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Ok just going to vent for a sec. I'm so sick of guys acting like they are in a relationship or have a seperate partner who wants to join or play later. The conversation always falls to... Well I can meet you solo scenario or shes busy or working then continues to ask for pics. Example... Guy I'm chatting now is sending nudes of his 'gf' who upon close observation has a clit piercing. When I asked him about it later in the convo he admits no she doesn't have her clit pierced and asks why. Dude... You've been busted don't make excuses. It wasnt a photo of her 10 years ago. I want a recent pic as I sent you a recent pic. Guys stoop so low its so dumb. Be honest and tell me your a single guy and your odds are much higher. Be shady and its a 0% chance. Just turning into a joke.
Omg we can’t agree with you more! Quit wasting our time. We have resulted to live kik pics of the two together when we start to suspect they are lying or cheating. Our favorite is the “I am married but have a friend I can bring”! We like the occasional single (very selective though) so if you’re honest you have a chance!
Okay, bear with me for a long story but I just HAVE to tell y'all about this guy we met here back in the day. His profile seemed pretty legit but only had a couple of photos of him and one of his "girlfriend" that didn't show her face. We chatted back and forth and finally agreed to meet...at a park.

Still have no clue why he insisted on a public park. So we're sitting there and this dude starts walking towards us. He looks a little different but we were pretty sure it was him but, you guessed it, no sign of any girl. Ms. Evil and I give each other the side-eye and he walks up and introductions are made. I IMMEDIATELY ask him where his gf is. "Well, she couldn't get off work to come."

Yeah, we're now 98% sure he's absolutely full of shit as we'd played this game many times before. But he has a picture of her he can show us and pulls out his wallet and, no lie, pulls out a folded up photo cut out of a magazine. We start laughing and he tells us she is a model. Now we're 99.999% sure we've been played and he can tell we're about to leave but he BEGS us to wait to judge and offers to let us talk to her on the phone. At this point we're just going along because we think it's hilarious and want to see how far he will take this.

So we end up both talking to this girl on the phone. It turns out that either he IS legit or he's gone to great pains to get some girl to cover for him, at least by phone. The next big kicker is that she fucking lives in Boise and supposedly WAS going to drive down to meet us but did have to work.

Fast forward a month or so and we go to his house for drinks and she is indeed there. But he actually was very rude and dismissive of her. Apparently, she was a hairdresser (and, indeed, a part-time model) and he didn't think that she was really worthy of him for some reason. We basically said sorry and left. True story!
First off I would like to say that is some shady shit and I'm sorry you have had to deal with it. My wife has had issues with the dating scene because there are so many trashy single males. It's sad really.

That said, Mr and Mrs Evil's story was kind of funny actually. Never know how weird people can be until you put yourself out there lol.
EVILDOERS wrote:

Fast forward a month or so and we go to his house for drinks and she is indeed there. But he actually was very rude and dismissive of her. Apparently, she was a hairdresser (and, indeed, a part-time model) and he didn't think that she was really worthy of him for some reason. We basically said sorry and left. True story!

At least he was legit at the end of the day. You gave him more time of day than we would have!
Haha thats funny evils. I probably also would have bailed. Good for you guys. We hear stories from girls who have played that have said theyve gone to what they thought were couples houses for it to be a single guy... Same story... Wofes at work or couldnt make it... So they frantically bailed. Just crazy its been story after story the more people we talk to. And last but not least, most guys never seem to appear what their profile pictures look like lol.
COUPLE801801 wrote:

Haha thats funny evils. I probably also would have bailed. Good for you guys. We hear stories from girls who have played that have said theyve gone to what they thought were couples houses for it to be a single guy... Same story... Wofes at work or couldnt make it... So they frantically bailed. Just crazy its been story after story the more people we talk to. And last but not least, most guys never seem to appear what their profile pictures look like lol.

That’s isn’t limited to singles. We met a couple and the pictures on their profile had to be at least 10 years old.
We seem to have the same issues with finding girls....

So far 100% of the girls we have interest in turn out to be Guys...

Lol...we will have Email conversations over days in order to set up a meet.... then when we say we need to voice verify before meeting...all the conversations stop...
FITUTAHCOUPLE wrote:

We seem to have the same issues with finding girls....

So far 100% of the girls we have interest in turn out to be Guys...

Lol...we will have Email conversations over days in order to set up a meet.... then when we say we need to voice verify before meeting...all the conversations stop...

Are we saying that only single men exist 😀?
LOL… I don’t think we are saying that only single men exist…

I think what we are saying that OF the single girls that we were attracted to ( and by we… I mean she… )… Seem to all be men pretending to be girls … LOL

I think the reason why… is because they like to get pics .....

LOL… Porn is free on the Internet… so I’m not sure why they go to all the effort to get our Porn...

But maybe they fantasize that they’re talking to the actual person in the photographs
What’s even more interesting to me… Beyond the pick collectors… Is that there are actual couples that are looking for single men...

So why not just be honest…?
We were going to chime in with a funny story like Evil had, but then we realized this said “fishing” and not “fisting”.......
PAIRPLAYERS wrote:

We were going to chime in with a funny story like Evil had, but then we realized this said “fishing” and not “fisting”.......

That is a very “evil” type of response 😀!
Tried to message you personally and it keeps giving me an error?! Wtf.... message me?