We wondered what the best way to get threesomes are? We aren't the best at engaging people about it but wonder what people have done for this in the past.
Same problem. Are you a couple looking for another guy or girl?
Currently we are a couple looking for a girl and don't know how to go about it. We have found guys through friends in the past but not on these sites
I would be interested to join, but then I would need a return favor. My situation is unique however. No sex with my guy. Mainly me. Just touching with him, so it's not so 'scary'.
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It's hard to get a lady to meet we had one that would meet with use then she had use meet with a couple that she new then it went south because of the lady of the couple set rules that she wanted and it ended. We had alot of fun before that it was disappointed.
Babydollut the wife definitely hopes it's not a single girl to avoid feelings or wanting more scenarios. But we also don't know how to find them either
There's been a few threads about this over the years, and it seems the most popular way is just finding them in the wild, lol. Most seem to have better luck at bars, clubs, with not so close friends, ex-coworkers, etc... people you might know a little already. Ours came about through a friend.
There are some unicorns on here, but not a ton that are active it seems, so it makes it difficult with so many other couples and single males trying as well to find someone. Some other suggestions we've seen in the past was to find a couple that you were very compatible and trusting with, and then maybe alternate having threesomes. One night the other wife joins you two, the next time your wife joins the other couple. That seems to be the easiest in theory, but you always run the risk of the other couple not reciprocating when the time comes down to it.
I'm sure others will have some suggestions as well. Good luck!
There are some unicorns on here, but not a ton that are active it seems, so it makes it difficult with so many other couples and single males trying as well to find someone. Some other suggestions we've seen in the past was to find a couple that you were very compatible and trusting with, and then maybe alternate having threesomes. One night the other wife joins you two, the next time your wife joins the other couple. That seems to be the easiest in theory, but you always run the risk of the other couple not reciprocating when the time comes down to it.
I'm sure others will have some suggestions as well. Good luck!
What bars or places are good for casual meets? Also, looking for FFM , hubby can join or watch/touch, no pressure. Relationship maybe..??
We are down in Florida asking the same question. Not sure how to go about it without possibly insulting or embarrassing the lady. If there is anyone that has any good way of getting this started or would like to take part, we'd love to hear from you.
Thanks in advance.
Thanks in advance.
Almost everyone looking for a unicorn refuses to reciprocate. Seems to us that if you want a lady to join you...she should be allowed to return the favor. Most every unicorn out there has a guy, hubby or otherwise.
So the best way to get your FFM or FMF is to find an open-minded couple that also wants it. Then reciprocate.
So the best way to get your FFM or FMF is to find an open-minded couple that also wants it. Then reciprocate.
If only it was that easy
Maybe I’m in the minority here but don’t consider looking for a threesome to be swinging, unless you’re looking for both MFM and FMF or some iteration of both 2 males with 1 female and 2 females with 1 male, even if in separate events or with separate couples. It gets a bit obnoxious seeing profiles where either they state they’re looking specifically for just a female friend or saying they want a couple and then trying to isolate one of us or the other out of it. It’s dishonest and it’s not equal. It’s like saying you’re polyamorous but actually being polygamist. We’ve encountered it before and it’s not at all the spirit of this lifestyle by our definition.
LICK_TICKLE_NCUM wrote:
If only it was that easy
Sure. All we need is a designation in the Kinks and fetishes section devoted to non-hypocrite couples ISO other non-hypocrite couples who share their women equally... What would be a good name???
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We are open to the idea of me playing with another couple and then his lady playing with my man and me. It just hasn't happened so we just focus on couple play, which has worked out very well 
We have had a few fmf encounters. One was completely random and very erotic. Seriously a true unicorn. To be completely honest we just don't look for it and if the situation presents itself then we have "jumped" on it. LOL! We would prefer to have a few encounters that were memorable rather than hunt for an encounter. If it happens again... great. If not... great! I guess we're just pretty chill about it.
That's the way to be about it. A few fmf's we've had were disappointing for one reason or another. Where both women are truly into each other it seems to work well...but I think that's kinda rare. So yes, best to just let things happen...
I am having the same issue with finding another girl to do a 3some.
They don't call them "Unicorns" because they are in abundance.
Like many have said, if you hunt them, they scatter and run. Let them come to you ( and best if the come to the female half and there is an attraction there ) and things will be much more relaxed and erotic.
Good Luck!
Like many have said, if you hunt them, they scatter and run. Let them come to you ( and best if the come to the female half and there is an attraction there ) and things will be much more relaxed and erotic.
Good Luck!
Hopefully you don’t get a “I see why you are a unicorn” experience... lol
I would love to play!!!! I'm a unicorn that loves to play.... pm me if your interested 😉
utyolo wrote:
I feel like I'm one of the rare females who doesn't really find an FFM that appealing (FMF? MAYBE). MFM? Hell YES!
Mrs.
That what works for us also. MFM
If anyone would like a male for a threesome let me know back feel free to message me
We are in Georgia and looking for a female to join us. Not sure the best way to find someone. If you might be interested PM me. Thanks
Have you tried one of her friends? She looks beautiful, I'm sure some of her friends think so too. That's where we get on most of ours.
It is difficult to find a couple that wants to share just between the ladies. I’ve had a hard time understanding why it has to be all or nothing. I have a man already... maybe so does she. If the ladies are looking for girl play, why does she have to share her man too?
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We have been curious about having a threesome for a while now. Unfortunately we have yet to find the right person to join us. Until we do find the right person we'll keep enjoying the fun that we have been lucky enough to find.
Attend house parties and get to know people. We have met an abundance of single females that want to play and have had some incredible encounters. We have stayed in touch with most and have become FWB.
We've kind of had the opposite than most people here. We've found plenty of single women to play with but when it comes down to single men their non existent. I'm not saying that theres not a ton of them here and it could be due to my pickiness but let me explain.
I have single men contact us all the time! Every day infact!. However I have strict conditions and its not like most men couldnt pass a majority of these. Number 1 no cheaters! Yesterday i chatted with a guy who was cheating on his wife. As soon as he told me, convo over! Dishonesty is never acceptable. What else is he hiding if he's hiding me from her. #2 Age, I prefer a guy within my age range and ive been very lenient with that as well preferring no one over 10 years my age. but ive allowed that with some. I'm dragging on here but attractiveness and descretion, meeting the hubby, multi encounters(no one nighters), and overall being a FWB. I want to chat and im likely going to chat with you for a while before meeting. My biggest issue is finding single men that will chat with me for more than a day. 99% of all the guys i engage with stop chatting very quickly and disappear all together. Many even delete their profiles here. I dont know just ranting i think im just upset with the singles market here
I have single men contact us all the time! Every day infact!. However I have strict conditions and its not like most men couldnt pass a majority of these. Number 1 no cheaters! Yesterday i chatted with a guy who was cheating on his wife. As soon as he told me, convo over! Dishonesty is never acceptable. What else is he hiding if he's hiding me from her. #2 Age, I prefer a guy within my age range and ive been very lenient with that as well preferring no one over 10 years my age. but ive allowed that with some. I'm dragging on here but attractiveness and descretion, meeting the hubby, multi encounters(no one nighters), and overall being a FWB. I want to chat and im likely going to chat with you for a while before meeting. My biggest issue is finding single men that will chat with me for more than a day. 99% of all the guys i engage with stop chatting very quickly and disappear all together. Many even delete their profiles here. I dont know just ranting i think im just upset with the singles market here
SHAKURA89 wrote:
We've kind of had the opposite than most people here. We've found plenty of single women to play with but when it comes down to single men their non existent. I'm not saying that theres not a ton of them here and it could be due to my pickiness but let me explain.
I have single men contact us all the time! Every day infact!. However I have strict conditions and its not like most men couldnt pass a majority of these. Number 1 no cheaters! Yesterday i chatted with a guy who was cheating on his wife. As soon as he told me, convo over! Dishonesty is never acceptable. What else is he hiding if he's hiding me from her. #2 Age, I prefer a guy within my age range and ive been very lenient with that as well preferring no one over 10 years my age. but ive allowed that with some. I'm dragging on here but attractiveness and descretion, meeting the hubby, multi encounters(no one nighters), and overall being a FWB. I want to chat and im likely going to chat with you for a while before meeting. My biggest issue is finding single men that will chat with me for more than a day. 99% of all the guys i engage with stop chatting very quickly and disappear all together. Many even delete their profiles here. I dont know just ranting i think im just upset with the singles market here
Iucky you
We deserve our threesomes as well, especially if he gets his.
Hey u
I’d love to see if we are compatible. I’m a pilot flying in to Salt Lake City tomorrow. I’ll be in all week waiting on some hunters. Let me know if any interest. I’m not sure how this site works. Can you see my profile and pics?
SHAKURA89 wrote:
We deserve our threesomes as well, especially if he gets his.
Darn straight you do!
Any couple looking for a 3some and would like a married guy with a hall pass text me as I just moved here. 7706534780
INSIN wrote:
Almost everyone looking for a unicorn refuses to reciprocate. Seems to us that if you want a lady to join you...she should be allowed to return the favor. Most every unicorn out there has a guy, hubby or otherwise.
So the best way to get your FFM or FMF is to find an open-minded couple that also wants it. Then reciprocate.
Very true. We came into the lifestyle interested in meeting couples and singles, but we never had the threesome with another woman bias. It has happened for us, or because of us for another couple, quite a few times, because either myself or the husband side of another couple just was not available when a playtime opportunity came up. We never set up a "we will loan you our woman, if you will loan us your woman" arrangement, but threesomes have happened because we were familiar with other couples. We frankly prefer hook-ups where everyone can be there.
I am down for a good 3some. Lol. Mfm or hubby taking photos fir his private collection is always fun. If intrested I just moved to Lehi. Text 7706534780.
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I advertise here for 3some also. I think some of the old Craigslist picture collectors have moved to this site. Lol. But I still look. Text 7706534780 just moved to the area.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:INSIN wrote:
Almost everyone looking for a unicorn refuses to reciprocate. Seems to us that if you want a lady to join you...she should be allowed to return the favor. Most every unicorn out there has a guy, hubby or otherwise.
So the best way to get your FFM or FMF is to find an open-minded couple that also wants it. Then reciprocate.
Very true. We came into the lifestyle interested in meeting couples and singles, but we never had the threesome with another woman bias. It has happened for us, or because of us for another couple, quite a few times, because either myself or the husband side of another couple just was not available when a playtime opportunity came up. We never set up a "we will loan you our woman, if you will loan us your woman" arrangement, but threesomes have happened because we were familiar with other couples. We frankly prefer hook-ups where everyone can be there.
THANK YOU! I'm glad some people get it. We've had several threesome with others but its been clearly understood that ill play with them and she'll come play with us. When we can all get together full swap or 4somes are in play. But this is how we've gotten our unicorns. Dont get me wrong I love threesomes and it adds a bit of adventure walking into another couples home by myself and knowing ill be pleasing them both that night. But for another couple to say thats it and nothing more seems a bit shallow and will be very difficult for you to find a 3rd lady to join.
We'd like to meet a female friend who is bi-curious/sexual. We've had a 3some before, but weren't to crazy about the girl (she was way too into my husband). I hoped we could find a chill couple here or even a single female. We'll see 🤷
ALandPegBundy wrote:
We'd like to meet a female friend who is bi-curious/sexual. We've had a 3some before, but weren't to crazy about the girl (she was way too into my husband). I hoped we could find a chill couple here or even a single female. We'll see 🤷
We are very chilled with 6 years of experience and im bi-sexual
Finding a girl has been difficult. No doubt. We just stopped trying. Finding a guy we like. Still hard, cause we can be picky. So. I agree with CNTRLCPL. When we were not looking, message message message. lol
I'm new so no idea. Please let me know when you find out.
I'm new so no idea. Please let me know when you find out.