We are new to this lifestyle and find it very intriguing. He is very open minded and up for almost anything while she is more reserved but curious. Our relationship is amazing, the sex is unbelievable. We want to spice things up. What is your advice and what have you learned from the swinging lifestyle? We look forward to meeting new people and fun times.
Complete trust and communication with your partner is key. Being on the same page about what you want can go a long way in minimizing drama. We realized a while ago to never take anything seriously and you will not be disappointed.
We know our main objective is too have fun and enjoy the couples we meet. We enjoy dating other couples and if we get naked great and if not no problem. The trust and ability to talk about the opposite sex with your partner without fear of recrimination is amazing. For us our love for each other has grown as we see the pleasure that's possible and as we integrate what we learn from others to extend our sexual parameters.
What you get out of swinging depends on what your looking for but the pillars of trust and communication helped us realize our goals very quickly.
Good luck and good swinging.
We know our main objective is too have fun and enjoy the couples we meet. We enjoy dating other couples and if we get naked great and if not no problem. The trust and ability to talk about the opposite sex with your partner without fear of recrimination is amazing. For us our love for each other has grown as we see the pleasure that's possible and as we integrate what we learn from others to extend our sexual parameters.
What you get out of swinging depends on what your looking for but the pillars of trust and communication helped us realize our goals very quickly.
Good luck and good swinging.
Agree with skicouple. Its done nothing but made our relationship better/stronger. We both know at the end of the night were going home together
It's forced us to communicate MUCH better and to be open and honest about pretty much everything in our relationship. It's allowed us to share deep dark secrets and desires that most married couples wouldn't DARE for fear of what their partner might think of them. And it's added a LOT of spice and energy to our sex life.
While most couples our age really don't care that much about sex we act like teenagers and the sex we have AFTER we play with others is hotter than it was when we first got married. It's kept our relationship feeling young and fresh.
Oh, and it's been a HUGE motivator to eat right and exercise, not only to stay healthy but to look our best for each other and for potential playmates. There isn't anything much more motivating (scary?) than the thought of strangers seeing you naked. LOL
While most couples our age really don't care that much about sex we act like teenagers and the sex we have AFTER we play with others is hotter than it was when we first got married. It's kept our relationship feeling young and fresh.
Oh, and it's been a HUGE motivator to eat right and exercise, not only to stay healthy but to look our best for each other and for potential playmates. There isn't anything much more motivating (scary?) than the thought of strangers seeing you naked. LOL
You are opening and sharing your most prized possesion in life, someone you are vested and bonded to in life. My afvise is keep abdolutely everything transparent. Open access to ohones, chats, let each other know if contacting someone new, or wanting to try something. Talk at length after each meet, even if just for dinner. Talk about what went good, and what could have been better. Respect each others insecurities and evilve together to what makes you both happiest. If your SO is the shyer or slower of the two, absolutely move at her pace. Put her comfort and pleasure foremost