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We've noticed that with booty calls, if people aren't intrested they just don't respond. Are we alone in wanting at least a response even if it is a no?
FullDisclosure2018 wrote:

We've noticed that with booty calls, if people aren't intrested they just don't respond. Are we alone in wanting at least a response even if it is a no?
We think it is polite to always respond but at the same time have had several people get offended when we said “sorry”. So can understand why some people prefer not to respond at all to avoid those.
I get that. but I'm kind of old fashioned so if I'm not intered I would let you know. I just don't think it's right to ignore people especially when they take the time to message you and let you know that they are intrested in you or your spouse or both of you. But I do appreciate the response to my post thank you for that. I don't feel quite as ignored now. lol
I’m always pro replies. It’s best to know where I stand with others. It’s also best to let others know.
Excellent answer THEGMAN! I think I've only received one "already found someone" response. I thought it was very nice an polite of them. Most people simply don't take the time to respond which feels rude.
We totally agree, it's just rude. And maybe we have optimistic thoughts, but if we're not intrested it's the least we can do to say we already found somebody or were not intrested, either way at least you know you can move on.
FullDisclosure2018 wrote:

I get that. but I'm kind of old fashioned so if I'm not intered I would let you know. I just don't think it's right to ignore people especially when they take the time to message you and let you know that they are intrested in you or your spouse or both of you. But I do appreciate the response to my post thank you for that. I don't feel quite as ignored now. lol
We agree as well and not justifying those that don’t. We have been responded to extremely negatively before (usually single males), those are the times we think why did we respond. Also, we have situations where we found someone and didn’t respond immediately because well we were “busy” but usually respond later saying sorry. With that said, it’s easy to craft a standard response and reply to all that respond. It’s common courtesy.
Thank you for all of you who posted. We greatly appreciate the feedback. Stay safe and have fun!
Thank you for all of you who posted. We greatly appreciate the feedback. Stay safe and have fun!
Thank you for all of you who posted. We greatly appreciate the feedback. Stay safe and have fun!