We noticed back when we were more active that many couples listed the women as “bi”. It seemed that when we’d meet some of these couples the bi thing was never even brought up. It just turned into full swap scenarios.
It made us wonder, where men are so ego driven, if by a woman claiming to be bi-sexual, that it helps their male partner to not feel jealousy? Meaning that acting bi-sexual as a means to get into a foursome with another man is easier than a wife or gf saying “I really need to try a different man?” Because ultimately that’s what happens. We even had one husband admit that his wife used the bi-sexual card to get to the male half. And why is the balance of bi-women to men so lopsided? I think I can answer that too. It’s the taboo of homosexuality. Even though it’s more socially accepted today most men look at it like an assault on their masculinity. So what are your thoughts?
For the record we are a straight couple. The wife has tried the bi thing but ultimately it wasn’t for her. She likes men. She will play and flirt with a female to help lighten the mood but when it comes down to business, she wants a man.
Any other thoughts or experiences to add to this?
It made us wonder, where men are so ego driven, if by a woman claiming to be bi-sexual, that it helps their male partner to not feel jealousy? Meaning that acting bi-sexual as a means to get into a foursome with another man is easier than a wife or gf saying “I really need to try a different man?” Because ultimately that’s what happens. We even had one husband admit that his wife used the bi-sexual card to get to the male half. And why is the balance of bi-women to men so lopsided? I think I can answer that too. It’s the taboo of homosexuality. Even though it’s more socially accepted today most men look at it like an assault on their masculinity. So what are your thoughts?
For the record we are a straight couple. The wife has tried the bi thing but ultimately it wasn’t for her. She likes men. She will play and flirt with a female to help lighten the mood but when it comes down to business, she wants a man.
Any other thoughts or experiences to add to this?
I really am bi!! There are some real bi females out there. Sorry you’ve had some issues with people not being upfront!
~Mandee
~Mandee
Hi Mandee. We’ve never been offended by it. Just took note of it. We don’t judge anyone for their preferences. Just thought it was an interesting topic. I think Kinsey was right. I think both males and females fall somewhere on the sexual spectrum and have different amounts of bi-sexuality in them. From the very basic thoughts of it all the way to those that act on it and enjoy it.
I am bi I love eating pussy and getting my pussy eating out by women
Ms. Evil has tried to be bi...even went on a "date" with a gay woman once, but she just likes dick too much. And while she can appreciate the beauty of the female form it doesn't really do a whole lot for her sexually other than the thrill of getting the guys really turned on. She's completely comfortable "acting" bi, however, if situations/circumstances dictate, but in the end (no pun intended) she wants a flesh and blood hard penis. 
Amen! Says the wife. 😉. She also can’t really get off on a woman but will also “act” for moods sake. But she’s an absolute conneseur of the man parts. Big man parts. 😛
Bigtittslut013 wrote:
I am bi I love eating pussy and getting my pussy eating out by women
Nothing wrong with that.
EVILDOERS wrote:
Ms. Evil has tried to be bi...even went on a "date" with a gay woman once, but she just likes dick too much. And while she can appreciate the beauty of the female form it doesn't really do a whole lot for her sexually other than the thrill of getting the guys really turned on. She's completely comfortable "acting" bi, however, if situations/circumstances dictate, but in the end (no pun intended) she wants a flesh and blood hard penis.
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UTHOTCPLEXTREME wrote:
Nothing wrong with that.
Nope not at all I love both
We can't speak for other couples, or individuals, or speculate accurately about why others decide to publicly self disclose their sexual preference they way they do, or whether or not their disclosures are accurate. People have been, and are still to this day, persecuted for their sexual preference and or sexual identity. Negative social, familial and professional consequences can occur in some peoples lives' if they are totally honest about such matters. Self discovery is a life long process. It will be different for everyone.
It seems that there maybe something akin to a baseline primary sexual preference that most of us just sort of naturally flow into. That is the determining factor in how we self disclose. If it were not for the aforementioned negative and backward social consequences, to just naturally find both genders totally sexually appealing would seem to be advantageous and socially enviable. In the swinging lifestyle, not so many years back, to be a bisexual woman was considered advantageous, but to be a bisexual man was not. Hopefully that is no longer the case. I think that it is men's sexual interest in women, and control issues, that has far too often driven what's sexually acceptable, and that has not been healthy.
My darling , sexy wife is full on bisexual, with a slight preference toward men...Maybe. Really it depends on the person more than the gender. She is interested in men for sure, but when she is watching porn, live or otherwise, she does admit she is more focused on the woman. Maybe it's because women are often so much more animated in orgasm. She prefers watching men with women than women with women or men with men, but it all excites her. Lucky her! I am heterosexual, but I am not at all offended or grossed out by bisexuality or homosexuality. I am just not excited by men having sex unless they are pleasuring a woman. We wondered if that was a matter of social conditioning, so we have watched gay and bisexual porn where there is a focus on men with men to see if I might be interested. Unless there is a woman involved I really don't get turned on. If my darling wife gets all turned on and excited, that is exciting. We have been in a DVP a few times with a man who is bisexual, and it didn't bother me at all that he was excited about having contact with me whilst we were both inside her, and she, well, she loved it, and I loved that. That's my baseline at present. So maybe I am bi-comfortable, but I really have no interest in man to man contact, outside of some necessary incidental contact where the woman is my primary focus, and I think that bi-comfortable might suggest that? We don't want to false advertise. There are some women, we have met, who have no interest in hooking up with a woman who disclose as bi-comfortable because couples with a bisexual woman are more likely to agree to meet with them. That really isn't a problem for us, if there is enough heterosexual chemistry between the four of us to have great heterosexual sex.
Bottom line, ask questions, be honest, and remember our expectations don't change anyone's preference or comfort zone.
It seems that there maybe something akin to a baseline primary sexual preference that most of us just sort of naturally flow into. That is the determining factor in how we self disclose. If it were not for the aforementioned negative and backward social consequences, to just naturally find both genders totally sexually appealing would seem to be advantageous and socially enviable. In the swinging lifestyle, not so many years back, to be a bisexual woman was considered advantageous, but to be a bisexual man was not. Hopefully that is no longer the case. I think that it is men's sexual interest in women, and control issues, that has far too often driven what's sexually acceptable, and that has not been healthy.
My darling , sexy wife is full on bisexual, with a slight preference toward men...Maybe. Really it depends on the person more than the gender. She is interested in men for sure, but when she is watching porn, live or otherwise, she does admit she is more focused on the woman. Maybe it's because women are often so much more animated in orgasm. She prefers watching men with women than women with women or men with men, but it all excites her. Lucky her! I am heterosexual, but I am not at all offended or grossed out by bisexuality or homosexuality. I am just not excited by men having sex unless they are pleasuring a woman. We wondered if that was a matter of social conditioning, so we have watched gay and bisexual porn where there is a focus on men with men to see if I might be interested. Unless there is a woman involved I really don't get turned on. If my darling wife gets all turned on and excited, that is exciting. We have been in a DVP a few times with a man who is bisexual, and it didn't bother me at all that he was excited about having contact with me whilst we were both inside her, and she, well, she loved it, and I loved that. That's my baseline at present. So maybe I am bi-comfortable, but I really have no interest in man to man contact, outside of some necessary incidental contact where the woman is my primary focus, and I think that bi-comfortable might suggest that? We don't want to false advertise. There are some women, we have met, who have no interest in hooking up with a woman who disclose as bi-comfortable because couples with a bisexual woman are more likely to agree to meet with them. That really isn't a problem for us, if there is enough heterosexual chemistry between the four of us to have great heterosexual sex.
Bottom line, ask questions, be honest, and remember our expectations don't change anyone's preference or comfort zone.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:
We can't speak for other couples, or individuals, or speculate accurately about why other decide to publicly self disclose their sexual preference they way they do, or whether or not their disclosures are accurate. People have been, and are still to this day, persecuted for their sexual preference and or sexual identity. Negative social, familial and professional consequences can occur in some peoples lives if they are totally honest about such matters. Self discovery is a life long process. It will be different for everyone.
It seems that there maybe something akin to a baseline primary sexual preference that most of us just sort of naturally flow into. That is the determine factor in how we self disclose. If it were not for the aforementioned negative and backward social consequences, to just naturally find both genders totally sexually appealing would seem to be advantageous and socially enviable. In the swinging lifestyle, not so many years back, to be a bisexual woman was considered advantageous, but to be a bisexual man was not. Hopefully that is no longer the case. I think that it is men's sexual interest in women, and control issues, that has far too often driven what's sexually acceptable, and that has not been healthy.
My darling , sexy wife is full on bisexual, with a slight preference toward men...Maybe. Really it depends on the person more than the gender. She is interested in men for sure, but when she is watching porn, live or otherwise, she does admit she is more focused on the woman. Maybe it's because women are often so much more animated in orgasm. She prefers watching men with women than women with women or men with men, but it all excites her. Lucky her! I am heterosexual, but I am not at all offended or grossed out by bisexuality or homosexuality. I am just not excited by men having sex unless they are pleasuring a woman. We wondered if that was a matter of social conditioning, so we have watched gay and bisexual porn where there is a focus on men with men. Unless there is a woman involved I really don't get turned on. If my darling wife gets all turned on and excited, that is exciting. We have been in a DVP a few times with a man who is bisexual, and it didn't bother me at all that he was excited about having contact with me whilst we were both inside her, and she well, she loved it, and I loved that. That's my baseline at present. So maybe I am bi-comfortable, but I really have no interest in man to man contact, outside of some contact where the woman is my primary focus, and I think that bi-comfortable might suggest that? We don't want to false advertise. There are some women, we have met, who have no interest in hooking up with a woman who disclose as bi-comfortable because couples with a bisexual woman are more likely to agree to meet with them. That really isn't a problem for us, if there is enough heterosexual chemistry between the four of us to have great heterosexual sex.
Bottom line, ask questions, be honest, and remember our expectations don't change anyone's preference or comfort zone.
Well said. And I’ve had the exact same experiences as you in the DVP and hvae never has an issue with an act sexually that pleases the wife. You just have to do what’s comfortable and try to erase all that programming and social norm BS to really enjoy sex at every level.
We have wondered the same thing. Seems to be very lopsided.
I'm 100% bi! I love woman just as much as men
It's certainly great that in the lifestyle people can express their sexual preferences freely and most of the time without judgement. I am certain that couples with bi women probably have more chances for sexual encounters but why pretend to be something your not. We are both straight and we are not offended nor do we exclude those that have bi women or men. We just make sure they know our preference. Now Ms Skicouple can be bi comfortable (activity from above the waist) if she is so inclined but usually she wants a dick and the rest is just for show.
We don't know why a couple would put in their profile they are bi if they are not but we don't really care about their motives we just want them to be honest when and if we meet about their preferences and boundaries.
We don't know why a couple would put in their profile they are bi if they are not but we don't really care about their motives we just want them to be honest when and if we meet about their preferences and boundaries.
Ok I’ll admit. I’m bi-lingual. I can talk to men and women at an equal level of comfort. And sex can be a great escape from the negativity in the world. In the bedroom everyone is bi-partisan. Anyway, the feedback has been great. Looking forward to hearing any other opinions. 😉
I (the Mrs) started out flirting w the idea of experimenting w a female when we dated. I made a promise I would try it. First time was fun but the more times I've been w a girl I like it more and more. Now I can actually say I enjoy it. I would go as far as saying I like it equally as well as with guys or more. Fun to have both but I would consider myself bi. I probably wouldn't act on it if it wasn't for him liking it so much but I definitely like getting and reciprocating with females.
I love women. I love to kiss stroke suck lick women. I would rather do FMF than MFM.
Bigtittslut013 wrote:
I am bi I love eating pussy and getting my pussy eating out by women
You are HOTT!!!!! The Mrs
I am a real Bi-sexual female... We do exsist!!!
I love women!!!! Bring your wife here & I'll show you! .... But really sucks that some women lie a good game about it until the pussy is in front of their face
I love women!!!! Bring your wife here & I'll show you! .... But really sucks that some women lie a good game about it until the pussy is in front of their face
I am a real Bi-sexual female... We do exsist!!!
I love women!!!! Bring your wife here & I'll show you! .... But really sucks that some women lie a good game about it until the pussy is in front of their face
I love women!!!! Bring your wife here & I'll show you! .... But really sucks that some women lie a good game about it until the pussy is in front of their face
Ganja_Kween_420 wrote:
I am a real Bi-sexual female... We do exsist!!!
I love women!!!! Bring your wife here & I'll show you! .... But really sucks that some women lie a good game about it until the pussy is in front of their face
Let’s get your pussy’s face to face and do some experimenting. 😉