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EVILDOERS wrote:

It's getting kind of old all these clubs that were more or less swinger friendly closing down or whatever. I think maybe we need a different approach. How about we form some kind of group and every week or two we toss around ideas for meeting at a particular bar, club, or even restaurant...kinda like a small 'flash mob'? We could even, perhaps, rotate the meet-ups between, say, Salt Lake and Ogden. Thoughts? Comments? Snide remarks?


Evil had a great idea and I wanted to separate it from it's original thread and see how many couples would be on board with this. A thought hit me late last night, and I know it sounds crazy but hear me out.... Dave and Buster's, at the gateway. It already has an adult themed crowd without being a club, it's open late, great food, sports and games, centrlly located to downtown plentyvof parking and they reserve for large parties, and D&B's is surrounded by a ton of other things. Walking distance to the megaplex, planetarium, and desserts.... No, I'm not pitching a juvenile group date senario (this is the part where you have to trust me for 30 more seconds). My thought was, we plan to meet there in the evening, hang out, have a group dinner, chat, mingle, discuss our plans and then later in the evening break off into coulples or smaller groups depending on how everyone is feeling. All of the downtown clubs and bars as well as hotel options are nearby and for those of us who lean toward the more romantic side of dating can still have quieter options such as going to see a play or just hang out with the teens at the arcade. Either way, there's still a lively after party. :) Or is this just completely mental?
We don't think that is mental at all. One of our biggest turn offs of the LS is alot of meet ups are done in loud chaotic bars or nightclubs. We would much rather meet somewhere a little quieter.
This seems like a good plan
The only thing is we prefer a filter for non lifestylers.
Could be interesting- just need a way to identify LS vs Vanilla.
This would be so much fun, we could set a date, and everyone in the LS (men half) wear a black silicone ring on one of his fingers, (not cock) well I guess you could wear it on your cock but that wouldn’t be seen. It’s true most of these events are at loud dark places, were not 20 something anymore and though we have fun at those party’s it’s challenging to actuay tell if we’re compatable and if we could have a good time other than drinking dancing and grinding on each other. D&Ds is an awesome idea, even if everyone ends up with who they came with.
D&Bs
Women should wear coconut bras that way wenknow 😀!
Utahldscouple wrote:

The only thing is we prefer a filter for non lifestylers.


Good point. At the risk of starting up the whole pineapple/black ring trope again maybe we could have everyone who is planning to go to a particular meet-up wear a specific item of clothing...something easy, inexpensive, and something that changes for each meet-up. It could even be something silly like a candy necklace or everyone holding a Toblerone or something like that. That way we could all know who is supposed to be with the group and who isn't. And if any nearby vanillas asked what the necklaces (or whatever was chosen for that particular meet) were all about we could make something up like "We're all transplants to Utah from Iowa." or something like that. Heck, we could even name the meet-up group something very generic like North Dakota Bicycle and Hiking Group or something like that.

And I like the idea of Dave and Busters. I've been racking my brain trying to come up with ideas for places that could accommodate a little bit larger group. We might have to actually limit the number of people (on a first come first served basis...maybe have an RSVP list or something) based on where each meet-up happens. And we could make the group and Swingular group and maybe a Kik group as well.

Just a few very random thoughts with my coffee on a Sunday morning.
Maybe everyone bring a box on unicorn ceral as you ticket in!!! Do they have semi private rooms at this one? I know the one in TX did.
Sounds like a good time
As far as I know, the Utah D&B's does have private party rooms. I haven't checked yet but it sounds like there is enough interest. I was thinking we could kick this off with a pre-thanksgiving romp on the 17th? I'll do some investigating on rooms if you guys want to hammer out the candy necklace idea...
We like the idea. Tried button down and moose lodge last night. Too many barely 21ers...
We are new to this and would love to meet some people.
The candy necklaces sounds like a good idea.
The candy necklaces sounds like a good idea.
Sounds fun we would go
We’ve been wanting to check D&B out, this sounds even better!
Maybe include Provo in there as well
JK0207 wrote:

Maybe include Provo in there as well


We could absolutely throw the area south of Salt Lake Valley into the mix for holding some of the meetups. Are there any venues that come to mind down that way that would be appropriate logistically?
Hopefully, Rob will secure the Venue we used for Halloween and possibly combine the Swinger and Kink communities for one wild party venue. If not, it would be easy to get black silicone bracelets on amazon. Seem's like everyone wears black rings now. Post on the party zone section and it would be like one horny flash mob lol.

Summer you can meet up at lakes, cabins, pools, or even antelope island is pretty fun at night as few people go there.

Winter meetups would be just as easy. Club Fahrenheit is usually dead and can hold tons of people and you can get a room there. Wendover, Lava, or even a dive bar.
We’re in
We love this idea! We want in!
Next question: once this gets official, do we advertise in the Meetup, house parties, or events sections? Or just keep it to the forum threads? I'd like the word to get out to those couples that my not check the forums often...
Next question: once this gets official, do we advertise in the Meetup, house parties, or events sections? Or just keep it to the forum threads? I'd like the word to get out to those couples that my not check the forums often...
Discreet_Paramour wrote:

Next question: once this gets official, do we advertise in the Meetup, house parties, or events sections? Or just keep it to the forum threads? I'd like the word to get out to those couples that my not check the forums often...
Somewhere that you can RSVP.
My husband and I are definitely be interested!
We are new to the scene and would love to know how to get notifications on all of the potential connections! This event sounds so much fun and will keep an eye out for something closer to utah county as well!
MichaelAlyssa wrote:

We are new to the scene and would love to know how to get notifications on all of the potential connections! This event sounds so much fun and will keep an eye out for something closer to utah county as well!


Welcome to the neighborhood. Events are posted in various places in the site. I encourage you guys to play hide and seek with the various features. You'll soon find the ones used most often ND which fit your lifestyle. As for these meet ups, we would love to find some South valley and Ogden couples who could sponsor similar events. I personally would like to mingle with those crowds and build our LS base.
It's official! Check the Party Zone section to RSVP.
aka:(North Dakota Bicycle and Hiking Group)That’s awesome! Can’t wait to show off our shiny new bikes! 🚴‍♂️🚴‍♀️💅👿🎉👍🏻
What shall be our group identifier for this particular meetup?
I have a hook up with the stake center in midvale.
Have a DJ play 80s hit music in the gymnasium.. plenty of free parking and temple recommends can be handed out as door prizes
HorsePlay wrote:

I have a hook up with the stake center in midvale.
Have a DJ play 80s hit music in the gymnasium.. plenty of free parking and temple recommends can be handed out as door prizes
This would be hilarious if you were able to pull it off!
We will call it a "AA" meeting
Alas, Saturdays and Saturday night rarely work for the two of us. Mrs. Delicious yes, sometimes, if she is motivated to go out on her own. Maybe we need to set up a similar sort of thing for Sunday afternoons.
Sunday Fun Days are the best
Discreet_Paramour wrote:

It's official! Check the Party Zone section to RSVP.


Total newbie question. Where is the party zone section?
It's settled then. This month it's at D&B's and next month at the Stake Ctr. in Midvale with HorsePlay. I wonder if we can slip the DJ a few bucks to get the key to the chapel to sneak off and play?
But still no decision on what "bling" to wear to let us know who's in the group? How about those candy necklaces that we talked about? And next month we all wear chinks (and no, that's not a racist epithet...I thought it was too, at first but apparently it's cowboy apparel of some kind). If it's too hard to find candy necklaces we can all carry, like, a Zagnut candy bar. That should be esoteric enough to make it highly unlikely that anyone will wander into D&B's carrying one if they aren't part of the group.
Hey we want in on this well. Sounds like a great night!
EVILDOERS wrote:

What shall be our group identifier for this particular meetup?
I think we'll go with the candy necklces. Final answer!
Nakedcouple5150 wrote:

Total newbie question. Where is the party zone section?


Not newbie at all. At the top of your screen, click the "extra" menu. "Party zone" is under that.
Any final details yet? Maybe I missed it. Date time place?
HorsePlay wrote:

I have a hook up with the stake center in midvale.
Have a DJ play 80s hit music in the gymnasium.. plenty of free parking and temple recommends can be handed out as door prizes


I can't tell if you're serious, but if so... I am SO down for that.

Y'all can plan the next one but I like the idea of having it NOT on a Saturday night a well.
It's actually on the home page at the bottom where it says local parties
Found it but I had to be on the desktop page
@ Hurakan

NUKE parties are a mix of kink and swing in the Ogden area. There's one this Saturday, Nov 10th.

https://swingular.com/post.php?_a=view&_PID=23509&_TID=13
Hey all, here's a thought... i just heard back from the venue. We qualify for their function room. Holds up to 50 people, TV, WiFi, unlomited sodas and coffee, a game card for everyone and our own personal serving staff... That way we can be a little further from the vanilla and still wear our candy necklces outside the room. More opportunities for getting acquainted and I've got a fee fun ideas for breaking the ice.

The downside is, it comes with a predetermined buffet. We wouldn't be able to order off the menu and alcoholic drinks are still separate. The cost per person is high but it's all inclusive. Our alternative is just waiting in line with the vanilla crowd and getting our own seats.

Should I book it?
Discreet_Paramour wrote:

Hey all, here's a thought... i just heard back from the venue. We qualify for their function room. Holds up to 50 people, TV, WiFi, unlomited sodas and coffee, a game card for everyone and our own personal serving staff... That way we can be a little further from the vanilla and still wear our candy necklces outside the room. More opportunities for getting acquainted and I've got a fee fun ideas for breaking the ice.
The downside is, it comes with a predetermined buffet. We wouldn't be able to order off the menu and alcoholic drinks are still separate. The cost per person is high but it's all inclusive. Our alternative is just waiting in line with the vanilla crowd and getting our own seats.
Should I book it?


What is the cost per person?
It's a lot more than I expected... Approximately $50 per person gets you the room, buffet, unlimited drinks, and a game card. The price isn't bad for a corporate setting and I would expect to drop $100 on any given Saturday night but in a scenario like this where we still want to party and have fun afterwards, especially this close to the holidays, I certainly don't want to force any couple out because of cost. I was hoping for a cheaper option.
Discreet_Paramour wrote:

It's a lot more than I expected... Approximately $50 per person gets you the room, buffet, unlimited drinks, and a game card. The price isn't bad for a corporate setting and I would expect to drop $100 on any given Saturday night but in a scenario like this where we still want to party and have fun afterwards, especially this close to the holidays, I certainly don't want to force any couple out because of cost. I was hoping for a cheaper option.


Daaaaaayyym!!! That is expensive, especially for not including booze
Discreet_Paramour wrote:

It's a lot more than I expected... Approximately $50 per person gets you the room, buffet, unlimited drinks, and a game card. The price isn't bad for a corporate setting and I would expect to drop $100 on any given Saturday night but in a scenario like this where we still want to party and have fun afterwards, especially this close to the holidays, I certainly don't want to force any couple out because of cost. I was hoping for a cheaper option.


Daaaaaayyym!!! That is expensive, especially for not including booze
Can you reserve tables for 20 or group of tables?
Think if you had two or three sets of tables with the vanilla crowd would work and be fun.. save the 50 bucks per person for beer and belly shots..

Since my extreme weight gain my navel holds a legal 1 ounce.... wink wink
HorsePlay wrote:

Since my extreme weight gain my navel holds a legal 1 ounce.... wink wink


I'd be interested to test that theory... Purely scientific research, mind you.

Okay, I think that solves it. No room. Let's save the cash to spend on the rest of the evening. I have a fun idea to keep things moving and mingle between the vanillas. I'll roll it out as the time gets closer. Thanks for all your input guys. I can't wait to meet you in person.
Why don’t the woman find a black bracelet, made out of whatever (get crafty ladies) and put a pineapple charm on it
COUPLEFORFUN1115 wrote:

Maybe everyone bring a box on unicorn ceral as you ticket in!!!


Rookie mistake... you may need to review our extensive post on “swinger and unicorn bait”...the cereal is what unicorns EAT, not a swinger identifier...upside down pineapples in a grocery cart and black rings is the universal signs for swingers. Perhaps a clinic on such things is in order?🤔 Unicorn Whispering (Trapping 🤫) and Swinger Signaling 101. 😉
We would want to be included in this meet up group!
So ive been asked to post my thoughts to get people more active and going to meet and greets. This is somewhat of a copy/paste of what ive said before:
Events that have requirements or have an adventurous nature get alot of responses and lots of people going.
One thing on these meet and greets is the incredibly shy new comers. The hard thing is getting people actually meeting and separating the cliques. So one thing ive thought about is having a meet up where everyone is required to introduce themselves to at least 10 new people before the meet and greet concludes. The greeting must include your name, age, years in the LS, what your looking for(another couple, single(m/f)), a fantasy, etc just stuff like that.
For some telling a new couple you enjoy watching your spouse get fucked by someone you just met might seem awkward, but its less so when its instructed as part of a greeting.
Plus Reminding everyone your all SWINGERS, this is the point anyways lol. Your not meeting a random person, your meeting a swinger whose there with intentions the same as you!
Even like adding a fun after party thing like a Meet and Great Score that people get to post on the forums after the M&G which everyone gets to see just how involved people were and to improve it for the next one. Like every couple you meet gives you 10 points(max of 100 for 10 people), Get someones kik/phone number(50pts, max of 5), Play with someone you met from the event that night(350pts). The next day everyone can post their points an you get to see just how involved everyone is. You get 500pts you were fully involved. if your short anywhere then hey you get a chance to improve next time and it kinda adds a naughty adventure to things.
But these are my thoughts
We were at D&B last weekend after the Queen movie.
Utah Meetup Group

By Discreet_Paramour

Saturday Nov 17, 2018 @ 7:00 PM

Salt Lake City, UT (US)

The first official Utah Meetup Group (aka: North Dakota Bicycle and Hiking Group) is being held at the D&B's downtown SLC for dinner, drinks, games and socializing. Please RSVP as soon as possible because we're going to need a head count to reserve the room. There is no charge for this event and it is open to all but the emphasis is on couples who want to meet other LS couples and hang out in a no-expectation environment. After dinner, there are plenty of nearby hotels, clubs, shops and venues to keep most people occupied until well into the morning. Hope to see you all there!

*Note: candy necklaces to identify that you're one of us!
If we go I might just wear a candy bracelet as I would feel ridiculous as a grown man wearing a candy necklace. Ms. Evil, on the other hand, will probably wear hers as an anklet as everyone knows this denotes a hotwife who is DTF anyone, any time, anywhere.
👍👍👍
EVILDOERS wrote:

If we go .....


?WTF??
Found some candy necklaces at the gas station last night. They look too small to be anything other than chokers. I'm down with the bracelet idea as well. Anklet works great for the ladies. Show off them ankles!

Also, I agree with Horse... ?WTF EVILS? You can't start a great idea like this and leave me alone to baby-sit. ;)
Shak gave me a fantastic idea. I've created an ice breaker challenge game to help couples interact and mingle. Each couple will need to check in with me when they arrive. I will be easy to spot, I'm the only LS male with long hair and a pink flamingo on my table! I will hand each of you a little black book with a list of challenges to be performed for points. The winner with the most points by the end of the night gets bragging rights on the forums. :)
EVILDOERS wrote:

If we go I might just wear a candy bracelet as I would feel ridiculous as a grown man wearing a candy necklace. Ms. Evil, on the other hand, will probably wear hers as an anklet as everyone knows this denotes a hotwife who is DTF anyone, any time, anywhere.

I love this idea as well! placing your charm/identifiers in areas to let others know if your soft/hardcore/dtf/etc
Saturday Nov 17, 2018 @ 7:00 PM Dave and Busters in Salt lake.
Who plans on going to this saturday?
HorsePlay wrote:

Who plans on going to this saturday?
We are a tentative.
Update your RSVP on the local party site!

Good mornin, all. We have over 30 couples signed up for this Saturday. Room for more, but I need to know how many to plan for. Also remember to wear your candy bracelet/necklace so we can find you.

Also, also... Check in with me at the pink flamingo for your challenge sheets! I can't wait to meet all you sexy people!
Discreet_Paramour wrote:

Update your RSVP on the local party site!
Good mornin, all. We have over 30 couples signed up for this Saturday. Room for more, but I need to know how many to plan for. Also remember to wear your candy bracelet/necklace so we can find you.
Also, also... Check in with me at the pink flamingo for your challenge sheets! I can't wait to meet all you sexy people!
There is no setting for tentative.
Walmart has candy necklaces snd bracelets in their party section for $3 for a multipack
We like the idea of back and forth between Ogden and Salt Lake also.
Farmington Station might also be a great place too
SHAKURA89 wrote:

Farmington Station might also be a great place too
Where in Farmington station could handle this?
SHAKURA89 wrote:

Walmart has candy necklaces snd bracelets in their party section for $3 for a multipack



You're beautiful, Shak. Thank you!

I am also in favor of moving North for the next one. Anyone that wants to step up and organize, please feel free.
North Dakota Bike and Hike Monthly meet ...

Been posted on local party / events

RSVP THERE.... [easier for mobile app]
I would enjoy being included, I am single and new the scene. Would enjoy meeting others.
Charlie755 wrote:

I would enjoy being included, I am single and new the scene. Would enjoy meeting others.
You won’t have any problems except for your inbox being flooded 😀!
😂 thank you...
I do not see the event posted?
We are new to this website and would love to be included!!!!
North Dakota Bike and Hike Monthly meet

Sat, Nov 17, 2018 12:16 AM Salt Lake City, UT

fficial Utah Meetup Group (aka: North Dakota Bicycle and Hiking Club) is being held at the D&B's downtown SLC for dinner, drinks, games and socializing. There is no charge for this event 
Look for LOCAL EVENTS
Isn’t this the same event?

https://swingular.com/partyZone.php?_a=details&_PID=270
Utahldscouple wrote:

Isn’t this the same event?
https://swingular.com/partyZone.php?_a=details&_PID=270


Yes. It's just now posted in two places so that those who use the mobile app can find it easier. Horsey is playing a very awesome game of PR for the event and club. (Which I would love to thank her/him/them personally for if they would ever accept my bloody Emails! Thanks, Horsey for getting this rolling and keeping everyone on track.
👍
HorsePlay doesn't horse around. If somethin' needs doin' he's always ready to giddy-up and git 'er done.

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EVILDOERS wrote:

HorsePlay doesn't horse around. If somethin' needs doin' he's always ready to giddy-up and git 'er done.
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Giddy up 😁👍
Giddy-up, indeed.

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/1f/64/5a/1f645a8637cdc1072a6332e6eec87076.gif
I'd be down to join
@horseplay, you may want to change the name in the local events page. Lots of people are overlooking it because they actually think we're from North Dakota. :D
Discreet_Paramour wrote:

@horseplay, you may want to change the name in the local events page. Lots of people are overlooking it because they actually think we're from North Dakota. :D


If they don't pay attention and do their homework then they deserve to miss out and should just go hang out with the Greater Boise Macrame' and Karate Group.
https://preview.ibb.co/n1NNuf/IMG-20181114-063346-1-CS.jpg

Look for me on Saturday!
This is great. I would like to see a kik group opened as well for these events. I can stay caught up there easier than the forums here. Count us in.
2F4U wrote:

This is great. I would like to see a kik group opened as well for these events. I can stay caught up there easier than the forums here. Count us in.


Please start a kik group...
EVILDOERS wrote:

If they don't pay attention and do their homework then they deserve to miss out and should just go hang out with the Greater Boise Macrame' and Karate Group.


Exactly........
How late is everyone going to be out I'm going to be at the Somo concert and would like to meet up
Dunce caps, cone heads, missionary position name tags?
We would come of in town.
Ogden area will be our next stop.... just need to find a venue