Through our limited experience w the lifestyle, I personally have felt a better connection and more turned on w mmf or mff over swapping. Seems like chemistry w 4 people is so much more complicated. The wife also seems to think so as well. I would love to have someone join us in return for the same thing. Is this a weird request? Ive been so hesitant to post cause I feel like its such an abnormal thing but at the same time I'm sure some of you probably feel the same way.
That's what we do... mainly because it's just easier..
interesting topic! that’s a lot of reply from meandher. Lol.
I guess they wanted to get the point across
We enjoy couples, threesomes and playing alone. If we were only allowed one choice, we would both choose couples. But there is no such rule. So we choose all three.
We have found threesomes easier as well. We do like swaps, but that four way connection is difficult sometimes.
So, how do you arrange it without offending the left-out spouse?
We love the MFM thing. It's always been really hard to find couples that all click, and a single M is usually very easy, and kinky.
We are actually currently looking for an exclusive thing with a M to build on the fun and safety. Hubby loves the idea of me getting a BF, so anyone interested in that get a hold of us.
We are actually currently looking for an exclusive thing with a M to build on the fun and safety. Hubby loves the idea of me getting a BF, so anyone interested in that get a hold of us.
We've always just done the couple thing or had a unicorn once but are recently looking into a MFM. So we have the opposite problem.....how to find a male that doesn't appear creepy or want something more than we do. I guess we haven't been around enough single males mostly females because they are generally shunned from a lot of parties or events.
I have to agree from the male perspective also. I have had a female partner join with couples and chemistry needs to be correct or someone is not satisfied. With a mmf or mff, all three seem to be more intense and into it.
I'm down
Would Love to hookup with both you hmu
The mrs just recently had a mfm and now i cant get her to stop talking about it. If we could only find an elusive single female for her we'd be set. Ideally another couple would be perfect for various reasons, but it just doesnt seem to be happening as stated above about everyone clicking together and the Mrs is not interested much in searching for the right couple at the moment. It would be fun to be the other m to another couple aswell.
The weird thing is, we never had the problem finding a 4 way connection in Vegas. It seems to be a Utah problem. Which seems backwards to me. Personally I'm only missing a female to play with. I am not interested in seeking a couple. Unless it just happens and unfolds like a movie [hah] then I'm good with life right now. -the Mrs.
MMF OR FFM that’s the only thing that I’m down for too many complications when is more than 3
We are interested in all of it but would definitely like my wife to have 2 guys
What you need is a quality Manicorn. A Manicorn is like a Unicorn but the horn is in a different spot. That's a joke. Seriously though, a Manicorn is a quality single male that thinks with his brain, cares about people, love the LS, and is all around kick ass sexy. Very useful for bringing passion to the bedroom and helping with fantasies. A Manicorn may have a good reason to be single, and lack of couple status shouldn't mean your less trustworth/honest/brave/ok now I'm just rambling boy scout mottos, but the rope tying came be a turn on. Just got to pick wisely. Oh Yeah pick me
LOL didnt realize it spammed out like 12 responses...Cleaned it up though..
We enjoy it all but have to agree it is much easier to get 3 people's schedules and personalities to match than 4. We love mfm!
We got into swinging because we BOTH wanted to experience sex with other people. While threesomes can be fun we definitely think four-way play, in any of it's iterations, is ultimately the most satisfying. There's nothing sexier to us than going home after playing with a sexy couple and telling each other about all the naughty things we did and felt while playing with our respective playmates.
I know that people often complain about the difficulty in finding a four-way connection but I think that sometimes we're all a little TOO picky about finding PERFECT chemistry when often just good or even great connections can be just as satisfying or even more so than perfect. Also, threesomes are, in our experience, easier when we've met and established a good connection and trust with another couple and then taking turns swapping around between the four of us. YMMV
I know that people often complain about the difficulty in finding a four-way connection but I think that sometimes we're all a little TOO picky about finding PERFECT chemistry when often just good or even great connections can be just as satisfying or even more so than perfect. Also, threesomes are, in our experience, easier when we've met and established a good connection and trust with another couple and then taking turns swapping around between the four of us. YMMV
MMF is the best.
COUPLE801801 wrote:
Through our limited experience w the lifestyle, I personally have felt a better connection and more turned on w mmf or mff over swapping. Seems like chemistry w 4 people is so much more complicated. The wife also seems to think so as well. I would love to have someone join us in return for the same thing. Is this a weird request? Ive been so hesitant to post cause I feel like its such an abnormal thing but at the same time I'm sure some of you probably feel the same way.
You make a great point. Life would be perfect if we had a unicorn....LOL. MMF is good, but another woman always seems to make the night superb. Thank you for the forum topic!
Mmf is usually the best. Couples can fall short and one has to take one for the team. Just saying. Mrs needs the ultimate attention.
You all realize MMF implies the two men are touching each other, not her? Do you mean MFM, a devil's threesome? If so, we agree! Lots of fun! Less anal soreness for him the next day...
Very interested- message us and let’s see if we can set up a new event with my wife as center piece or one of several women enjoy the fun !! booberriesj
We really enjoy MFM fun but would love to experience a single/available woman to share. In the end it is all fun and makes for great memories.
From my understanding... MMF means the men are playing. I am lifestyle originalist.. if it says MMF then it means MMF, MFM is totally different... Butt-wise I am a virgin and I don’t let goatee near my balls... LOL.
I wonder if this post is about MFM or MMF.. I had a chat one time with some couple who had MMF at the looking for section but they meant MFM
I wonder if this post is about MFM or MMF.. I had a chat one time with some couple who had MMF at the looking for section but they meant MFM
massageBBCguy wrote:
From my understanding... MMF means the men are playing. I am lifestyle originalist.. if it says MMF then it means MMF, MFM is totally different... Butt-wise I am a virgin and I don’t let goatee near my balls... LOL.
I wonder if this post is about MFM or MMF.. I had a chat one time with some couple who had MMF at the looking for section but they meant MFM
So I think we really need to be much more exact with our acronyms, so I'm suggesting we add some modifiers to the mix:
MFM <-- Male Female Male (no condoms required)
M]F[M <-- Male Female Male with condoms
M>F<M <-- If you prefer the "reservoir tip"
M)F(M <-- We don't spend money on condoms, we got balloons around here somewhere
M|F|M <-- We wash and reuse our condoms, Fuck the CDC and their recommendations
As always, YMMV!
Lol. Because you mentioned Condom.. I’ll give the MassageBBCguy’s view.
I have NEVER had any kind of Sexually transmitted thing.. sti or std.. I think the first time I do will be the end of my Lifestyle. Around 8yrs ago.. I was so “BUSY” and not checking out my tool.. all of a sudden it started feel TOO GOOD.. lol checked me out.. and saw the condom busted are coiled around my shaft and behold right there was a TEACHABLE MOMENT for the Mandinka Warrior. Lol.
I am pretty sure I cant trust Ivanka completely.. but the chances of me getting SCREWED if the condom coil up is very slim.. and that is why I am not too much into Lady Gaga.
I have seen some profiles and people SCREAM! OMG!!!! CONDOMS!!!!! IS!!!!! A!!!!! MUST!!!!!!
To me.. when protection is OVER emphasized.. lol I raise private questions.. for example- Do they have something they don’t want to spread? Did they catch some std or sti and learned a lesson? If they had something and have just been certified OK that still worries me. Lol. because I’ll be wondering how did they get the “thing” initially.. so trying to solve this puzzle turns me off. (Don’t take it personal, if I have passed because of how much you stressed condom)
I promise this is not a jab.. it’s private opinion expressed publicly. Lol
I have NEVER had any kind of Sexually transmitted thing.. sti or std.. I think the first time I do will be the end of my Lifestyle. Around 8yrs ago.. I was so “BUSY” and not checking out my tool.. all of a sudden it started feel TOO GOOD.. lol checked me out.. and saw the condom busted are coiled around my shaft and behold right there was a TEACHABLE MOMENT for the Mandinka Warrior. Lol.
I am pretty sure I cant trust Ivanka completely.. but the chances of me getting SCREWED if the condom coil up is very slim.. and that is why I am not too much into Lady Gaga.
I have seen some profiles and people SCREAM! OMG!!!! CONDOMS!!!!! IS!!!!! A!!!!! MUST!!!!!!
To me.. when protection is OVER emphasized.. lol I raise private questions.. for example- Do they have something they don’t want to spread? Did they catch some std or sti and learned a lesson? If they had something and have just been certified OK that still worries me. Lol. because I’ll be wondering how did they get the “thing” initially.. so trying to solve this puzzle turns me off. (Don’t take it personal, if I have passed because of how much you stressed condom)
I promise this is not a jab.. it’s private opinion expressed publicly. Lol
We like mmf ffm couples and moresomes. It's great fun with a 4 some to have one that will take photos it they aren't into play with all.
We prefer couples and agree with Evildoers point. We like to see us both have a good time.
I saw your deleted reply to me.. I am kinda glad you did because I can put words together very well.. I don’t disrespect Queens but I really won’t let a Jackass like you get away with it while hiding behind the Picture of that very fine lady...
STICKYANDSWEET wrote:
We prefer couples and agree with Evildoers point. We like to see us both have a good time.
MMF has always been my favorite, just works better, when two men can focus on giving one woman multiple orgasms.
Hello Salt Lake City, UT! My friend and I will be in Salt Lake City for work on September 9. We would like to meet with a couple on Monday, September 10th. Wry limited on days. Looking to have fun with another couple swap. He is traveling from CO and i’m traveling from NY. I’m 5 2” , Asian, curvacious. My male friend is latino, 6 2” good looking, muscular. We are looking for a great time. Please message me if interested.
We’ve had MFM, MMF, MFF, and foursomes. Sometimes extras can get a little awkward when all members aren’t interested in everyone else present, so I don’t think it’s a “bad” thing to have a preference for that. The lifestyle is all about trying different stuff and finding out what you do & don’t like. Personally what I think would be really hot is a foursome where all 4 members are attracted to the other people present. But I’m weird like that.