted, and drawn in... That being said I'm very dense and don't get subtle hints, so perhaps a good smack across my head to get my attention, then start the fun with the tempting and teasing.
I finally have it figured out (for me). I believe women can be divided into two groups:
1) Those who are absolutely dependent on having continuous drama in their lives (when it isn't happening as a natural life occurrence, they are compelled to create it)
2) Everyone else
I prefer group 2!
1) Those who are absolutely dependent on having continuous drama in their lives (when it isn't happening as a natural life occurrence, they are compelled to create it)
2) Everyone else
I prefer group 2!
This is the male half, I have been with the same girl going on 17 years and she still can make my toe's curle. If we hear that it feels good baby thats half the battle won, couse we cant read mind's. Wish we could sometime's couse they have us figured out pretty good guy's.
I love talking to women, having an open sexual chat, stimulating each other with words, of what you like, what you want, how naughty you want to be. maybe taking her thru a sinerio of what we could do together, how i want to touch her, how she wants to touch me, i love getting the mind stimulated, then meeting, and knowing what each other wants, and at what point we will take it there, i love getting women to open up their most deepest secret desires, and trying to full fill those desires, i love deep passionate makeout sessions, it is especially hot when you have just met. i guess if the mind and body are stimulated, there will be no way you won't have very hot sensual sex together, so if any of you ladies would like your mind stimulated with some hot chat, with only a possibility of meeting, let us know, lets all just have fun, right?
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Guy
Guy
What I want is to please the woman