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What is the best way for a single guy to message a couple or single girls looking for a single guy.
I can tell you what NOT to do...😂 Don't message a couple and say "hey, you're wife is hot is she looking for a bull".

Any single men that have approached us and gotten our attention are the ones that do so with maturity and respect for our relationship. We have met some really awesome single guys to play with and so just remember when you are messaging a couple....you are asking a man to let you be intimate with her and therefore them. Most couples on here are deeply in love and only do this because it's sexy and fun so approach them with respect and maturity and friendship and I'm sure you will be just fine. Same goes for SF I'm sure. ❤️❤️ Best of luck.
I think the best way is for the buy to be bi... lol
The best way is to make sure they indeed ARE looking for single guys to play with and that you meet whatever criteria they may have stated in their profile as far as, say, age, HWP, and yes, even things like dick size. Then carefully READ their entire profile (You should have already done this to ascertain that they welcome inquiries from SM's and who or what they're looking for specifically!).

Finally, compose a polite, respectful email (Attaching a recent photo showing your face and possibly your body is also a good idea.) telling them of your interest in meeting them and explaining why you think you would be a good match for them. Then wait for them to reply and whatever you do don't keep sending emails pestering. They will contact you if they are interested.

99.9% of the emails we get from single males are so generic and non-specific that we're certain they've either copied and pasted the same email and spammed it out to multiple couples or, alternatively, are just too lazy to even read our profile and to then put forth the minimum amount of effort into writing an introductory email. The remaining .1% rarely, if ever, mention the specific caveats we've included in our profile about SM's so we know they either didn't read it or basically just ignored it.
Good question...
Well.. I notice when I send the first message to couples or single females who I won’t even consider for a “back-up” plan... they like to WANT TO IGNORE and It cracks me up.. because I probably was just saying something pretty innocent about something cool I noticed in their profile.. So I stopped sending first messages completely. The best way to go about it... hmmmm just chill out... someone will send you a message because it seems like no matter what.. when a single guy sends the first message HE IS DESPERATE!
Read, read, read profiles.....if it says not looking for a single male or dont contact us we'll contact you....dont be that dumbass and email or friemd request them anyways. I cant tell you how many times thats happened. Dont let your dick make you look stupid because you like their cover photo.
For us, a completed profile with more than a few sentences, catches our attention. The more detail you can give about yourself and your intentions, and the more pics you have, the better your chances are of someone messaging you. And just like said above, the majority of couples on here are happy, so be respectful and aware that they make the choice about who's coming into their bedroom. Good luck!