Okay, I may regret asking, but worth a shot. It’s a very common fantasy for a lady to come join a couple. I love the thought of my lovely wife going to join in this. BUT....before we get requests, this would need to be a couple that we get to know well beforehand, someone who is respectful of us both and not just wanting a one night thing, All communication leading up to would have to be between the FOUR of us, no PM’s. Wife of course will have to give the final stamp of approval.
This is actually happening more and more lately its something we do as well. Were we have met couples and done swaps, including wife sharing/swapping when our schedules wouldn't align. Plus i agree we use kik to get to know people as best we can for as long as we can. Then we meet together the first time before making any future swaps or single exchanges.