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Alright women is it just me or do you struggle finding another women you want to connect with also have fun with that actually is your type or real!!! Damn I just really want some girl time!! Someone I really want. So much harder getting a women than a man bahaha
I feel. I really like girls and it's hard to find on I actually like
Yes the struggle is real
Same problem the mrs is having to the point shes tired of even searching anymore
It has been difficult and took some time for us to find other women and couples that we really connect with. Although, we think that it's just tough in general as we get older to find new friends anyway, let alone ones that you can have a physical relationship with as well. Life tends to get in the way. Getting out to some of the events has been the best way to find those that we really mesh with, at least from our experience.
Ladies, I find this conversation fairly amusing. You act like it’s only a thing that transpires between women. Men find a problem in their own way. It appears to me that too many women simply find all other women as competition. Other opinions are welcome!
I agree I now understand why it’s harder for men!!! Women are complicated and literally I can’t read them at all!
I completely agree.. My girl tank is really low. I would love a MFFM or just a FFM. I think finding a women I click with and want to play with has become way more difficult than I ever imagined it would be. Finding a couple we both like is difficult as well.
It's been hard for me too (woman). I'm picky...hard to find a good match...always receptive to inquiries. XOXO
SUGARSANDSPICE wrote:

Ladies, I find this conversation fairly amusing. You act like it’s only a thing that transpires between women. Men find a problem in their own way. It appears to me that too many women simply find all other women as competition. Other opinions are welcome!

This don't happen on this site dose it
Yes! I am having THE hardest time. So glad I'm not the only one!
Looking for something specific means you need to take action. Talking about what you want won’t make it happen. Plan a get together, ladies night out at a local bar , or a get to know you dinner as a group. Open the invite to ladies that are llooking for a similar experience. Call up reserve a private room at a local bar or a large table at you favorite restaurant . Post an invite on this site . Don’t wait for someone else to do something. I bet you will get a great response and even if you don’t make that magical connection on the first try you will make friends!
We have heard lots of couples or women say this is an issue. We've met lots of women who like playing. Trick is being consistent in your search. Seems like its either boom or bust. We find them in all different places so use more than 1 resource. Be nice and not creepers, it will pay off!
We seem to find them everywhere but here. I don't know why but that's how it works for us and she loves girl play. We have also found that it is not always the girl you want that is the girl that works for you. So be open and do what all of us are trying to do here HAVE FUN!

SUGARSANDSPICE wrote:

Ladies, I find this conversation fairly amusing. You act like it’s only a thing that transpires between women. Men find a problem in their own way. It appears to me that too many women simply find all other women as competition. Other opinions are welcome!


We find this spot on if you women would just look in the mirror and realize that the person your seeing is your ONLY competition we would all have a lot more fun! :)