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We are long time members on several sites, and one of them allows you to see who looked at your profile. I don't know what the demand for that would be here, but we think it's a nice feature to have. What are everyone's thoughts on this?
We agree, being able to see who has looked at our profile would be a nice feature!
We aren't really fans of that type of a feature. We feel it's too intrusive and prefer a bit of anonymity when browsing profiles. Just because we viewed a profile, doesn't mean we are interested. We already have the option of sending a message if you were interested after viewing a profile. A 'like' button might be a better option if you wanted to know who took a look at your profile and liked what they saw. That way it gives notice that someone is interested and gives you the option to start up a conversation or to ignore it.
Gotta go with DOUBLED03 on this one. Sometimes ignorance is bliss in regards to who may or may not have been perving your profile. But some kind of like button would be nice. We're on another site that allows people to "like" a photo on someone else's profile which is a fairly innocuous way to show interest and then the people/person receiving the like can respond accordingly...or not.
Yes, perhaps a like button would be a better option. The main point being to gauge interest. We would never want to intrude, just a bit curious as to who likes us, but is perhaps too shy to take the first step.
We have mixed feelings because sometimes we click on a profile and after opening it we were like please don’t contact us! So we like it but at the same time don’t. Maybe an option to allow users to see if you viewed them. A like would be good!!!
There is already a like button, at least in the mobile app.
Mixed feelings on this. We have been on that site and had some very pushy people who started messaging us after we looked with a “you looked at us, what’s the matter? Don’t you like what you see?”
SUNRISE wrote:

There is already a like button, at least in the mobile app.


If that's the case, that doesn't seem very productive since the desktop version doesn't have the same feature. You could like all the profiles you wanted and the other parties would never know if they aren't using the mobile app.
I don't see any value in seeing how many times single dudes creeped on our profile. We get enough of them trying to friend us, knowing how many times they looked at the wife's pics wouldn't be good I'm thinking.
Man do I know how to stir the shit pot. Thanks for all of your input.
I think there's enough stalking without having to cross check who's stalking the stalkers stalking you, only to then stalk the stalkers alerting them that you too are now stalking them, creating some sort of weird stalking cycle of stalkers...

Geesus what the hell did I just say? Let's try this...

How much stalking could a stalker stalk, if a stalker could stalk you? (repeat 10 times fast).

Yeah... let's keep some mystery, the alternative is just creepy to consider O.O
Sammie117 wrote:

I don't see any value in seeing how many times single dudes creeped on our profile. We get enough of them trying to friend us, knowing how many times they looked at the wife's pics wouldn't be good I'm thinking.

Unfortunately there is already a counter on your profile, how many times you have been viewed, but like most, probably best that you don’t know who it actually is. As far as the like button on the desktop it seems to be the being friended button.
Wow there seems to be a lot of negative on that idea .what you all afraid of .its was just suggestion to see if other would like something like that . though of you worried about the single guy checking out your wife's pic put your in her place then have nothing to worry about
Franknfelicity wrote:

Wow there seems to be a lot of negative on that idea .what you all afraid of .its was just suggestion to see if other would like something like that . though of you worried about the single guy checking out your wife's pic put your in her place then have nothing to worry about


I know that, at least in our case, we sometimes check out people's profiles not out of any real interest but actually out of a sort of morbid curiosity because of something they may have said online or maybe even just because we're just curious as to what they look like based on a hard to see thumbnail on their profile. I think, and I could be wrong, that it might cause some hurt feelings if people could see who was looking at their profile and decided to contact them only to be ignored, shot down, or even blocked. We're on, and have been on, a LOT of sites over the years and not a single one has had this feature...probably for a good reason. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Wow do you ever have good this to say about anyone or anything . or is this just your opinion on everything that's said on here . You put something out on everything on here .know matter what it is . I don't care what you think of us but we don't hide are face so you know your not hurting my feelings either .I'm sorry the wife pissed you off . because of your nasty opinion on most things posted or should I say funny way in your opinion you said it.i hope the jab was good for you no hard feelings just be honest with your self that would be a good start
Franknfelicity wrote:

Wow do you ever have good this to say about anyone or anything . or is this just your opinion on everything that's said on here . You put something out on everything on here .know matter what it is . I don't care what you think of us but we don't hide are face so you know your not hurting my feelings either .I'm sorry the wife pissed you off . because of your nasty opinion on most things posted or should I say funny way in your opinion you said it.i hope the jab was good for you no hard feelings just be honest with your self that would be a good start


Not sure if this was aimed at me or someone else since it's kind of all over the place and not very concise, but if it is I can assure you that I'm not being negative in the slightest. Just giving my opinion and why I don't think it would necessarily be a good idea. And nobody "pissed (me) off" or offended me in any way and I'm not offended or upset in the slightest by your proposition or by either of you since I've never met you. Again, I was just offering my opinion and nothing else.
We viewed all your profiles! just saying!
WTFBICPL wrote:

Man do I know how to stir the shit pot. Thanks for all of your input.


If things get boring, find someone in lederhosen, and stand back and watch the party start!

Okay, we want to take it to the next level. We want to know if anyone has ever masturbated while looking at our profile. We think the admin needs to add a function that detects whenever someone suddenly starts using just one hand on their computer and then turns on their camera.
pretty simple to have an option that if you want to see who is looking at you then others are able to see that you are looking at them. An opt out would allow for anonymity both ways. You can have your cake and eat it to. It's 2018. Other sites have this as an option.
Sorry DWet, have never masterbated to your pictures. But one image asks a wonderfully blunt question wide openly to which we say a resounding YES!
Hey WTF.
We like the Lederhosen and Germany and the rest of your pictures. We thought you asked a good question. Let us know if you are ever coming our way.
Poundcake's suggestion is the way to go; allow folks to opt in, or opt out. Some folks, on other sites, use the feature selectively. Their default setting is to opt out, but if they are interested in a profile, they’ll opt in while they perv that profile. It’s not a huge deal, but it’s a nice feature
DOUBLED03 wrote:

SUNRISE wrote:

There is already a like button, at least in the mobile app.

If that's the case, that doesn't seem very productive since the desktop version doesn't have the same feature. You could like all the profiles you wanted and the other parties would never know if they aren't using the mobile app.


I know this is an old thread but it piqued my curiosity. I haven't seen that anyone has verified if there is indeed a "like" button on the mobile app. Can someone verify one way or another?

I really like the idea of "like" buttons, particularly on a site like this. However, I have no interest in the mobile app.

From what I'm gathering around here, the admins/owners don't often add features. Is that correct?
Guilty of checking your wife out 😂
Guilty. Shit, damn technology!!
Yes, there is a like button on the mobile sit. I just hit it for you guys.

What I don’t know, is if it lets the other user know they have been liked.

Can you see anything on your end?

One reason I like Swinglifestyle is you can see who has checked out your profile.

Let me know if you see anything.
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Need a way to flirt or send a wink or something!
Agree completely
WTFBICPL wrote:

Man do I know how to stir the shit pot. Thanks for all of your input.


Yes, you're quite the cook! LOL
Sometimes people probably look at our profile, because they are just wondering, who the fuck are these people, rather than how can we fuck these people. So, for us, at our age, we wouldn’t assume that someone interested in reviewing our profile is necessarily interested in a close encounter of the sexual kind. It might be interesting to see who is looking at us a bit closer than than a passing glance.
DELICIOUSLYWET wrote:

Sometimes people probably look at our profile, because they are just wondering, who the fuck are these people, rather than how can we fuck these people. So, for us, at our age, we wouldn’t assume that someone interested in reviewing our profile is necessarily interested in a close encounter of the sexual kind. It might be interesting to see who is looking at us a bit closer than than a passing glance.

I really think they are looking at you guys trying to figure out to fuck you
DOUBLED03 wrote:

We aren't really fans of that type of a feature. We feel it's too intrusive and prefer a bit of anonymity when browsing profiles. Just because we viewed a profile, doesn't mean we are interested. We already have the option of sending a message if you were interested after viewing a profile. A 'like' button might be a better option if you wanted to know who took a look at your profile and liked what they saw. That way it gives notice that someone is interested and gives you the option to start up a conversation or to ignore it.

Must agree 100 % and very well said!
Nakkidfun wrote:

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Thanks for doing that! Unfortunately, I'm currently only using this site on my PC, so can't tell you if it works or not on mobile. Perhaps you could test it on someone else.?
Utahldscouple wrote:

Need a way to flirt or send a wink or something!


YES! And the more I think about it, the more it surprises me there is not a way. Seems crazy not to have that feature on a site like this. Seriously! What kind of site these days doesn't have the option to "like"???

How about a campaign? If enough of us banded together, would it make a difference? Or do the owners/mods figure they've got us by the balls with our "lifetime" memberships!?! Maybe Evil should up his offer for this site to $50 and TWO Jiffy Lubes.
Canvas wrote:

Utahldscouple wrote:

Need a way to flirt or send a wink or something!

YES! And the more I think about it, the more it surprises me there is not a way. Seems crazy not to have that feature on a site like this. Seriously! What kind of site these days doesn't have the option to "like"???
How about a campaign? If enough of us banded together, would it make a difference? Or do the owners/mods figure they've got us by the balls with our "lifetime" memberships!?! Maybe Evil should up his offer for this site to $50 and TWO Jiffy Lubes.
The admins literally don't do anything on this site. I have tried so many times including buy the site.
LETSJUSTHAVEFUNUTAH wrote:

Guilty of checking your wife out 😂


Mine? That's ok. I check her out every day. 😂
Pretty couple
Okay , call me the bitch here. Why do you care ? How is someone to know if they are interested or not , if they don't check out your profile ? If they pass you by ...good . They are someone you wouldn't have a fit with .
Just for fun make it a wink emoji