We are a younger couple who have posted a couple times but not had great luck finding a great match, so we’re trying again! We’d love to find a young-ish (below 40’s) couple who is interested in meeting over dinner and flirting and getting to know each other in hopes that a long term FWB situation sparks up.
We know that most people meet through swinger parties or going out to other events, but that is hard for us to do due to lack of funds and the fact we aren’t really “go getters” in the club scene. We are more traditional and enjoy meeting a couple and getting to know them and their interests over dinner or a small game night gathering.
We’d love to find a couple who can travel or host that is interested in something ongoing if the Chemistry is right. We are ok with one time things, but preference is longer term. We enjoy dancing and concerts, bonfires, dinner out, shopping, watching movies while cuddling and stargazing. We’d love to try new things with new people though and are very open minded to new experiences.
If interested, please comment or message us. We’d love to chat and meet you. Couples or single females are welcome to respond. We aren’t really looking for males at the moment unless you have someone to bring with you.
Happy hunting!
K + S
We know that most people meet through swinger parties or going out to other events, but that is hard for us to do due to lack of funds and the fact we aren’t really “go getters” in the club scene. We are more traditional and enjoy meeting a couple and getting to know them and their interests over dinner or a small game night gathering.
We’d love to find a couple who can travel or host that is interested in something ongoing if the Chemistry is right. We are ok with one time things, but preference is longer term. We enjoy dancing and concerts, bonfires, dinner out, shopping, watching movies while cuddling and stargazing. We’d love to try new things with new people though and are very open minded to new experiences.
If interested, please comment or message us. We’d love to chat and meet you. Couples or single females are welcome to respond. We aren’t really looking for males at the moment unless you have someone to bring with you.
Happy hunting!
K + S
Hey, Wildones. A single FWB scenario is a difficult thing to achieve, for many reasons. When you are looking for couples FWB your chances of finding a compatible couple drop exponentially. It's almost as elusive as the coveted Unicorn! I'm not surprised to hear that you're having trouble. The positive statement here is, you're not the only one to have a hard time with this.
Getting out in the world and meeting other couples is definitely key. You say you're not go-getters, and that's perfectly okay, but you do need to be seen so that others can enjoy the prospect of going and getting you. You're both extremely attractive people, I think your focus should be finding compatible couples who share similar interests outside of the bedroom first. Once you have that, getting naked is going to me a (short) matter of time. My suggestion is to focus more on your likes, hobbies and (more importantly) things that you want to do in the near future...
This one line is FANTASTIC! My imaginative mind already wants to put a couples date together that starts with an ambient dinner out, probably downtown, an after-dinner stroll through city creed before heading to a club for a little music and dancing and if the night is going well, end it quietly cuddling in a warm blanket under the stars.
Getting out in the world and meeting other couples is definitely key. You say you're not go-getters, and that's perfectly okay, but you do need to be seen so that others can enjoy the prospect of going and getting you. You're both extremely attractive people, I think your focus should be finding compatible couples who share similar interests outside of the bedroom first. Once you have that, getting naked is going to me a (short) matter of time. My suggestion is to focus more on your likes, hobbies and (more importantly) things that you want to do in the near future...
WildCouple88 wrote:
We enjoy dancing and concerts, bonfires, dinner out, shopping, watching movies while cuddling and stargazing.
This one line is FANTASTIC! My imaginative mind already wants to put a couples date together that starts with an ambient dinner out, probably downtown, an after-dinner stroll through city creed before heading to a club for a little music and dancing and if the night is going well, end it quietly cuddling in a warm blanket under the stars.
We aren’t necessarily looking for one one single FWB, we are open to more than one for sure! We’d just preferably like to find one that is down to be more than a one time thing. One time things can be fun for sure, but once you really get to know a couple and what they like then things really get fun! 
WildCouple88 wrote:We agree with Discreet finding a couple like that isn’t easy.
We aren’t necessarily looking for one one single FWB, we are open to more than one for sure! We’d just preferably like to find one that is down to be more than a one time thing. One time things can be fun for sure, but once you really get to know a couple and what they like then things really get fun!
Utahldscouple is right in that it is hard to find. We have found a few couples we hit it off with but finding that real four way connection is the hardest. There are many people looking for the same thing, it is just giving them a chance and seeing what happens.
We hate being bedpost notches and so we look for those with whom we are friends before we play.
We hate being bedpost notches and so we look for those with whom we are friends before we play.
PixieNKol wrote:We agree we have found sometimes we get in our own way when you get caught up in looks/pictures (how many people actually look like their pictures in person?)! We have found people we didn’t think were attractive to be a better match when we met them.
Utahldscouple is right in that it is hard to find. We have found a few couples we hit it off with but finding that real four way connection is the hardest. There are many people looking for the same thing, it is just giving them a chance and seeing what happens.
We hate being bedpost notches and so we look for those with whom we are friends before we play.
We found a couple we really liked and enjoyed their company but of course they had to move and we lost some real good friends.
For us friendship is very important and we know it is difficult to have 4 people match. Hard enough for two people to match.
We would really like to find friends and FWB, travel mates, etc
Keeping our fingers crossed...
Hubby figures if we win the lotto this week, we will have a lot of friends
For us friendship is very important and we know it is difficult to have 4 people match. Hard enough for two people to match.
We would really like to find friends and FWB, travel mates, etc
Keeping our fingers crossed...
Hubby figures if we win the lotto this week, we will have a lot of friends
Yes it definitely is!
SOJOCOUPLE wrote:
Hubby figures if we win the lotto this week, we will have a lot of friends
Died laughing!! Thank you SoJo, I needed that tonight.
Wildcoupl, its very difficult to find a couple that wants what you want. We have been searching for years to find a couple to have as a regular basis fwb. Most people dint want to put the time or effort in... but it is also difficult to get 4 people on the same page or for everyone to feel lile it is a good fit. We are still looking for a couple, if you're interested feel free to hit is up.
It sounds like the general consensus is: Finding a long term couples FWB scenario is hard. My lady and I have experimented with a lot of variations on this theme and the one that's worked best for us so far is, each one finding a single FWB on the side. There are still plenty of options for double dates, exploration, solo play, group play, three-ways... AND the chances of compatibility become a little easier. Is it "Ideal"? Probably not. Is it for everyone? Definitely not! It has it's downsides like any relationship, but with open communication and understanding on everyone's part it can be quite fulfilling.
It's true that it's harder to get 4 people together than it is 2 but it's totally doable. And a ton of fun on those occasions when it happens. In my experience it's easier to find such a thing in the polamory community than the swinger community though.
Have you found any other couples that you click with? We may want to grab drinks with you one night. We're early 30s, educated, atheist and easy going. Hit us up.