Yeah, I'm not big on the techie side of "meeting-up." My question is, "Do folks who live this open-minded lifestyle really insist on partaking of this online chat-chat-chatter all the time? Or is it mostly those guys sitting in the corner of their mommy and daddy's basement playing with their weiners?" I get tired of it -- sometimes I'd just like to stick that cam right up someone's butt, ya know?
I'm a girl with a hall pass. I like to have a playmate on the side but I like an actual connection. Doesn't have to be much of a connection but it sure as hell can't be a connection made through chat, via keyboard or via cam. What the hell is up with so many damn men wanting to do that?
It's like this. They've seen my pics (even on this site, where I've only two pics, you can clearly see my overall physique). I've sent 'em at least one pic so that they can see me in my face, body, and a banana half up my vagina. OK, I'm kidding. I don't actually send a picture of my vagina. But they've gotten a view of my complete physical self. I'm happy with their pics, they declare they're happy with mine. Go to set up a date. They wanna chat. Maybe cam. Want more pictures. More chat. Even MORE ways to chat. Blah-ba-blah. Screw that!
WTH? What ever happened to sitting down at a table where we can check each other out in person? I get that some folks use old pics -- so maybe you want to cam to see if it's really them (and they've got to trust that you're not recording it). But hell, just make sure they know that their pics had better be recent before you meet or you're outta there. It's just not that difficult. I can't read your face on chat. Can't read you're face properly, even on cam. I certainly can't kiss and grope you like I might prefer, (you know, gotta test the waters a bit!).
If ya wanna meet, lets meet! As in, meet-in-person. The ONLY way this particular girl will be willing to accept your meat is if we meet. So get off the damn computer/phone, would ya?
I can't be alone in this line of thinking, can I?
Sorry for the rant but dayum, if ya wanna know what I'm wearing? Cum find out for yourself so ya don't have to ask! Sheesh.
I/we have found that there are a lot of people that have the fantasy about meeting up and doing all these things but in reality will not because they have some other kind of constraint. They are either married most likely or just want to collect pictures and into the live porn.
Love this post! We would so much rather meet in person than carry on useless conversations. I think your on to something!
So this isn't just the lifestyle. Welcome to the world of online dating. Its here to stay and not gonna change.
We like chatting for a short period to make sure we are at least some sort of match, but endless chatting and emails gets old. We love meeting new people and even if there’s no sexual chemistry, we might just make a new friend.
LOL.. before I became exclusive.. I’ll chat today and meet today.. as long as it’s not at Starbucks or “dinner” or somewhere were eavesdropping is easy.. I have a few preferred ways to meeting.. but if the person on the other side wants A DATE-like first meeting.. then we’ll just chat our lives away. Lol.
I call my first meeting a couple of minutes in person Interview.. I don’t want to make anyone feel like OMG I wish he’ll leave or How do we tell him we have to go?(As usual,I have to add the part that makes those who are not my fans cringeeee LOL. I AM YET TO FAIL AN INTERVIEW. LOL)
After the interview if we like each other WE WILL KNOW.. if we don’t WE WILL KNOW.. I don’t know if I am new School or old school.. but that’s how I roll and it’s been wayyyyyy more easier to meet in person..
I call my first meeting a couple of minutes in person Interview.. I don’t want to make anyone feel like OMG I wish he’ll leave or How do we tell him we have to go?(As usual,I have to add the part that makes those who are not my fans cringeeee LOL. I AM YET TO FAIL AN INTERVIEW. LOL)
After the interview if we like each other WE WILL KNOW.. if we don’t WE WILL KNOW.. I don’t know if I am new School or old school.. but that’s how I roll and it’s been wayyyyyy more easier to meet in person..
or they're married, and getting the thrill of being online & cheating is much safer and cheaper than meeting up in person
Well, in 40 years of this, we have found that many people out there are thinking they want to try it, but when it comes to reality time, they choke. We have pretty much settled into a 3 email limit. If they are not ready to meet by then, they never will be. Might lose a few fish this way, but we don't waste nearly as much time as we used to.
Also, we don't care about pictures. If they are there, fine. But it is not a requirement for us, and I don't think we have ever sent someone a picture. If they want more than we post, they are out of luck.
Showing up for a date is a requirement. Unless they were held up in a disaster that was on the news, it's over. There are so many time wasters out there.
Lastly, if a guy does not have a place to play (not a motel), then he is cheating. Any time we get an inquiry, we always ask, "Can you entertain?" If not, we are done.
We hope that Pals4fun can connect with someone. There is no reason that people looking for fun, sexy, entertainment should not be able to find some like-minded souls to have fun with. Hang in there!
Also, we don't care about pictures. If they are there, fine. But it is not a requirement for us, and I don't think we have ever sent someone a picture. If they want more than we post, they are out of luck.
Showing up for a date is a requirement. Unless they were held up in a disaster that was on the news, it's over. There are so many time wasters out there.
Lastly, if a guy does not have a place to play (not a motel), then he is cheating. Any time we get an inquiry, we always ask, "Can you entertain?" If not, we are done.
We hope that Pals4fun can connect with someone. There is no reason that people looking for fun, sexy, entertainment should not be able to find some like-minded souls to have fun with. Hang in there!
Amen to that! We put up more than a generous amount of pictures (including both of us - with faces). If that isn't sufficient, I don't know what is? I don't want to keep sending pics and videos for weeks on end. Set up a meeting, keep to that meeting, or stop wasting our time.
Some very seriously sexy!!! People live in SOUTH JORDAN.. just saying...
orgasme wrote:
Amen to that! We put up more than a generous amount of pictures (including both of us - with faces). If that isn't sufficient, I don't know what is? I don't want to keep sending pics and videos for weeks on end. Set up a meeting, keep to that meeting, or stop wasting our time.
I've been catfished too many times. I want to see a person on cam for at least 1 minute before I meet up, and that way they can see me too, to see if I match up with what they need.
What a buncha great replies! Thanks ya'll. For some reason, it's nice to hear that many of you feel the same. Thanks for the thoughts and suggestions
JeffSmith: Why so adverse to being "catfished?" I mean aren't most "catfishers" trying to get something from you? Like a password or money or something? It seems like the worse that could happen in this instance is that you either get stood up? Or they show up to meet you and their photo was obviously really old?
Orgasme: Yes, you have plenty of pics. In fact too many. You and your wife are attractive folks. But just so ya know, your wife is gorgeous. Too gorgeous. I hate her.
(BTW, this doesn't seem an exclusive situation with just the "orgasme's," there seems to be an inordinate number of sexy people here-bouts!
It's funny 'cause I just rejected a fella yesterday who I thought I was gonna get together with -- but he wanted 2 more pics. Not one, apparently, not more, but precisely two more pics and then we could "get this thing started." Huh? Not. So then he responded that maybe we could meet without 2 more pics being exchanged. Does anyone here have some photoshop skills? I need two pictures of me with a penis added to my crotch -- you know, just to send to my new friend!
JeffSmith: Why so adverse to being "catfished?" I mean aren't most "catfishers" trying to get something from you? Like a password or money or something? It seems like the worse that could happen in this instance is that you either get stood up? Or they show up to meet you and their photo was obviously really old?
Orgasme: Yes, you have plenty of pics. In fact too many. You and your wife are attractive folks. But just so ya know, your wife is gorgeous. Too gorgeous. I hate her.
(BTW, this doesn't seem an exclusive situation with just the "orgasme's," there seems to be an inordinate number of sexy people here-bouts!It's funny 'cause I just rejected a fella yesterday who I thought I was gonna get together with -- but he wanted 2 more pics. Not one, apparently, not more, but precisely two more pics and then we could "get this thing started." Huh? Not. So then he responded that maybe we could meet without 2 more pics being exchanged. Does anyone here have some photoshop skills? I need two pictures of me with a penis added to my crotch -- you know, just to send to my new friend!