Jan. 25th is officially National Opposite Day but many people consider the 25th of each month to also be a monthly unofficial opposite day. We thought it might be fun to issue an Opposite Day Challenge and see if we could help some people here to have some sexy fun on or around the 25th of May (that's also Memorial Day weekend).
So here's the challenge. Think of something sexy and OPPOSITE and post it here and if people like your idea/post they can contact you and see if you can set up some sexy time (mild or WILD!) for the 25th. Of course, you shouldn't do something out of your comfort zone or outside your lifestyle rules but maybe push yourselves a little bit to do something just a little bit different/opposite and see what happens. Have fun!
So here's the challenge. Think of something sexy and OPPOSITE and post it here and if people like your idea/post they can contact you and see if you can set up some sexy time (mild or WILD!) for the 25th. Of course, you shouldn't do something out of your comfort zone or outside your lifestyle rules but maybe push yourselves a little bit to do something just a little bit different/opposite and see what happens. Have fun!
I guess it's only fair that we go first since we started this thread. We think it might be fun to have a reverse/opposite soft swap. What we think that could entail would be getting together with another couple and having ALL the preliminaries with our own partner and then swapping for the...well, for intercourse. LOL
Don't get us wrong, we feel like foreplay is often THE best/most important part of sex and that's why we often enjoy soft swap as much or even MORE than full swap. But we thought it might be sexy and fun to mix it up and do something we've never done before and that is fool around and watch another couple, while they also have foreplay and watch us and then, after everyone is sufficiently turned on, THEN swap. Does that sound stupid or does anyone think it could be sexy, fun, and opposite?
Don't get us wrong, we feel like foreplay is often THE best/most important part of sex and that's why we often enjoy soft swap as much or even MORE than full swap. But we thought it might be sexy and fun to mix it up and do something we've never done before and that is fool around and watch another couple, while they also have foreplay and watch us and then, after everyone is sufficiently turned on, THEN swap. Does that sound stupid or does anyone think it could be sexy, fun, and opposite?
Shockingly We've actually done this a few times it makes things very intense and interesting! Often times the guys pop to fast lol!
SHAKURA89 wrote:
Shockingly We've actually done this a few times it makes things very intense and interesting! Often times the guys pop to fast lol!
We can see how that could be very possible given that we all usually know exactly which buttons to press to get maximal results with our own partners. LOL
One thing recently we have been trying to do is change up our routine when we meet people. If we decide to meet someone then we are generally confident enough and like the other person well enough to want to to get straight down to business with them. We are no longer shy meeting new people. We've done this for 7 years and we know what we want and dont hid anything or hold back. So many people say and ask how do you break the ice and get past the initial discomfort. It takes really just one person to start that and make it happen.
So the last couple we met we decided we wanted to meet for dinner before all of us headed back to our place. But we wanted to challenge ourselves to show them we were serious and where we wanted to go from there. So we wanted to swap partners once we met. That way we could sit next to that person and actually see them up close and maybe fool around under the table a bit. Staying swapped for the evening of course, even the car ride back so possibly getting a bit more fooling around in.
I have to say that was a success for us! Plus we plan on adding to that.
So the last couple we met we decided we wanted to meet for dinner before all of us headed back to our place. But we wanted to challenge ourselves to show them we were serious and where we wanted to go from there. So we wanted to swap partners once we met. That way we could sit next to that person and actually see them up close and maybe fool around under the table a bit. Staying swapped for the evening of course, even the car ride back so possibly getting a bit more fooling around in.
I have to say that was a success for us! Plus we plan on adding to that.