Here in Southern Utah, we have a group of about 16 people (group is always growing). We are great friends. These are stand up people. Honest, authentic, extremely vulnerable, and full of Love. It started with 4 of us (2 heterosexual couples) who simply wanted a deeper level of intimacy (not sexual though sensual for sure) in our friendship. We would get together and touch and vulnerable conversation became the norm. As time went on we sought to enlarge our group and our criteria was simply the folks needed to be down to earth, authentic, willing to be vulnerable, and a desire for deeper intimacy. The next couple we added was an attractive feminine lesbian couple. within two nights, this lesbian couple trusted the 4 of us enough to lean into this kind of intimacy with two heterosexual couples, specifically the males. These relationships have grown to involve very intimate cuddling, massage, sensual touch. (All without sex, truly one of the most beautiful things I have ever been involved with).
absolute trust. absolute integrity.
As time went on we added more and more couples. a Gay male couple from Arizona, Hetero couple from Nevada, along with several other local couples.
This group has absolute trust in each other. No one is trying to hurt another's relationship and all are acting with integrity. And while I love sex and surely find sex with others to be an exciting I find this space to be incredible. A soft space for newbies to test the waters of intimacy, a chance to have deep intimate vulnerable friendships.
Why did I write this?
- One I wondered who else is engaging non-normative relationships/sexuality in this way
- For those who are or have what has been your experience
- Are there others in Southern Utah looking for something softer and deeper along these lines.
Love to see comments here but also welcome an private questions or comments. Absolutely these are the best human beings I have ever been around!
absolute trust. absolute integrity.
As time went on we added more and more couples. a Gay male couple from Arizona, Hetero couple from Nevada, along with several other local couples.
This group has absolute trust in each other. No one is trying to hurt another's relationship and all are acting with integrity. And while I love sex and surely find sex with others to be an exciting I find this space to be incredible. A soft space for newbies to test the waters of intimacy, a chance to have deep intimate vulnerable friendships.
Why did I write this?
- One I wondered who else is engaging non-normative relationships/sexuality in this way
- For those who are or have what has been your experience
- Are there others in Southern Utah looking for something softer and deeper along these lines.
Love to see comments here but also welcome an private questions or comments. Absolutely these are the best human beings I have ever been around!