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No single male bashing please.
The swinger lifestyle seems to be geared towards couples and single females. There are a few of us crazy couples that just don't fit the mold and prefer single males.

How many of you couples would like to attend a party where single males are not only accepted, but eagerly invited to attend?

And you single males, would you enjoy attending a party where you know every couple there is a potential play date?

We would like hear from you to know what your thoughts are and what the demand might be. Hopefully we can organize something in the next month or so.
I would be interested but I live in Portland. It is a ways to where you are
We would definitely be interested.
We invite single males to all of our parties. We have a list and the ones that come are great to have around.
We do enjoy the occasional male..ah..or males..[and interested in the par tay...!]
I would be interested for sure!
Yes, I would be interested. I hope you can get something like this going in Utah.
Yes of course. Make sure to put out the word when/if you do this.
We are getting a pretty good response. We'll start working on a time and location.
Interested, but in Jacksonville, FL.
I would be very interested as well.
Sounds like it could be a fun time keep us up dated as will
I would sure try and make it, if i could.
we would definantly be there, single males play a big part of our play time, cant give her enough pleasure, right. sounds like a great party.
It would be great fun, and a chance to get to know more swingers, broaden all our horizons ( maybe I just have broads on my horizon, stupid thinking).
OOOoOoO We would definetly be interested :)
we definetly dont have a problem with single males attending our parties in orlando that whats makes a party great single guys and single females and couples everybody there for one thing sex... take a look at our group ORLANDO HOUSE PARTIES we have more single males then we do single females its all about having fun
I would sure love to attend!
A FMF threesome are so over rated. I for one enjoy a SOLID MFM. We are here to please the ladies(!) are we not? I suggest to you (for me that is) the point is to see, watch, film, photograph, or hell even be in the mix is the BOMB!! To play with a sexy, wife, MILF or Cougar is a great night (KINKY TOO)! To watch a pretty woman be pleased by a man or men is what it is all about (of me that is).
I agree.

My first FMF was a huge disappointment - not at all what I was expecting/envisioning/fantasizing.
And the ones that came after that first one weren't any more enjoyable.

In a MFM situation, there's SO much more going on.
Two males can do a hell of a lot more for one lady than two ladies can do for one man.
And after all, unless a guy is a selfish bastard, we're ALL looking to please the lady first and ourselves second.
We would be interested in one of these types of parties....Love a MFM in the bedroom...Lots of fun had by all...keep up posted as well
I am new here. I would certainly be interested. I have a GF that i play with(actually 2) but am left alone to play quite often LoL. Let me know.
I would definitely be down.... after all sounds like exactly what I am here for.
Wow getting a lot of positive feedback. Initially I thought this might be 5 or 10 couples and as many singles. I can see this is going to be bigger than expected. Any ideas where we can hold this party?
We're thinking maybe in 2 or 3 weeks also. What would work better for all uou folks. Friday night? Sat Night?
We're thinking maybe in 2 or 3 weeks also. What would work better for all uou folks. Friday night? Sat Night?
Sounds like something I'd be interested in.
I would be very interested in going, but I would have to check my work schedule. I would have to work out some details and airfare.
I'm out.
May I just suggest that you not do it on the 25th or 26th...habits meet n greet the 25th and area 51 fetish night the 26th...after that we have no preference on which night you will introduce us to some of my b-day party guests...hehehe...inside joke...sorry...keep us posted...kisses...Naugh-Ty and Lucky B
oh yes of course... That would be fantastic
on a saturday night, best for us
We would love to join that party
I'm interseted sounds fun, let me know
I'm totally down with it . . . great idea and thanks to those that don't BASH us SM's and make us feel welcomed, YOU ROCK ! ! !
We also love to have single males at parties. Let us know if anything is going to happen.
We're looking for a good venue. Any suggestions?
please let me know
FUNCOUPLEINOREM wrote:

We're looking for a good venue. Any suggestions?


Guess my place is out of the question, huh? lol
Sounds fun... let me know when you have the M&G
Sounds like fun.. hope you plan for a Saturday!
Guess this helps me with invite lists for my own house parties. :D
I think this is a great idea, sounds really fun. Count me in
i also would love to be included...thanks for the courtesy extended to us outcasts . lol
Wow a party where single guys like me are actually welcome? I would love to receive an invite. Please let me know.
Sounds like a good time....:)
count us in!
as a newly separated soon to be divorced male i would love to find that type of party in my area
please add us to the party list. We love the single dudes. My lady loves the dp
It is a long drive but it could be worth it HEHEHEHE!!!!
Well, for those interested, I'm hosting a m&g this saturday (the 26th) and everyone is welcome to attend to chat with old friends and make new ones. Couples and singles of both genders are all welcome. *mwuah*
where is this meet and greet?
MIND1 wrote:

where is this meet and greet?


email me.
we would be interested. Please include us
Hell yeah! This is a great idea. A smaller club like Club 48 might be a good place to have the party?
Saturday and friday nights work for me. I think that any party is a good idea, count me in please!!
....Couples,single females,single males..can,t we just all cum together on this....it seems like perfect timing to drop the bashing, meet,party and see what individuals are truely like. mail me,k! sounds like a hoot! :)
we to are interested so keep us informed to the haps...xoxoXXX
that sounds fun!
Thanks for the oppurtunity to share, I have attended so many parties where as you say, single males did little more than sit and watch and drink. real dull. But on the other hand I have attended the parties where a big pile of bodies in the middle of the floor was the norm. I feel that ppl should be more accepting to ppl in the lifestyle, and at least let single males have more of a chance to be more involved in the overall lifestyle. Yes I know that alot of single males at parties have made some problems with the women, mainly due to too much alcohol or too many personal issues with lack of knowledge of the lifesyle. I have seen the couples where the men are just insecure with the males presents, even when the woman was totally enjoying herself, and cause the problem. Come on males, lets get it together for the ladies. I quess the goal is for all of us to just get along, looks and personallity are nice, but people are important.
We would also be interested in attending, Thanks!
Count uus in, its a good idea.
Sounds fun, count us in.
damn and i live all the way in fl i woiuld def come if i didnt live so far away
Include us in the next planned party.
Id be interested for sure. i think it would be a lot of fun
We enjoy single sexy fit males in our play time.
I am definitely into the MFM arrangement. Love pleasing her in several ways simultaneously as only can be done with multiple males. Always fun to have a little extra for the male partner too.
Interested. Married but since my wife is 8 months pregnant it's just me for now.
very much interested when I am in town....let me know when it is scheduled please. usually in town a few times each month
We would be interested. Let us know
Count me in to join in the play.
I would love to attend! Even if just to meet people :) Please keep me updated!
We would be interested. Sounds like a good place to potentially meet a good play partner
Commenting a post from 7 years ago?
Commenting on a post from 7 years ago could be a good thing ... first the seed must be planted ... time and patience is required to see what might grow ~ ~ ~
Sign us up
Well I love the more men the better but I am a single girl so maybe I am not the person to ask?
Would love to attend
I AM IN!!!!
I the male in our marriage totally enjoy seeing my lovely wife with another male making her cum with excitement. & she enjoys me being their to help him feel comfortable. We have had 3 somes with MFM & FMF & we love them both but wright know I know my wife wants another man to be in our bed together so any of you out their send us some request & lets go from their. PS after my wife gets her fantasy again then it is my turn to have a 3 some with my wife & another woman. Do not get us wrong we both love couples & gang bangs. Just Saying.
Would love to attend
I'm in
Yes please!! :)
I'd be very interested. MMF all the way!
I would luv to join!
we would luv to attend, and guys can message us. hey lynn needs more than I can give sometimes lol not a bad thing to help her get what she wants
We are soooo in. Lol! Let us know.
I would be very interested in attending.

As a non-newbie in the lifestyle and on Swingular, I have figured out that when I see a new post from a single guy asking why all get a bad rap, I tell him what worked for me (as far as to meet people). It's not a find and fuck site (for me). I prefer to make friends with benefits. I have been lucky and been invited by various couples to be a guest in their bedroom or hotel room and have loved the chance. I know that MFM or even playing at a party is a huge turn on.

If someone were to put on a meet and greet or party for couples who like single men, how would it work? I could host a party like that (may rival my last party). However, how do you say we only take single guys who x,y,z..... Make sense?
We would enjoy a party with single men. Gives my wife more men to choose from.
Hhhmmm...I wonder if anyone is getting a response to an invitation from 2009? 😁
Hahaha. I thing all the single males owe DoingItsweet a thanks for reigniting this old thread.
Think*
not me sorry, but in the next life when i reincarnate into a bisexual
bugs bunny.
I love tasting both
SHENANIGANIZER wrote:

Hhhmmm...I wonder if anyone is getting a response to an invitation from 2009? 😁
Sounds like Adman should get a system that only keeps forums for 12 months not 12 years.
FYI
This Friday the 12th, the Foreplay Friday group at the Moose Lounge is encouraging single males to attend. This is a one time thing, for now, to see how it goes. We are still limiting the numbers who come so we aren't looking at a 5:1 ratio of men to couples, but if you are a couple, invite some single males you know. If you are a single male, contact us, and we will get you on the list for the front door. Cost will be $10 for single males, instead of $5.
Hope to see you there.
Mr. SRO
I am very interested in playing--as a single old man no one seems to want to play .
SAMEROOMONLY wrote:

FYI
This Friday the 12th, the Foreplay Friday group at the Moose Lounge is encouraging single males to attend. This is a one time thing, for now, to see how it goes. We are still limiting the numbers who come so we aren't looking at a 5:1 ratio of men to couples, but if you are a couple, invite some single males you know. If you are a single male, contact us, and we will get you on the list for the front door. Cost will be $10 for single males, instead of $5.
Hope to see you there.
Mr. SRO

Please add me to the list----I have wanted to attend but it has not showed single men invited
Where do I sign up!