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We are fairly new to the LS scene , but for us small groups or house parties seem to work out best for us. We would like some input or advise on house parties and what made your successful and what not to do.
We invited people we know and who we have been with. We have been to other parties where they do an ice breaker. The one we like best is group massage as long as the guys are not too homophobic...everyone gets a turn. We prefer no more than 6 couples but 4-5 are the best. Knowing the people or knowing people that know those you invite is the bes way of assuring your house does not get trashed also. Good luck and have fun. Remember the host get first dibs.
Best advice is know who’s hosting and what to expect from them . We have been to some house parties where there were expectations from the host ( like you owe the host something because you attended) beware of those parties. Ask lots of questions and set clear boundaries with you and your partner ahead of time . If you are at a party for the first time go easy on the alcohol so your boundaries are easy to remember and don’t let anyone pressure you in to doing something your not ready for . Parties are a great way to get on a more intamite level with people and can be a ton of fun .