Forgive me if this is too long, but after discussion about trying again for our first swinging experience with another couple these questions arose and I'd like to get some honest feedback please.
Once you've had a positive swinging experience, does the sex with your partner alone become less thrilling than before? Concerns in our talk about experimenting were that perhaps one or both of us would like it "too much" and that it could dampen our current very good sex life. Have any of you found that you get hooked on the thrill and being with "just" your partner is no longer as satisfying? It also seems, after reading quite a bit in this forum, that often the fantasy is better than the reality. Truth? Do have some other questions as well, but think I've put enough out there for now! Thanks in advance for your insights.
Once you've had a positive swinging experience, does the sex with your partner alone become less thrilling than before? Concerns in our talk about experimenting were that perhaps one or both of us would like it "too much" and that it could dampen our current very good sex life. Have any of you found that you get hooked on the thrill and being with "just" your partner is no longer as satisfying? It also seems, after reading quite a bit in this forum, that often the fantasy is better than the reality. Truth? Do have some other questions as well, but think I've put enough out there for now! Thanks in advance for your insights.
Quite the opposite for us. It has made things even better.
Glad n that it has worked out well for you. Thank you for your response.
Glad n that it has worked out well for you. Thank you for your response.
Sex between us has gotten even better. With the right couple the reality is better than the fantasy, but nothing can compare with sex between your life-long partner who knows just how to push your buttons and which dance move comes next. We worried about getting hooked on the thrill as well, but it is only an enhancement of something already great.
We are new to this but we have loved it so far. We have to to be with another couple though. So far it has only been MFM. But, that being said our sex has been amazing between the two of us because it has become more intimate with it just being us and our communication is a lot better as well. I am sure it is different for every couple though and you just have to find what works for you.
In general, I think most couples, ourselves included, find sex to be more exciting after opening the Pandora's Box of swapping spouses. The problem that we've found is that it's quite difficult to get that particular horse back in the barn once it's been let out. Most people we know get kind of addicted to the thrill of fucking other people and if or when either of you might decide that your curiosity is satisfied it usually is quite hard (no pun intended) to go back to vanilla sex and vanilla life. YMMV
happycouple33 wrote:Couldn't have said it better. This is exactly us to a "T"! Sex is great with other people but doesn't even compare to the Love we have for each other and the incredible sex and connection we have!
Sex between us has gotten even better. With the right couple the reality is better than the fantasy, but nothing can compare with sex between your life-long partner who knows just how to push your buttons and which dance move comes next. We worried about getting hooked on the thrill as well, but it is only an enhancement of something already great.
happycouple33 wrote:Couldn't have said it better. This is exactly us to a "T"! Sex is great with other people but doesn't even compare to the Love we have for each other and the incredible sex and connection we have!
Sex between us has gotten even better. With the right couple the reality is better than the fantasy, but nothing can compare with sex between your life-long partner who knows just how to push your buttons and which dance move comes next. We worried about getting hooked on the thrill as well, but it is only an enhancement of something already great.