What does "playing alone" mean to you exactly? To me, it means someone who is able to date solo and solo hookups. Am I too far off in this assumption?
Those who do play alone, what is the reason you do so?
Those who do play alone, what is the reason you do so?
Hmmm....when I actually play alone, Mr Quick, my vibrator is along with me, so I'm not sure that counts. And actually, tonight is "Tuesday Night Book Club" for my husband and I where we read certain non-Disney type materials together. Usually we'll start out solo (playing alone?) but often end up somehow involved with one another in some non-solo act. So that doesn't count, right? 
But then again, I suppose I could assume that by using the oxymoron "Date solo" you actually mean, date someone else besides your normal partner.
Without at least an adjective or two, the term "playing alone," doesn't actually mean a lot to me. Could be someone cheating on their spouse. Could be someone with a hall pass. Could be Junior down spanking the sock monkey in the basement.
Ehem .... anyhoo .... I "play alone" at times cause of the excitement that a new, naughty, or illicit partner can bring to the table.
But really, back to the previously mentioned issue at hand. Tuesday Night Book Club. Is mutual masturbation considered "Playing alone???" Or a team sport????
But then again, I suppose I could assume that by using the oxymoron "Date solo" you actually mean, date someone else besides your normal partner.
Without at least an adjective or two, the term "playing alone," doesn't actually mean a lot to me. Could be someone cheating on their spouse. Could be someone with a hall pass. Could be Junior down spanking the sock monkey in the basement.
Ehem .... anyhoo .... I "play alone" at times cause of the excitement that a new, naughty, or illicit partner can bring to the table.
But really, back to the previously mentioned issue at hand. Tuesday Night Book Club. Is mutual masturbation considered "Playing alone???" Or a team sport????
Everyone must speak for themselves. For the two of us playing alone, means we can both hook-up by ourselves. We both actually do it from time to time, but it's rare.
Unfortunately on these sites a chunk of those people playing alone (usually men) are actually cheating.
Unfortunately on these sites a chunk of those people playing alone (usually men) are actually cheating.
We have done this, but in the same house, just different rooms. It allows us to connect with the other person, as well as a lot less distractions.
I can say that being one of naughtyphoebe toys is a fun filled environment of sensual pleasure! Absolutely amazing, whew
It's easy to verify if they are cheating or not just voice verify with the wife beforehand. You will be amazed at how few can actually do that 
! If they do they are legit but we would say playing alone means the ability to hook up individually/solo.
! If they do they are legit but we would say playing alone means the ability to hook up individually/solo.If the possibility ever arises that we play alone i have either told the other guy that it was all ok and to have fun, the women whom I've talked to about i asked them if they wanted to get the vocal ok from the Mrs, and they always turned it down and then usually disappeared and never responded after that. I guess they were looking for the cheater since i am always open about being married. Or I just scared them away.
We always meet couples as a coupke but if things go well we do ooen up to meeting sepertaely afterwards too
That would be perfect. If we could fimd a couple that are want to play together, but stable enough to play seperate, that would be really nice!
Its an ideal situation especially if everyone works and you dont get a lot of time off together
First off, I (MrChato8) am fully aware that by simply adding to this discussion, MrsChato8 will have an inbox full of potential play partners. We also subscribe to the definition in the original post. As to why we do it, it was her idea! LOL! Actual it was. And we have different reasons. She finds it empowering to be in control of her sexuality and doesn’t have to deal with the dynamics of mutiple people. There is only one other person that she has to feel comfortable with. Since I (Mr) travel for work it’s just an interesting way to meet some pretty cool people and pass the time. I have to work through all the challenges associated with trying to play solo as a man and that has caused me to do a LOT of self improvement and deal with rejection. It definitely adds a unique layer to the LS and requires an even higher level of communication. We also love it when we do find a couple that we both connect with and can have a blast as a group. Solo is not for everyone but for those that do it, good luck!
We prefer dating separately. Being able to get away individually once in a while can be a lot of fun. A dinner or night at the movies, followed by some play time is a lot of fun.
If you don't have a good partner have a good hand....
hence playing alone could be a 'jackoff' insead of a jackpot
hence playing alone could be a 'jackoff' insead of a jackpot
SWINGTASTICUT wrote:
What does "playing alone" mean to you exactly? To me, it means someone who is able to date solo and solo hookups. Am I too far off in this assumption?
Those who do play alone, what is the reason you do so?
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For us, playing alone means we are free to hook up with other people without our spouse there. I still run every potential partner by my wife before we do anything, and she does the same for me. We both have veto power of we don't like someone as well.
We don't really "date" other people alone (like dinner and a movie) because she feels that's a little too intimate.
We don't really "date" other people alone (like dinner and a movie) because she feels that's a little too intimate.