We have been in the LS for several years, and have enjoyed a wide variety of experiences, from full-swapping, to orgies, to gangbangs, to gamenights, to each half solo dating, to just meeting up for dinners with sexy friends that never go further than the restaraunt.
But, in the past year we find ourselves settling into what is really a soft-swap place. We typically end up only playing with each other, but love the energy of parties and enjoy kissing, touching, flirting and rubbing with other beautiful people who radiate the kind of gravitational, positive, respectful and grounded energy we are attracted to.
And while we have made some really great friends through this community, they will be some of the first to tell you that they have been confused by us in the past, wondering if we were ever going to put out or not 🤣.
So, in an effort to eliminate that pressure for us, and for others who might feel the same way, we are hoping to curate a group of sexy softies who would be into the following sort of things:
-houseparties with lots of dancing, flirting, rubbing, oral but only full-on sex with your partner
-naked hottubbing
-sexy, snuggled up weekend travels
-camping trips
-naked snuggling movie nights
-jumping in with our Burning Man group
-and more of the like...
We host hella fun events regularly, and use Kik a lot more than this website to keep in touch with people we wanna spend time with.
If a group like this sounds like it might be up your alley, leave me your kik handle on the thread and I will send you a group chat invite.
Xoxoxoxoxo
But, in the past year we find ourselves settling into what is really a soft-swap place. We typically end up only playing with each other, but love the energy of parties and enjoy kissing, touching, flirting and rubbing with other beautiful people who radiate the kind of gravitational, positive, respectful and grounded energy we are attracted to.
And while we have made some really great friends through this community, they will be some of the first to tell you that they have been confused by us in the past, wondering if we were ever going to put out or not 🤣.
So, in an effort to eliminate that pressure for us, and for others who might feel the same way, we are hoping to curate a group of sexy softies who would be into the following sort of things:
-houseparties with lots of dancing, flirting, rubbing, oral but only full-on sex with your partner
-naked hottubbing
-sexy, snuggled up weekend travels
-camping trips
-naked snuggling movie nights
-jumping in with our Burning Man group
-and more of the like...
We host hella fun events regularly, and use Kik a lot more than this website to keep in touch with people we wanna spend time with.
If a group like this sounds like it might be up your alley, leave me your kik handle on the thread and I will send you a group chat invite.
Xoxoxoxoxo
We would be interested in hella soft swap. 
We adore you guys. Do y'all use kik?
Yup..."evilmcevil" and "Kathy Lee". 
Your parties sound like a lot of fun. Our kik handle is partyinlv.
Add us to a KIk group. Our
Kik is treeofporn
Kik is treeofporn
This is definitely right down our alley. Kik brandnash21
We love soft swap but find it difficult to find many couples willing to respect that.
We are interested - you are describing exactly what we are looking for.
Kik is tvlbeach
Kik is tvlbeach
This also sounds very similar to what we look for! We would love an invite!!
Herwoody801
Herwoody802
Thanks!!
Herwoody801
Herwoody802
Thanks!!
If you have room for a couple of massage tables, I'm always looking for a big enough venue to do group events! I've been teaching sensual massage courses for couples and singles for over 13 years.
I've got a thread on here that resurrected itself after almost a year of little action, lol! In any case I don't kik much, but I'm darwins52 if you're interested.
[email protected]
I've got a thread on here that resurrected itself after almost a year of little action, lol! In any case I don't kik much, but I'm darwins52 if you're interested.
[email protected]
We would be interested: DMDForFun
Sounds like fun to us!!
Kik: In_The_Gutter
Kik: In_The_Gutter
We would love to be part of the group. kik is thanjos.Thanks
we are interested, add us please!
kik freefallin2121
kik freefallin2121
Sounds like a great time. We’d be interested. Kik sns096
Wildfire
You hit this idea out of the park! We have found this to be exactly what we enjoy most. Please include us on your future fun.
KIK-
sexxytease1976-Mrs
Chvyman32-Mr
You hit this idea out of the park! We have found this to be exactly what we enjoy most. Please include us on your future fun.
KIK-
sexxytease1976-Mrs
Chvyman32-Mr
I (male half) struggle with the seamingly obligatory, linear path from kissing to PiV sex often experienced in the LS. I believe sex is a place you go, not a thing you do. Much fun is to be had in all the other activities that are often hurried through to ge the “main event”. I say, bollocks.
These type of events sound great. I/we are certainly interested.
Kik us: gingers_n8 and gingers_her
These type of events sound great. I/we are certainly interested.
Kik us: gingers_n8 and gingers_her
Couplelicious wrote:
@Wildfire - What you're describing sounds exactly like what we're looking for too, so we're interested (Kik handle = Couplelicious24). In fact, at the risk of hijacking your post, with the new year we're starting up a new group called Curious Couples Club to do exactly what you're talking about here. We've had some test parties already and are planning for the first official one in January. Let us know if you're interested so we can keep you in the loop. Depending on what you're trying to do yourself, perhaps we could even coordinate if we align enough on our goals. For all the details, see our profile and this link here: www dropbox com/s/9ju34qvcwawtc4o/Curious%20Couples%20Club%20-%20Overview.pdf?dl=0 (Copy the link and put periods in the spaces of the "www dropbox com" part.) We'd love to hear what you think! :-)
@Everyone else - If you think you're interested in being a part of Curious Couples Club too, check out the link above for more details and let me know with a message. If you're a fit, we can include you in the plans too.
YES!!! Let's definitely talk more. 😊
This all sounds fantastic, and like exactly what we are into. It has long eluded us! We would love to join your group also! Our kik handles are:
jodar (him)
cookieraider8520 (me)
jodar (him)
cookieraider8520 (me)
This is exactly what we(specifically the mrs.) are looking for.
partyfriends02 (her)
partyfriends01 (him)
partyfriends02 (her)
partyfriends01 (him)
Interested as well. Kik SassyMandee
Yes sounds great. Kik is cubman1917
We are bk_1962 on KIK. Your soft swap parties sound like a great idea!
We are new to the site...and have the same interest for now.. Would love to explore more!! Kik ready2roll231
We would love to join!
Kik naughtylilmommy
Kik naughtylilmommy
Yes, we are interested
We would love to be part of this group!
Mr: wanderlust2001
Mrs: wanderlusters14
Mr: wanderlust2001
Mrs: wanderlusters14
This sounds like wfat we want too. We arent interested in full swaps yet.
Sounds a lot like what we host. We love non pressure parties. . We do monthly camping trips during the summers and a few weekend get aways. We really enjoying having house parties and having the mix over. We would love to be included. Kik lookin4fun369
Sounds a lot like what we host. We love non pressure parties. . We do monthly camping trips during the summers and a few weekend get aways. We really enjoying having house parties and having the mix over. We would love to be included. Kik lookin4fun369
Add us her kik WWB80 his 2_gemini. Thanks
If you are interested in a couple noobs, my kik is cypherx2u. Trying to get her on kik too.
We are very interested. Our Kik is kingpinplus
Sounds great dhans182
Very interested in joining this group! please add us - kik: sexydoctorO
Thanks in advance!
Thanks in advance!
Interested.
KIK - shycoupleid
Thanks
KIK - shycoupleid
Thanks
We’d be interested fo sho. Jdt475
So very cool to see so much interest in this 😊. Ill be sending around a Kik invite to all of you in the next day or two...my handle is "alittlejoyride" and screen name is Joy LinderLove.
We want to participate. Our joint Kik is sunriseinthewest.
Sk84116
This sounds right up our alley, please add us! I sent a PM with our Kik handle 
Please add us:
Beachlovers1200
Lili_cp
Beachlovers1200
Lili_cp
Sounds like fun😊 add us please
Sounds like a fun group we are definitely interested please add us too.
KIK UtHedoCpl
KIK UtHedoCpl
Love to do massages
Deffman79
Deffman79
This what we usually intend to happen, very rare will we full swap. We love sift swap scenarios and try to do them pretty often. We’d be interested in being part and meeting other like minded couples.
Brandnash21 and Brandash21mrs on kik
Brandnash21 and Brandash21mrs on kik
We would definitely enjoy this.
That sounds like an awesome time! We would definitely be interested.
Sounds fun include us please
UTCouple1115
UTCouple1115
vanebear97 include me
We are into this type of fun!
Any 30s something couples wanna see if we have chemistry? (open to older or younger if you are kind, confident, and open!) SLC or Logan works.
curiouslover2017
Best,
J and R
Any 30s something couples wanna see if we have chemistry? (open to older or younger if you are kind, confident, and open!) SLC or Logan works.
curiouslover2017
Best,
J and R
Interested. Add us please!
mimilikes269
mimilikes269
We are definitely interested!! moreforherF1096 and moreforherM1096
Andye8 add me - female half.
I'm rarely on kik anymore though.
I'm rarely on kik anymore though.
My husband and I are pretty new to the LS and this sounds like a great place for us to be right now as we try things out. Please add me to your kik group, TeachTKP
Please add. kik Lee_Gibson
Hello Sexy's Hope ever one had a wonderful holiday and was able to recharge thier battiers. We have booked a couple rooms that connect at a nice hotel in downtown SLC. We are only looking for those are discrete
And respectful to all boundries. Currently in the process of seeing if there is any interest from couples in putting together a New Year's Eve get together for a small group.
One couple has committed, they are attractive couple and teach sensual massage to others. Only looking for two or three couples. Should be fun to watch learn then try your hand at massage or just set back and watch the other couples. There are 6 beds total for individual couple play.
Hope you have a wonderful day.
And respectful to all boundries. Currently in the process of seeing if there is any interest from couples in putting together a New Year's Eve get together for a small group.
One couple has committed, they are attractive couple and teach sensual massage to others. Only looking for two or three couples. Should be fun to watch learn then try your hand at massage or just set back and watch the other couples. There are 6 beds total for individual couple play.
Hope you have a wonderful day.
We would be interested in a group like this...KiK cupldonit
We'd love to be added also. Kik is chance4311 and achance2009
We are very interested.
Kik - tolivelifeagain
Kik - tolivelifeagain
Are bj's and handjobs off the table? Asking for a friend.
Me and the girlfriend would be very interested in a group like this. Our kik is kerbbasi. And any couples are free to add us also on kik
@evildoers I feel that those are within the soft swap limits... well at least in our book
SEXYNIGHTMARES wrote:
@evildoers I feel that those are within the soft swap limits... well at least in our book
Hmmmm, maybe. But tbh the dude in the gif doesn't look all THAT soft. LOL But it is hard to tell thanks to the mad bj skilz of his lady.
his - redandmysterious hers - darkandmyserious ( yes, leave the "t" out of hers )
Add us ( anyone is welcome to hit us up )
Add us ( anyone is welcome to hit us up )
That sounds like exactly what we have been looking for. We would be interested in seeing if we fit in.
BiggzKitten8
We need to apologize, the holidays snuck up on us, between that and kids stuff we have not created the group yet.
We will get something up this week....thanks for your
patience!
We will get something up this week....thanks for your
patience!
We would be intersted in this type of group and gatherings like this.
Our kik names are neashl07 and abc2abh2007.
Thank you
Our kik names are neashl07 and abc2abh2007.
Thank you
Looking forward to it😊
“Sexy Softies Group” Dancing, flirting, rubbing, nude hot tubing...in a no pressure environment. Please give us a shout when you put this together.
We would love to join in. Our Kik is "ymoeu"
Is anything happening with this?
We haven't been added to anything...
Someone should start something looks like there is a lot of interest in this.
So I just tried creating a kik group for this and a few things happened.
1) There are more than 50 people interested
2) It would say "so and so hasn't updated to the latest version of kik" and restarted the whole process.
So all who are interested, go to your app store and make sure you have the latest version of kik and this will have to be split into 2 groups until kik allows all groups to have a 100 member capacity.
1) There are more than 50 people interested
2) It would say "so and so hasn't updated to the latest version of kik" and restarted the whole process.
So all who are interested, go to your app store and make sure you have the latest version of kik and this will have to be split into 2 groups until kik allows all groups to have a 100 member capacity.
Nakedcouple5150 wrote:Thsts the problem with kik is the group limit.
So I just tried creating a kik group for this and a few things happened.
1) There are more than 50 people interested
2) It would say "so and so hasn't updated to the latest version of kik" and restarted the whole process.
So all who are interested, go to your app store and make sure you have the latest version of kik and this will have to be split into 2 groups until kik allows all groups to have a 100 member capacity.
Add us please f15usaf
Interested
Ours is janeandalbert - I wonder if there's something different than kik. Maybe create a group on this website ?
We are interested. tvlbeach and tvlbeach2
Add us to the group please kid dabombx69
We created a group on here called "Utah Soft Swappers". Unfortunately, it doesn't let us add members you will have to go and request to join. If you go up to groups you can request to be added. We can post and update event details there. We might go through and message those interested depending on time availability.
We're interested KIK zacnho
Maybe split the group geographically? A though. We would like to hang out more and a low pressure environment makes for a better night. Add us.
Late to to the party, but we're very interested!
Created a group on here called Utah soft swappers come
Join!
Join!
Hey, could we please know what the new group is called? We would love to join
Hey, could we please know what the new group is called? We would love to join
We would like to join your group
His kik is lifesbetteronaboat and mine is lesliem537. 😘
His kik is lifesbetteronaboat and mine is lesliem537. 😘
The group is "Utah Soft Swappers" you should be able to see it on this search: https://swingular.com/groups.php?_a=results&keyword=utah+soft+swappers&sort=1
Would be curious on who has actually been added to the kik group? We never heard anything (hence why we started the swingular group.
We are really new and would live to be part of it. Kik Torrilm
We're Interested
covalent2
covalent2
For anyone looking for a consensual, comfortable environment to watch, soft play or own-partner play, NUKE puts on great events that encourage respectful, consensual and no-pressure play.
Every attendee can even indicate their level of interest with colored wrist bands, and all guests are encouraged to share and negotiate what they want with anyone else well.
NUKE: Ice & Fire, Jan 19 Event Info
Every attendee can even indicate their level of interest with colored wrist bands, and all guests are encouraged to share and negotiate what they want with anyone else well.
NUKE: Ice & Fire, Jan 19 Event Info
VITAEEROTIC wrote:We haven’t been but can vouch that these events are amazing (so many friends have said so)!!!
For anyone looking for a consensual, comfortable environment to watch, soft play or own-partner play, NUKE puts on great events that encourage respectful, consensual and no-pressure play.
Every attendee can even indicate their level of interest with colored wrist bands, and all guests are encouraged to share and negotiate what they want with anyone else well.
https://swingular.com/post.php?_a=view&_PID=23751&_TID=13
Good afternoon sexy people, I have took it upon myself to create an excel spreadsheet of all the kik id's and the city on each of you profiles. I have divided it between the North and the South and there will be about 40 to 50 people per group. However there are a handful of couples that I will be grouping in the same groups but if you like to have one spouse in 1 group and the other spouse in another group please feel free to let me know. Expect a pm on Kik from me my profile name is Jonesie and my picture is a picture of Ragnar from Vikings. My hope is to have all the invites out by the time this weekend is over. If you don't receive an invite by Monday please feel free to contact me here or on Kik Sexybeast51550.
Thank you all
Thank you all
We are interested.. Super new and would love to be added. Our KIK is LoveShack2018
Hi all - Apologies for the slow response on this, we dropped our initial message in this forum and then the holiday craziness hit, and it has taken us a bit to get back to getting this rolling. We also had so many responses here, and sent to us in person, that gave us a lot more things to think about in creating this sort of group.
We are glad to see so many other groups be formed because of this thread, and we have been working with Nakedcouple5150 (Jonsie) above to try and figure out the next best steps. Jonsie is 1000% times more organized than us and has really spearheaded getting all the requests together into some sort of manageable form for us to start creating groups and adding people to them.
We immediately ran into a few things though:
1 - we have well over 130 requests to be in the initially proposed Kik group, and Kik only accommodates 50 per group. Could we use Swingular or another app to include everyone? Sure - But, we specifically wanted to hold this in Kik, so that is what we have done and will continue to admin. I think there are several folks who have set up other groups via Swingular or other apps because of this thread, and I encourage you to hit them up if you'd like to join one of those that accommodates more than 50 users.
2 - We started this thread so that "soft" swingers who often feel pressured in the larger events or groups would have a space where they felt expectations were already clear, but, of course, there are various levels of what many of us consider "Soft."
So......
What we have done is decide create a few different groups to accommodate the requests and also to try and group like-minded, and geographically relative, people together. When either Jonsie or I send you an invite we will ask you to rate your level of "Softness" on a scale of 1-3, using these definitions:
"1: enjoy soft only 90-100% of the time (kissing, touching, rubbing, light fingering, no oral with anyone but your partner, no intercourse with anyone but your partner)Expect not to be pressured or invited to partake in oral or intercourse partner swapping in the Kik group or at events organized via the Kik group.
2: soft 50-90% of the time (kissing, touching, rubbing, fingering, oral, no intercourse with anyone but your partner) Expect not to be pressured or invited to partake in any partner swapping in the Kik group or at events organized via the Kik group.
3: soft 10%-50% of the time and okay with swapping intercourse
Using your response, we will try and put you into the group or groups that fit you best.
If you want to save us some time, you can also use this Google Sheet: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1UfKua5zp4tWWcC3OSKQqt2S5lKhm8M9nI4elWrK3EzI/edit?usp=sharing to fill out your preferences. Just remember that if you use this, people may be able to see your email address in the "shared to/accessed to" list.
Obviously, no approach to organizing all of this is perfect, and if you aren't down with how we have chosen to try and tackle it, we definitely encourage you to start your own groups/threads.
Thanks to all you sexy softies for your interest and patience
We are glad to see so many other groups be formed because of this thread, and we have been working with Nakedcouple5150 (Jonsie) above to try and figure out the next best steps. Jonsie is 1000% times more organized than us and has really spearheaded getting all the requests together into some sort of manageable form for us to start creating groups and adding people to them.
We immediately ran into a few things though:
1 - we have well over 130 requests to be in the initially proposed Kik group, and Kik only accommodates 50 per group. Could we use Swingular or another app to include everyone? Sure - But, we specifically wanted to hold this in Kik, so that is what we have done and will continue to admin. I think there are several folks who have set up other groups via Swingular or other apps because of this thread, and I encourage you to hit them up if you'd like to join one of those that accommodates more than 50 users.
2 - We started this thread so that "soft" swingers who often feel pressured in the larger events or groups would have a space where they felt expectations were already clear, but, of course, there are various levels of what many of us consider "Soft."
So......
What we have done is decide create a few different groups to accommodate the requests and also to try and group like-minded, and geographically relative, people together. When either Jonsie or I send you an invite we will ask you to rate your level of "Softness" on a scale of 1-3, using these definitions:
"1: enjoy soft only 90-100% of the time (kissing, touching, rubbing, light fingering, no oral with anyone but your partner, no intercourse with anyone but your partner)Expect not to be pressured or invited to partake in oral or intercourse partner swapping in the Kik group or at events organized via the Kik group.
2: soft 50-90% of the time (kissing, touching, rubbing, fingering, oral, no intercourse with anyone but your partner) Expect not to be pressured or invited to partake in any partner swapping in the Kik group or at events organized via the Kik group.
3: soft 10%-50% of the time and okay with swapping intercourse
Using your response, we will try and put you into the group or groups that fit you best.
If you want to save us some time, you can also use this Google Sheet: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1UfKua5zp4tWWcC3OSKQqt2S5lKhm8M9nI4elWrK3EzI/edit?usp=sharing to fill out your preferences. Just remember that if you use this, people may be able to see your email address in the "shared to/accessed to" list.
Obviously, no approach to organizing all of this is perfect, and if you aren't down with how we have chosen to try and tackle it, we definitely encourage you to start your own groups/threads.
Thanks to all you sexy softies for your interest and patience