When someone Friend Requests you and you accept the FR do you then wait for the couple who first reached out to respond to your acceptance of their FR or do YOU send a follow-up email?
How about when YOU are the first one to reach out? Do you wait for them to respond (other than just accepting your FR) or do you follow-up?
Does what you do in either circumstance depend on whether or not you find their locked pics attractive?
Are you unlikely to follow up at all, in either scenario, if you don't, for some reason, find them attractive?
Inquiring minds want to know. And I think I may know why it seems much harder nowadays to find/meet/hook-up with other people.
Or does none of the above matter because you're really just looking for material for your fap bank?
How about when YOU are the first one to reach out? Do you wait for them to respond (other than just accepting your FR) or do you follow-up?
Does what you do in either circumstance depend on whether or not you find their locked pics attractive?
Are you unlikely to follow up at all, in either scenario, if you don't, for some reason, find them attractive?
Inquiring minds want to know. And I think I may know why it seems much harder nowadays to find/meet/hook-up with other people.
Or does none of the above matter because you're really just looking for material for your fap bank?
It all depends on the quality of the first move. If it is a blind request, to hell with them. If there is content related to what is in your profile then a courtesy reply would be acceptable.
The physical attractive part is important but a good conversation and personality can bridge that gap. So I will see if there is a connection before ruling anyone out.
The physical attractive part is important but a good conversation and personality can bridge that gap. So I will see if there is a connection before ruling anyone out.
So 1st thing, we really don't get what the big deal is about blind friend requests. I mean what's so blind about it? Comes with a profile that has the story that goes with the request. Are they sexy? Yep? Game on. No? No harm no foul.
So, that means if they sent an FR and we're interested, yes we will accept the request and make 2nd move. Maybe? Not enough info? Interested we will probably accept the FR and wait to see if they make the next move.
That said we don't post any photos that are even PG13 ...not much fap material in there ..
So, that means if they sent an FR and we're interested, yes we will accept the request and make 2nd move. Maybe? Not enough info? Interested we will probably accept the FR and wait to see if they make the next move.
That said we don't post any photos that are even PG13 ...not much fap material in there ..
Not writing all this to the (clever and funny) OP but just generally commenting here.
We get that there is a little bit of gamesmanship in all of this. Really it’s in everything in life. We usually reply or make a move if we are interested in getting to know them further. It doesn’t matter who made the first move.
In some cases we send a message saying we don’t think we’re a good match and wish them good luck. We especially do that if they take the time to send us a message and we’re not a good fit. We hate to be ignored so we try not to do that to others.
Often we will get a blind friend request and they have an anemic profile with 2-3 crappy pics and you can’t tell who they are and the private pics aren’t any better...we’ll unfriend them and not send any message or simply deny the request. If someone puts effort into their profile, has good pics AND sends us a message we will always reply.
Too many have bad profiles and bad pics and it tells us they don’t care or aren’t serious. We won’t waste our time on them.
Can’t say we’re perfect at this, we probably have accidentally ignored someone before but we try.
We say, “Don’t get too ‘Jr. High’ with all this. Be adults. Be confident and just commuicate openly with whoever you want, whenever you want.”
We get that there is a little bit of gamesmanship in all of this. Really it’s in everything in life. We usually reply or make a move if we are interested in getting to know them further. It doesn’t matter who made the first move.
In some cases we send a message saying we don’t think we’re a good match and wish them good luck. We especially do that if they take the time to send us a message and we’re not a good fit. We hate to be ignored so we try not to do that to others.
Often we will get a blind friend request and they have an anemic profile with 2-3 crappy pics and you can’t tell who they are and the private pics aren’t any better...we’ll unfriend them and not send any message or simply deny the request. If someone puts effort into their profile, has good pics AND sends us a message we will always reply.
Too many have bad profiles and bad pics and it tells us they don’t care or aren’t serious. We won’t waste our time on them.
Can’t say we’re perfect at this, we probably have accidentally ignored someone before but we try.
We say, “Don’t get too ‘Jr. High’ with all this. Be adults. Be confident and just commuicate openly with whoever you want, whenever you want.”
Hard to say when you receive a request whether it’s a legit request or a pic collector. We generally don’t accept blind requests however it is sex site and I’m reminded when walking through the hustler store in LA. The speaker says “relax it’s obly sex”.
We have never sent a blind friend request and we will usually delete the ones we get.
We usually send an email if interested and if we get a positive response we will send a friend request and let them know in our response.
We realize most of the people on this site are Utah based and we have yet to receive any response from someone in the Houston area (our permanent home base). We have met a lot of great people in the SLC area and wish we had more time to meet others when we cum there.
We have no problem reaching out to others through an email on the site and we are not bothered if they don't respond. That attitude has really enhanced our experience when we meet new couples.
We usually send an email if interested and if we get a positive response we will send a friend request and let them know in our response.
We realize most of the people on this site are Utah based and we have yet to receive any response from someone in the Houston area (our permanent home base). We have met a lot of great people in the SLC area and wish we had more time to meet others when we cum there.
We have no problem reaching out to others through an email on the site and we are not bothered if they don't respond. That attitude has really enhanced our experience when we meet new couples.
Personally, I always try to send a message with a friend request. But I also think that as a single male in the lifestyle, it's kind of an important step to take. Until I find my own female to become a couple 😋
We don't mind blind friend requests, the worst thing to happen is we say no. We don't like couples that instantly become a single male every time you plan something. Tell the truth we do accept some single males. We don't friend anyone that has no pics, so no benefit for us.
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So 1st thing, we really don't get what the big deal is about blind friend requests. I mean what's so blind about it? Comes with a profile that has the story that goes with the request. Are they sexy? Yep? Game on. No? No harm no foul ..
For what’s its worth...This is why we like Kasidie’s flirt feature. Low key connection with little downside if the other party’s not interested.