Hello everyone, I'm very new to this site (and fairly new to the state to be honest) and I'm starting the search for a consistent FWB or couple to connect with (MMF or FFM). I know this isn't going to be a fast process (nor should you expect it to be) but I am very interested in finding cool people that I can vibe with. I need to know that I can trust someone, or trust a couple, before sex. Laying all the cards on the table is really the only option; which includes setting clear boundaries, being respectful, staying clean and safe (willing to share full and recent STD test results) and mainting the relationship according to the mutually set rules/boundaries.
If this is something you are interested in, please feel free to reach out
. I look forward to hearing from you.
-Taylor
If this is something you are interested in, please feel free to reach out
. I look forward to hearing from you. -Taylor
👌🏿
Farmers only .com
Haha, haha.
Hold on let me catch my breath... Hahaha hahaha..
Nope to funny can't stop. Laughing.
-female half
Hold on let me catch my breath... Hahaha hahaha..
Nope to funny can't stop. Laughing.
-female half
Honestly I don't get the joke, but if you're not interested go ahead and pay no attention to my post.
Sex is way better (in my opinion) when you can get to know someone beyond a physical attraction, and that's ultimately what I want. I know that's not the case for everyone, and there's nothing wrong with that either.
But this is my search, so please, respect it. Create your own posts for whatever you're into, and don't bother with others that don't interest you. I feel like I really shouldn't have to spell that out.But apparently I do...
Sex is way better (in my opinion) when you can get to know someone beyond a physical attraction, and that's ultimately what I want. I know that's not the case for everyone, and there's nothing wrong with that either.
But this is my search, so please, respect it. Create your own posts for whatever you're into, and don't bother with others that don't interest you. I feel like I really shouldn't have to spell that out.But apparently I do...
Well... here is your answer:
> You look 12 years old. (Maybe there is someone on the site who wants to have sex with a 12 year old. I don't know.)
> You are a single male and they are a dime a trillion on this site who want exactly what you want.
> So in truth you have nothing at all to offer above everyone else and there have been 10 trillion just like you come on here before and they get the message after a while and vanish.
> Imagine deciding on where to buy a hamburger when every hamburger stand looks the same, smells the same, tastes the same, and is the same. There is nothing about you to differentiate yourself from the other 10 trillion who have come and gone.
> If you want any traction at least bring a wife or gf to the party.
> So to most people on here you are a huge joke and the fact you do not know why you are a huge joke makes it even funnier.
> You look 12 years old. (Maybe there is someone on the site who wants to have sex with a 12 year old. I don't know.)
> You are a single male and they are a dime a trillion on this site who want exactly what you want.
> So in truth you have nothing at all to offer above everyone else and there have been 10 trillion just like you come on here before and they get the message after a while and vanish.
> Imagine deciding on where to buy a hamburger when every hamburger stand looks the same, smells the same, tastes the same, and is the same. There is nothing about you to differentiate yourself from the other 10 trillion who have come and gone.
> If you want any traction at least bring a wife or gf to the party.
> So to most people on here you are a huge joke and the fact you do not know why you are a huge joke makes it even funnier.
Hello!!! Brent_C. Lol
Whiskey_Girl wrote:
Farmers only .com
Do garden boxes with some vegetables count? We think the opening line in our profile will be “She wears short skirts I wear tee shirts”.
In any case it’s probably harder to try and become a farmer in this day and age than it is for a single guy to hook up on a swing site. A hell of a lot more expensive.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:Whiskey_Girl wrote:
Farmers only .com
Do garden boxes with some vegetables count? We think the opening line in our profile will be “She wears short skirts I wear tee shirts”.
Yes it does. The fun you can have in a garden with a short skirt. Sign me up!
We're trying to transition threads like this to the Booty Call or Meet Ups areas. The concern is that we all know why we're here and placing specific "seeking" threads in the forums just clutters things up.
We will be starting to move and or delete these types of threads and, hopefully, tell the OP why we did it so we can all learn the rules and guidelines. Again, hopefully, nobody will feel singled out as we start enforcing this more.
FM
We will be starting to move and or delete these types of threads and, hopefully, tell the OP why we did it so we can all learn the rules and guidelines. Again, hopefully, nobody will feel singled out as we start enforcing this more.
FM
Nice to see you FuromModerator.
BRENT_C wrote:
Well... here is your answer:
> You look 12 years old. (Maybe there is someone on the site who wants to have sex with a 12 year old. I don't know.)
> You are a single male and they are a dime a trillion on this site who want exactly what you want.
> So in truth you have nothing at all to offer above everyone else and there have been 10 trillion just like you come on here before and they get the message after a while and vanish.
> Imagine deciding on where to buy a hamburger when every hamburger stand looks the same, smells the same, tastes the same, and is the same. There is nothing about you to differentiate yourself from the other 10 trillion who have come and gone.
> If you want any traction at least bring a wife or gf to the party.
> So to most people on here you are a huge joke and the fact you do not know why you are a huge joke makes it even funnier.
Wow a litlte harsh coming from a 55 year old SM who doesnt even have a profile picture. Don't forget to include yourself in that "10 trillion"
Pretty sure they were laughing at the farmers only comment, not at this guy.
Skull full of ? Lol. Rush Limbaugh would say Mush. Lol
jackattack & BREAKINGBADFANS.... actually I am married but before that always had a partner when I contacted people on here and would provide pictures. We would never post in open forum like that. I tried several times to get customer support to change my status and even provided verification showing I was real real and a couple but, if you have been here a while, you know it was months before anything was responded to and so we gave up.
I now only check in now and again and could not resist commenting on this guys delirium.
However, if I were you two I would certainly have thought exactly the same thing about me.
Cheers.
I now only check in now and again and could not resist commenting on this guys delirium.
However, if I were you two I would certainly have thought exactly the same thing about me.
Cheers.
I was laughing at the single guy thinking he's special actually. None of you guys are special.
-female half who is a "single" lady who wouldn't help ANY of you guys get some in the LS.
-female half who is a "single" lady who wouldn't help ANY of you guys get some in the LS.
Woah! so much hate on this post...
I'm glad that you have the spare time to comment on someone else's search that doesn't interest you
For the few that offered advice, Thank You.
As I mentioned I'm very new here (this being my first ever forum post) and, during my very brief perusal of the forum topics, I didn't see many posts like this. (with such a welcoming community I wonder why...)
I still think that it would be beneficial to find a couple or SF to have a consistent FWB situation with, but after this type of response, I doubt I will find them/her here. I will find someone during my daily activities who's into the LS. That's probably the best (perhaps the only) advice I've gotten from this thread.
PS. Brent_C you should legitimately tell your doctor to lower the dose of your testosterone injection during your next visit. would be a shame if you let all that pent-up anger lead to a stroke.
I'm glad that you have the spare time to comment on someone else's search that doesn't interest you
For the few that offered advice, Thank You.
As I mentioned I'm very new here (this being my first ever forum post) and, during my very brief perusal of the forum topics, I didn't see many posts like this. (with such a welcoming community I wonder why...)
I still think that it would be beneficial to find a couple or SF to have a consistent FWB situation with, but after this type of response, I doubt I will find them/her here. I will find someone during my daily activities who's into the LS. That's probably the best (perhaps the only) advice I've gotten from this thread.
PS. Brent_C you should legitimately tell your doctor to lower the dose of your testosterone injection during your next visit. would be a shame if you let all that pent-up anger lead to a stroke.
Hey man! Welcome to Swingular! Contrary to this forum, people are generally respectful here, even to the millions of single males! Like mentioned above, you need to differentiate yourself from the sea of sausages dying to get wet. I posted on the forum recently asking for tips for standing out and received lots of good advice that I am in the process of implementing! https://swingular.com/post.php?_a=view&_PID=23725 for your reference. Couple key tips:
1. Don't send blind friend requests. First read their profile, then send them a message introducing yourself and showing you actually read their profile. (If it says no single males, then that is pretty damn clear, no single males. It isn't "No single males, but if you tell us you have a 10 foot cock we will like you")
2. Be respectful, these are people, they have lives, they may have kids, they likely have jobs. They aren't fuck toys (contrary to what most the SMs here think) and if you treat them like fuck toys, they will rightfully dislike you (unless you all agree on it as a kink ) and add you to the long list of shitty single males.
3. Biggest thing is remember single males are typically an unreliable disrespectful group on here and you need to show that you are different, if you are. (And no, I don't mean your dick is bigger or you last longer. I mean you are kind, respectful, trustworthy.)
1. Don't send blind friend requests. First read their profile, then send them a message introducing yourself and showing you actually read their profile. (If it says no single males, then that is pretty damn clear, no single males. It isn't "No single males, but if you tell us you have a 10 foot cock we will like you")
2. Be respectful, these are people, they have lives, they may have kids, they likely have jobs. They aren't fuck toys (contrary to what most the SMs here think) and if you treat them like fuck toys, they will rightfully dislike you (unless you all agree on it as a kink
) and add you to the long list of shitty single males.3. Biggest thing is remember single males are typically an unreliable disrespectful group on here and you need to show that you are different, if you are. (And no, I don't mean your dick is bigger or you last longer. I mean you are kind, respectful, trustworthy.)
Did this help, Steam?
Steamincman’s your post was respectful and nice. Single males get a bad rap on these sites most of the time it is warranted, but there are exceptions, you seem to be one of the good ones. Best of luck to you!
Yes thank you so much Hoyny! Your response was very welcoming and a few people reached out privately as well. The responses gave me hope in this community, and I hope to find more welcoming people to connect with. I haven't had any luck on this site, but through networking in my daily routines I have found what I was looking for 🙂.
By the way man you're 1,000,000,001 .So grab a number haha! Some people are just ignorant. Brush it off ! People be kind to each other!
Sounds good!! Good luck!
Okay. Our serious advise. Just don’t worry about it. Present yourself honestly. Send a clear message about what you are looking for. You did that. Maybe the forums are not the very best place for that, but hey, we see it all the time. If 99.999% of the members are not looking for a young single guy that’s okay. I would guess that 99.99999% of the couples not looking for a young single guy who read your post are not at all offend by it. If you read the forums for a while you’ll find that there are people who will say things somewhat off topic in the forums. Frankly most of that is an invitation to come out and play online. Treat it as such and you will be more likely to make some connections that go somewhere than you will if you get baited into the invitations to argue. There are some single guys that do very well making lasting connections. They are often not the ones who self sell as the studly masters of technique. If you can maintain a friendly, patient, unassuming demeanor expecting nothing and yet open to the possibility then maybe wonderous connections and adventures will happen. Sometime standing out requires that we just stand back and be ready!