Hello all, I just joined Swingular based on a recommendation received on ourhotwives forum.
A little about us. Hubby is a 53 year old retired Marine who is in the best shape of his life. 5' 9" tall, thick brown hair with specks of grey and brown eyes. I am a 41 year old executive for a Wall Street firm and am in great shape. 5' 4" tall, brown eyes, olive skin and natural long blonde hair. I am small, wear a size 4 and have 34 DD breasts.
Hubby and I have been talking about other men having me while we had sex for years (7). But I always thought it was talk. A few years ago he suggested I actually do sleep with other men. I blew it off. Then I got a real boost in my sex drive and it began to sound reasonable
So a few weeks ago I started looking for men. I met one last week who turned out to be just what I was looking for. We really hit it off. So I invited him out for a drink to meet the Hubby. Hubby paid the bill and told him to make sure I got home safe and left. This man and I proceeded to have wild sex, then he took me home. I told hubby EVERY detail and we had wild sex.
So we took the leap and liked it!
I am looking for advice as a new hot wife, how to find men? We would also be into parties and MFM where hubby participates or watches. We also like nudist events.
We are in Salt Lake county.
Thanks
A little about us. Hubby is a 53 year old retired Marine who is in the best shape of his life. 5' 9" tall, thick brown hair with specks of grey and brown eyes. I am a 41 year old executive for a Wall Street firm and am in great shape. 5' 4" tall, brown eyes, olive skin and natural long blonde hair. I am small, wear a size 4 and have 34 DD breasts.
Hubby and I have been talking about other men having me while we had sex for years (7). But I always thought it was talk. A few years ago he suggested I actually do sleep with other men. I blew it off. Then I got a real boost in my sex drive and it began to sound reasonable
So a few weeks ago I started looking for men. I met one last week who turned out to be just what I was looking for. We really hit it off. So I invited him out for a drink to meet the Hubby. Hubby paid the bill and told him to make sure I got home safe and left. This man and I proceeded to have wild sex, then he took me home. I told hubby EVERY detail and we had wild sex.
So we took the leap and liked it!
I am looking for advice as a new hot wife, how to find men? We would also be into parties and MFM where hubby participates or watches. We also like nudist events.
We are in Salt Lake county.
Thanks
Good morning
I have just relocated here and am trying to engage with some lifestyle friends
I have contacts from past several years of business trips here and have met up with a few couples
Would love to meet you and your husband for Cocktails to discuss
There is a LS party this weekend if interested
I have just relocated here and am trying to engage with some lifestyle friends
I have contacts from past several years of business trips here and have met up with a few couples
Would love to meet you and your husband for Cocktails to discuss
There is a LS party this weekend if interested
Hi and thanks for replying.
I saw that event, but we invited the man I had last week over tomorrow evening for possibly my first MFM. I am VERY excited! I did message the organizer of the meet and greets to get info on those.
I saw that event, but we invited the man I had last week over tomorrow evening for possibly my first MFM. I am VERY excited! I did message the organizer of the meet and greets to get info on those.
Yes, communication is very important. before I actually starting meeting guys we talked and talked, a lot. What we both want, what we don't want, what our boundaries are. We never had a hard time communicating but this has led to more open and honest conversations than ever before.
Ive been a bull for a cuck couple and also involved long term w a hot wife couple before. Absolutely communication. Be sure everyone is on the same page because there are so many variations and shades of what different couples want. I always joke that my job is the hardest because I have to make sure all 3 people are happy. Also utmost importance is a relationship between the husband and the guy. Some want no contact. Some want a lot. I enjoy talking w the husband I. The days leading up. Asking what he would imagine. Asking if he’s like any special pictures etc. makes the long term thing possible.
I’d also like to offer my “ services “ if that interests you 😉
I’d also like to offer my “ services “ if that interests you 😉
I don’t think finding men is ever an issue in a site like this..
I think you probably should outline what you are looking for... in listing what you are looking for, don’t be too strict because if you are MassageBBCguy guy will say “get a 3D printer”. Lol.
NOTE: MassageBBCguy is enjoying E-FWB for now.
I think you probably should outline what you are looking for... in listing what you are looking for, don’t be too strict because if you are MassageBBCguy guy will say “get a 3D printer”. Lol.
NOTE: MassageBBCguy is enjoying E-FWB for now.
Hi and thanks for the advice!
I am looking for men ages 25-60 (I know big range), 5' 8" or taller, hair and eye color dont matter, but they need to be fit, not overweight at all. Both hubby and I take care of our selves and want the same in a friend.
I prefer clean shaven men and don't like this latest beard trend. I also like men, real men. Men who have callouses on their hands from working. Dont get me wrong, I do like other business professionals as long as they are very masculine.
Ultimately goal is to have 2-3 regular friends I can enjoy from time to time, so I dont need to spend time looking. One on one sex, sex where my husband watches and MFM.
I am looking for men ages 25-60 (I know big range), 5' 8" or taller, hair and eye color dont matter, but they need to be fit, not overweight at all. Both hubby and I take care of our selves and want the same in a friend.
I prefer clean shaven men and don't like this latest beard trend. I also like men, real men. Men who have callouses on their hands from working. Dont get me wrong, I do like other business professionals as long as they are very masculine.
Ultimately goal is to have 2-3 regular friends I can enjoy from time to time, so I dont need to spend time looking. One on one sex, sex where my husband watches and MFM.
@uthotwife.....that was an awesome scenario you described in your initial post, HOT!!! We’ve done somethings very similar, usually always a hot experience. We love hotwife play, probably our favorite in regards to the lifestyle.
Sounds like you are doing pretty well embarking upon this adventure after a long time in considering it and talking about it between you two. Believe me it can be a VERY fun adventure with the right combo. Been there done that. There is nothing I enjoy more than being a part of a sexy couples "hotwife" fantasy n fun, with her desire to, and his full consent and participation. If I can be of any help to you in this, and or be someone you might want to include do feel free to contact me here. Be well and enjoy. Jay
Great topic! Thanks for sharing your experience!
Ask for referrals, and vet everyone. Be safe.
Ask for referrals, and vet everyone. Be safe.
Clearly describe what and who you are hoping to find in your profile. You will still get request from guys who really don't fit, but you will find that some will actually read your profile and after saying to themselves, "That sounds like me", reach out.
Thank you for sharing your story and initial foray into the community. Very hot.
Also this obviously speaks volumes about the amount of time and work you've both put into your relationship and yourselves.
When we were just starting last year one of our first play experiences was me setting up the Mrs first threesome. I think it was our second play experience 🤔
Anyway, I just felt that letting her play alone with a classy and vetted couple would allow her to explore herself sexually without the pressure of managing my feelings.
I went through loads of Craigslist ads and vetting before find a very classy, kind, and sexy couple local to us.
I dropped her off, we had a communication plan in case she got in trouble, then I sent my best friend in the world off to what turned out to be a very sexy adventure. She totally blew their minds. I was so damn proud of her. Took a lot of courage and personal ownership for her to do it.
And it was great for our marriage. So my hat's off to your Mr and to you for your courage and all the relational work this takes before, during and after the play.
Also this obviously speaks volumes about the amount of time and work you've both put into your relationship and yourselves.
When we were just starting last year one of our first play experiences was me setting up the Mrs first threesome. I think it was our second play experience 🤔
Anyway, I just felt that letting her play alone with a classy and vetted couple would allow her to explore herself sexually without the pressure of managing my feelings.
I went through loads of Craigslist ads and vetting before find a very classy, kind, and sexy couple local to us.
I dropped her off, we had a communication plan in case she got in trouble, then I sent my best friend in the world off to what turned out to be a very sexy adventure. She totally blew their minds. I was so damn proud of her. Took a lot of courage and personal ownership for her to do it.
And it was great for our marriage. So my hat's off to your Mr and to you for your courage and all the relational work this takes before, during and after the play.
Hi there
Sent you friend request
Would love to chat with you sometime
Mark
Sent you friend request
Would love to chat with you sometime
Mark
I'd like to know if there is an easier way to get her more comfortable with trying this. Any advice?
ParkCityWife wrote:
We have found it’s easier to find guys when the wife goes out on the town with another like-minded woman.
This makes perfect sense 😁.