Just for fun has anyone ran into or seen a profile on here of someone they already know? Someone from work? a neighbor? a family member? or someone from a church you attend. I went to a house party and while playing with another girl saw a guy from work watching me. He smiled and came over and joined us. It was kind of odd at work after that, but in a fun way.
Been there, done that, have the t-shirt. There's really no easy way to explain, deflect, lie, or otherwise extricate yourself from that situation. Counting, just now in my head, it's happened to us no less than half a dozen times. Everyone from family members (Ms. Evil's cousin), friends of friends (BFF's of our former next door neighbors), business acquaintances/clients, you name it. It's always such an unexpected shock that we invariably handle it poorly. LOL
ps- Happened again last night at a wedding, of all things! Not really a lifestyle event/party but plenty of swingers there and the implications were probably fairly obvious to anyone really paying attention.
ps- Happened again last night at a wedding, of all things! Not really a lifestyle event/party but plenty of swingers there and the implications were probably fairly obvious to anyone really paying attention.
I once saw a couples profile on an other site that had pictures of the guy and then pictures of my cousin as his "wife". He had just swiped a few facebook pictures of her so that he could fake a couples account. One quick message to him, and the pictures were not only gone, but a new set of "wife" pictures showed up.
We haven't had that happen, but I don't suppose it would be a problem. I doubt they would out us, since they are in the same boat. A "so, you swing, too, eh?" would be sufficient. It would be kind of interesting, actually. Think of the new fun you might start having with that neighbor/coworker/cousin/pastor.
Yes we have, quite a few times. So far, it has never been a problem. The people that we knew before we, and they discovered that we are all non-monogamous, and or swingers, are all level headed considerate adults. So no worries!
We took a clas on step parenting long ago. Was a 6 week class once a week with the kids. This couple sat at our table the entire course. After the classes were over we walked into a party at the old moose or elks lodge on 4 or 5th south. The first couple we spot in the basement was that couple.
Mrs. simple immediately just said show us your boobies.... all awkwardness was immediately eliminated.
Mrs. simple immediately just said show us your boobies.... all awkwardness was immediately eliminated.
Only one...so far.
A girl from Jr High and High School. We thought it was pretty exciting
A girl from Jr High and High School. We thought it was pretty exciting