We've been here for a month. Like most, we have limited availability, but are willing to make the most of that availability.
Having said that... Getting our feet wet, we prefer to have a meeting "date" type thing, before hopping to the party. We've met some awesome single dudes... that chat up a big game... But then ghost just days before we've all agreed to have fun.
So our question is... Are we asking too much, or do single dudes just suck that bad?
Having said that... Getting our feet wet, we prefer to have a meeting "date" type thing, before hopping to the party. We've met some awesome single dudes... that chat up a big game... But then ghost just days before we've all agreed to have fun.
So our question is... Are we asking too much, or do single dudes just suck that bad?
Hi,
Sorry for your ghostly no-show single dudes
I have limited availability as well but I’m real and will show up. Still will to try?
Sorry for your ghostly no-show single dudes
I have limited availability as well but I’m real and will show up. Still will to try?
Single dudes are just that bad in general. There are several reasons and factors but we find ultimately they are married or other issues.
We have had our share of troubles with single guys. Having said that, they are what we are looking for so we're kind of in a conundrum. We like single guys. It's kind of the Manicorn that we are looking for. Single, reliable, big cock etc.. It's frustrating for sure.
I'm guessing it's kind of like the unicorn, you want a single male, but you want some very specific characteristics which only very few single males have. And probably everybody else in the world wants these exact same males. They're in high demand and low supply, so like the jackelope, they'll be hard to seduce because everyone else is seducing them at the same time.
There are VERY few single guys who actually get what swinging is all about. Most think of it as just another way to get free, no-strings sex without having to put forth very much, if any, effort. Some think that swinging is basically a 'cuck' scene and act accordingly. And a few understand the dynamics and the reality of the lifestyle and actually do quite well for themselves.
I'd say the ratio is probably about 1 in 100 who actually "gets it" and doesn't lose his shit over perceived inequities and unfairness when it comes to his place/role in swinging. The really tough part is finding that one out of a hundred and him not being so freaking busy from too many opportunities because he's in such high demand.
I've always said that if my chosen career didn't work out I could be a contractor and if I showed up and got the projected work done on budget and within a few weeks of what I'd promised I'd be the busiest/most popular contractor in Utah. Pretty much the same thing with single guys. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I'd say the ratio is probably about 1 in 100 who actually "gets it" and doesn't lose his shit over perceived inequities and unfairness when it comes to his place/role in swinging. The really tough part is finding that one out of a hundred and him not being so freaking busy from too many opportunities because he's in such high demand.
I've always said that if my chosen career didn't work out I could be a contractor and if I showed up and got the projected work done on budget and within a few weeks of what I'd promised I'd be the busiest/most popular contractor in Utah. Pretty much the same thing with single guys. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
You all are awesome! We thank you for your time and replies.
We are pretty much looking for exactly what WTFBICPL listed. But seems all we are running into is dudes that are either married, or maybe are just pic collectors.
We are pretty much looking for exactly what WTFBICPL listed. But seems all we are running into is dudes that are either married, or maybe are just pic collectors.
I'm a single guy, just getting back into the lifestyle after being gone for a few years. I would love to have the chance to meet you guys. I know my place and respect all boundaries. I understand that I am being invited into your life.
Please message me if you are interested in talking more.
Please message me if you are interested in talking more.
We also play with single guys. We always insist on an in person meeting for drinks or something before any playing. It’s a safe place where everyone can get a feel for each other and decide if you want to move forward. When we first started out, we had a lot of flakes who stood us up. It was very frustrating. It is surprising how difficult it can be to find a quality single guy. Don’t let them ruin it for you. We’ve met a lot of really fun and respectful guys. They are out there, you just need to keep looking.
Reliable singles are hard to fine. We've found a few in the pass but it takes some work and time. Well worth it when you find the right guy. Our advice, keep trying, use a couple different sights, go to parties and be open to different things.
Hello all i am a straight male and travel regularly to utah. When i make a date i show up. I am a clean, healthy and no STDs 7" cut, modest thickness with good stamina and open minded to the couples needs. I am shy at first but warm up quickly. I am a gentlenan, respectful and passive; so i am non-aggressive and will follow your lead.
Get on Adult Friend finder. You will find at least 5 single males on their Instant Messenger for every woman or couple. Unless the males somehow quit that in the last 2 years.
FOr us, the best place to meet single guys has been at a party, club, or meetNgreet. We always assume that half the single guys online are 13yr old boys pranking. Another 25% are married men fantasizing. Another 20% don’t know how to speak to a woman in person, leaving 1 guy out of 20 who are legitimate potential play partners.
Oh, one other avenue we’ve used in recent years is KIK groups. Hey are popular in Florida, where we lived until recently. There are lots of useless groups, but there are good ones also. In a group you can get to know folks over time, and when it’s time to play you already have a sense of who will show up and who might flake.
Oh, one other avenue we’ve used in recent years is KIK groups. Hey are popular in Florida, where we lived until recently. There are lots of useless groups, but there are good ones also. In a group you can get to know folks over time, and when it’s time to play you already have a sense of who will show up and who might flake.
JEFFSMITH1972 wrote:
Nope. It's still that way.
I'm a single dude that's not nuts or a flake. 
Seek out referrals. Parties are a great way to meet people who can make those introductions.
Pick me. Pick me.
Same could be said for several couples and single females on here
I have spent an inordinate amout of time even texting and talking about meeting on the phone, with cold feet at the 11th hour. Don't get it.
I am very real and transparant and WILL show up when invited
Same could be said for several couples and single females on here
I have spent an inordinate amout of time even texting and talking about meeting on the phone, with cold feet at the 11th hour. Don't get it.
I am very real and transparant and WILL show up when invited
@Ero.. you have no idea how many times I have clicked on your profile pic... I keep wondering if you have a BBC.. lol your pic is interesting lol
I like to think I am a nice guy...... That being said I have hosted my own meet and greets.......For a real single guy one who will not flake these three things are certain "tells" of flakyness...
1) More then 2 EMAILS that require something from you..... pics etc....
2) Will not share another way to contact them ie....direct email, kik, phone....
3) Can not string together multiple sentences in his first response. If asking for a pic is something
included in the first response send a G rated and then gauge his response......
Always move aggressively to gauge the single guys ability to meet on your time table. If Friday nights work best for you....Pick the place then put the ball in his court as to time to meet....if the time and place is decided on..... then proceed.....I wish you all the best....I have been a very lucky guy because I do show up.....
1) More then 2 EMAILS that require something from you..... pics etc....
2) Will not share another way to contact them ie....direct email, kik, phone....
3) Can not string together multiple sentences in his first response. If asking for a pic is something
included in the first response send a G rated and then gauge his response......
Always move aggressively to gauge the single guys ability to meet on your time table. If Friday nights work best for you....Pick the place then put the ball in his court as to time to meet....if the time and place is decided on..... then proceed.....I wish you all the best....I have been a very lucky guy because I do show up.....
im single and reliable
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As a single guy who has and does enjoy being part of a sexy couple's sexual fantasy n fun I do believe in mutual respect, along with mutual pleasures. Being punctual, and showing up when promised goes without saying. While there may be some "bad apple" single guys for sure there are good guys out here as well!
JAy (jaybry6 kik)
JAy (jaybry6 kik)
Flakes are everywhere. It is extremely difficult for single males, so we (single males) need to step up and not flake..... ever! Anyone that has met me on here knows I show up!
If a single male is verified "Real" and has a few glowing comments from couples, who are verified as "Real" or "VIP", then you can feel a lot more certain that they are real and actually show up.