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I am not an alpha, but I've always comsidered myself a more dominant male, both in and out of the bedroom. I run my own business, take charge in the relationship when it's necessary, organize and plan events and generally keep things running smoothly. I have accepted this to be my personality. So it was a shock to me last week when a chance encounter opened my eyes to a new possibility.

I have always envisioned a female dominatrix as this vinyl wearing, whip cracking, order giving beast (like you see in cheap porn) and that never really turned me on. This past week, i had a complete stranger just start playing with my hair and in about 30 seconds flat became a complacent puddle of submissive goo in ber hands. The best part is, i LOVED it. I guess my question to the community is, how common is it really to have a woman want to take charge, respectfully and romanticlly, without having to resort to the bondage, pain or humiliation? I want to explore more of this new fantasy but all the women i meet (including my wife) are far too submissive to try.

Thoughts? Suggestions?
I can’t say how common it is but know that I may be kind of your female counterpart, in that I often fill a submissive role but know that to be the dominant one is also strong within me (I guess you call it a “switch”) We have planned to provide a “gangbang” for others (that never came to fruition); in it I was going to take a lead role, call the shots. (I know I could do much better than cheap porn). The players dropped out but I would still like to do it. I have played the dominant role with a man before and found it exihillerating and a real turn on.
That's a fascinating concept. If you ever decide to try this again, let me know. I might even be able to help organize. :)
Fetlife would be my recommendation. It caters to kink. Including sensual domination as described.