I'm not sure if this is the place for introductions, but I just wanted to introduce my wife and I. We're pretty new to this lifestyle, but have enjoyed it thus far. We're really chill and love meeting new people. If you experienced folk have any advice pertaining to the LS, we're all ears!
Welcome to the lifestyle!
We can't say communication enough on here. Navigating the LS can expose some emotional landmines you didn't realize existed. Talking through them with each other before, during, and after is critical. Understanding boundaries for each other and supporting those creates trust that builds and makes each time stronger and better. Remember this is about enjoying different aspects of life and have fun.
We can't say communication enough on here. Navigating the LS can expose some emotional landmines you didn't realize existed. Talking through them with each other before, during, and after is critical. Understanding boundaries for each other and supporting those creates trust that builds and makes each time stronger and better. Remember this is about enjoying different aspects of life and have fun.
Be careful as to the parties you attend and be ready to leave if either partner feels uncomfortable in the slightest. There is always another event next week or so.
The easiest Hague is the number that rsvp to the event. Then scroll down and look at those attending. This should give you a pretty basic sense of the type of folks attending and if they look like folks you would want to get to know.
Have fun..
The easiest Hague is the number that rsvp to the event. Then scroll down and look at those attending. This should give you a pretty basic sense of the type of folks attending and if they look like folks you would want to get to know.
Have fun..
Ditto to what has been said above. Great advice. Communication and being respectful with eachother and those you encounter. Other than meeting people at parties or events it begins here on the site with your profile. Your description is straight forward and your photos are great (some people really drop the ball on photos).
Enjoy the experience ...
Enjoy the experience ...
Maybe fill out your profile a little more. Knowing what others are looking for and getting a little taste for personalities in write ups are helpful.
Make sure you discuss each others boundries and respect those boundries, that will build trust. And when trust has been built, boundries can change, opening up even more experiences to explore.
Try hard not to get in your own way. It's really tempting for all of us, I think, to pass up good or even great people/matches by looking for perfect matches. We've had a LOT of fun when we've let go of our preconceived notions a little bit and looked a little deeper at people that, on paper, didn't really seem like they were our type or what we were looking for initially.
That doesn't mean you should just fuck someone you're not at all attracted to but I think so many of us have these mental lists that we check off boxes and get a little obsessed with finding people who check ALL the boxes. YMMV
ps- The Swinger Welcome Wagon should be around to your place any day now. Please answer the door naked when they arrive.
That doesn't mean you should just fuck someone you're not at all attracted to but I think so many of us have these mental lists that we check off boxes and get a little obsessed with finding people who check ALL the boxes. YMMV
ps- The Swinger Welcome Wagon should be around to your place any day now. Please answer the door naked when they arrive.
Welcome to the site!
First, let us welcome you to this adventure! We've been swinging for more than 20 years, and although it hasn't always been good, it has been a tremendous learning experience. We would echo what everyone else here says about communication and honesty. Our boundaries have changed tremendously because of that very thing. It's a wonderfully freeing experience, and if there is anything we can help or answer, please tell us.