Has anyone noticed a influx of single guys using this section to advertise for hook ups? I jump on here tonight and all of the topics except one consisted of single guy post a dick pic and looking for a hook up. There is a meet up section for a reason. It just drives me crazy how single guys can be on this site. There some good ones but they are few and far between anymore.
lmao, some of the worst things I've seen and heard came from married people, both men & women. I know a complete and utter hotty that hates swingers, and the way they treat women, so she refuses to interact with them. And she's interacted with a LOT of married swingers.
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Yup. It's actually gotten so bad that Ms. Evil and I have, for the first time in our long swinging career, blocked single males. We naively thought that maybe the number of single guys would start going down a little since we've heard so much about so-called "hook-up culture" and how it's supposedly relatively easy to jump on Tinder or Kik or to hit a bar or club and pick someone up for NSA sex. So can we assume that it's simply an urban legend? Either that or the single dudes here aren't having any success IRL for some reason?
And I apologize, JEFFSMITH1972, for all the terrible things married people have done to you and your "hotty" friend. Thoughts and prayers!
Though I kinda have to wonder why you would hang out on a swingsite if you don't like married swingers. If the married swingers left Swingular would it still be a swingsite? 
And I apologize, JEFFSMITH1972, for all the terrible things married people have done to you and your "hotty" friend. Thoughts and prayers!
Though I kinda have to wonder why you would hang out on a swingsite if you don't like married swingers. If the married swingers left Swingular would it still be a swingsite? We were thinking the same thing, we have seen an increase in single male friend requests. What annoys the mrs is all the single guys who send us a message saying they could please her more than her husband can, wtf?!?!? First of no way in hell is that possible. We have been happily married for 12 years I know her body better than any guy would. Second we are not on here to "satisfy" her sexual needs. We are here to add variety to our sex life.
If playing with single guys is not your thing I personally understand that. But some of us are into swinging for those couples that have other fetishes. E.G. MFM, Video, Cuckold, Voyer, Bi, D/s etc. Personally I am not here to just fuck. I am here to preform any of the above service. 😎 This venue (Swingular) is just an avenue to present my free service as an Alpha male for those interested. 😀
Lots of horny guys looking for some in the easiest way possible. We know lots of couples that like a horny male but most would prefer a horny female. We prefer couples and we don't get bent out of shape when we see friend request or emails from single guys. That's why they have a delete button. We figure that they just did not take time to read our profile. Perhaps their tenacity has its rewards but we have better options and it's kinda funny to see them using this site like its craigslist. Ignore/delete is the easiest solution for us and we hardly ever get a repeat offender...lol.
Hey, were new to this site. Could you help me figure out how to use it?
Fascinating topic. I never really noticed until someone said something but now it all makes sense. As the male half of a couple, I created this profile to troll forums, gather info and meet friends... It never occurred to me that posting as a "single guy" would have such an impact. I can see now why.
To piggy back on what was already said, I believe the "hook up culture" is in fact very real and has given a lot of single males the false belief that EVERY site is a hook up site, and there is some level of security hooking up with a married woman instead of a lonely single lady (they're not looking for a commitment, just sex). That said, there are a lot of male swingers (like Joe) who understand the lifestyle without having a current female partner.
To piggy back on what was already said, I believe the "hook up culture" is in fact very real and has given a lot of single males the false belief that EVERY site is a hook up site, and there is some level of security hooking up with a married woman instead of a lonely single lady (they're not looking for a commitment, just sex). That said, there are a lot of male swingers (like Joe) who understand the lifestyle without having a current female partner.
The site feature to block single males does not seem to work. It works great on Kasidie. Honestly having that feature makes it better for both couples AND singles. It would save all parties time and effort sorting out who is interested in who. It would save couples from unwanted solicitations. You will still have the losers that pose as a couple but it’s not hard to figure them out pretty quick. It would be awesome if we could flag such profiles and after 2-3 flags on a profile admin puts them under review or deletes them.
Admin needs to fix the block feature for both the web and mobile version. It’s much needed.
Admin needs to fix the block feature for both the web and mobile version. It’s much needed.
We would love to find more couples and groups who want to enjoy friends and have some fun. We don’t want singles unless we ask for them. Let’s party
Swinger is a Swinger is a Swinger, Single married, committed, non-committed. What the fuck does it matter to you. The lifestyle was here long before Lookingforfun369 (creative name) were on here. You are the newbies and should show a little respect for others, whether you are into them or not.
OSTAR21 wrote:You know folks he is right. If you want Swingular to be exclusive couples you should have set it up that way. Me I provide a free service for couples that want more Excitement in there so called kinky life. Want to know more you can look me up as DomJoseppi on FetLife.com
Swinger is a Swinger is a Swinger, Single married, committed, non-committed. What the fuck does it matter to you. The lifestyle was here long before Lookingforfun369 (creative name) were on here. You are the newbies and should show a little respect for others, whether you are into them or not.
OSTAR21 wrote:
Swinger is a Swinger is a Swinger, Single married, committed, non-committed. What the fuck does it matter to you. The lifestyle was here long before Lookingforfun369 (creative name) were on here. You are the newbies and should show a little respect for others, whether you are into them or not.
Actually, single "swingers" are a relatively new concept. When my wife and I first started swinging (the late 80's!) there weren't ANY singles in the lifestyle. In fact, it was several years, at least, into the lifestyle before we saw an ad (that's how swingers connected back then, thru ads in cheap magazines sold in porn shops) from a single male. We vividly remember someone passing the ad around at a swing party and everyone marveling at it and wondering out loud how he could enter the wife-swapping scene (that's what many still called it back then) without a partner of some sort.
Yes, the definition of swinger has changed or perhaps evolved is a better word. But there would BE no lifestyle, no swinging, if it wasn't for married, or at least committed couples, opening up their relationship to other people. Swingular would just be an AFF or a Tinder if it wasn't for couples. You might want to consider not getting quite so butthurt and taking your own advice about "show(ing) a little respect". Trust me, the single males who actually ARE successful here are those who do exactly that. If you don't believe me just ask around.
LOOKIN4FUN369 wrote:
Has anyone noticed a influx of single guys using this section to advertise for hook ups? I jump on here tonight and all of the topics except one consisted of single guy post a dick pic and looking for a hook up. There is a meet up section for a reason. It just drives me crazy how single guys can be on this site. There some good ones but they are few and far between anymore.
I agree this is not the place to advertise for hookups, and that there are quite a few dumbass single guys here. But don't lump all of us together. There are alot of good single guys here, you just don't notice them, because they aren't making complete asses of themselves.
Smartflirts wrote:
The site feature to block single males does not seem to work. It works great on Kasidie. Honestly having that feature makes it better for both couples AND singles. It would save all parties time and effort sorting out who is interested in who. It would save couples from unwanted solicitations. You will still have the losers that pose as a couple but it’s not hard to figure them out pretty quick. It would be awesome if we could flag such profiles and after 2-3 flags on a profile admin puts them under review or deletes them.
Admin needs to fix the block feature for both the web and mobile version. It’s much needed.
As far as I can see the block works great. I see alot of profiles where single men are blocked. I read profiles and actually pay attention to what they are looking for and don't message them if they aren't interested in single men. Actually Smartflirts, looking at your profile, it appears that you have the block enabled on your profile, if it's not working I'm not sure what to tell you. But, I also read your profile and can see that you aren't looking for Single Guys, so I have enough respect for you and myself, that I would never try to contact you. Except, of course, only to reply to you here. I hope you can get the block fixed if it's not working.
I'm kinda new participating much here, but what about those of us eventually interested in relationships with like-minded people? I've realized I kind of like the swinging lifestyle, and as a newly divorced, single heterosexual guy I want to eventually find another woman who practices the same lifestyle that we can eventually build a couple relationship with while swinging. That comes by building relationships and friendships with everyone here.
SUBUTCOGUY wrote:LOOKIN4FUN369 wrote:
Has anyone noticed a influx of single guys using this section to advertise for hook ups? I jump on here tonight and all of the topics except one consisted of single guy post a dick pic and looking for a hook up. There is a meet up section for a reason. It just drives me crazy how single guys can be on this site. There some good ones but they are few and far between anymore.
I agree this is not the place to advertise for hookups, and that there are quite a few dumbass single guys here. But don't lump all of us together. There are alot of good single guys here, you just don't notice them, because they aren't making complete asses of themselves.
As you can see at the last of my post I did say there a few good single guys out there who are respectful but the bulk of them tend to not be that way. We have many single guy friend who attend many of the different events who host. I'm not attack single guys in my post it was just simply stating observation of what I've notice lately.