I had a first date tonight and it was awesome.
What made it awesome? He was interested in me. I have had too many dates that sucked for many reasons and I am not going to in to all of them.
I just want to share with you what works. Be interested in who you are with.
What made it awesome? He was interested in me. I have had too many dates that sucked for many reasons and I am not going to in to all of them.
I just want to share with you what works. Be interested in who you are with.
What's up. Hit me when u read..... If u want its...5202577765...trying to get in to some real fun...
.Jon b
.Jon b
*Baffled* I hereby apologize on behalf of the entire male gender.
Glad you had an awesome first date! It’s amazing how far a little genuine interest, authenticity and actual human connection goes in this community!
Glad you had an awesome first date! It’s amazing how far a little genuine interest, authenticity and actual human connection goes in this community!
Congratulations on your date! One thing we have found was a great indicator of compatibility for us is looking for people who can use proper English. People who don't bother to learn to speak, or write, in simple, easy to understand sentences, don't usually work out well for us. They might work out for some people, but we find it to be a real turn off.
FullFrontalNerdity wrote:
*Baffled* I hereby apologize on behalf of the entire male gender.
Glad you had an awesome first date! It’s amazing how far a little genuine interest, authenticity and actual human connection goes in this community!
Don't feel you need to apologize. I don't think anyone should have to feel like they need to take on their gender. I have had a lot of bad dates but the good ones make it worth it.
I'm a little confused. Are we talking about vanilla dating or lifestyle dating? Because there is a HUGE difference.
1DIVA wrote:
Don't feel you need to apologize. I don't think anyone should have to feel like they need to take on their gender. I have had a lot of bad dates but the good ones make it worth it.
Oh I didn't mean your bad dates! I was jokingly referring to the bafflingly bad single male responses you were getting to your post! ...though one seems to have come to his senses and deleted it!
EVILDOERS wrote:
I'm a little confused. Are we talking about vanilla dating or lifestyle dating? Because there is a HUGE difference.
There is a huge difference. I rarely date vanilla anymore because I find lifestyle men to be better quality and more respectful.
EVILDOERS wrote:
I'm a little confused. Are we talking about vanilla dating or lifestyle dating? Because there is a HUGE difference.
There is a huge difference. I rarely date vanilla anymore because I find lifestyle men to be better quality and more respectful.
When we are with someone who has a predetermined frame they want us to fit into then the conversation will probably feel like it is full of demands and if we try to fit in we might begin to lose ourselves. When we are with someone, who is open to the true possibilities within the relationship, a true adventurer living beyond their ego, they will find the real us, if we can get outside of our egos and expectations, fantastically interesting. They will be interested in us because they dared to meet us rather than an expectation they hoped to meet. If sex, romance or whatever should happen, it will happen. In any case the relationship will more probably go deeper, whatever direction it follows, and be more fulfilling. When we are so fortunate as to go deep with the people we meet, the fuller we will be, and the more we will have to give to others, even those who will become our lovers. What if we ourselves are friendship and or passion in perfection if we can escape our egos? Be curious rather than suspicious!
Wow was that a great mushroom pizza!
Wow was that a great mushroom pizza!