You see a lot of couples profiles saying they are looking for friendships in and out of the bedroom. Do you think the first meet you can tell with in 20 minutes there could be a friendship? Or would you give it more time and a 2nd meeting?
Also looks helps but for us personalities and having things in common comes first.
There is the possibility that you could find out that quick but if not we would try to set up for more time to hang out and learn more
Seems like we can always tell if we have hit it off with another couple. Many times we have taken that to FWB and sometimes we wanted to and it just did not workout. We can usually tell after spending the evening with another couple...sometimes they are on the same page and other time its seems slower but it just happens. Of course sometimes it just does not workout and you never see them again.
It's hard sometimes to find what we think are good friends but we have found a couple that are friends we can go do things with like go camping drinks dinner and of course getting naked and fucking
We usually want to meet people multiple times before we decide if we want to play. We aren't looking for those quick hook-ups. We also like chatting on kik or something which helps know if our personalities are compatible to being friends. Sometimes all this works, sometimes it doesn't but we always meet awesome people.
We fill don't judge a book by it's cover, Take the time to get to know the persons you never know could be some great people
I think i can tell pretty quickly but if im not sure then yes meeting again works. We have met some of the best friends in the lifestyle. At the same time i have thought they would be great friends and then it doesn't last so i think it goes both ways.
Sometimes it’s easier for us to tell right away if we don’t have a lot in common. We are very down to earth and this is a “side gig” for us. If we sense that people are way more into the LS than we are, it is really not worth pursuing a relationship. But there are times where you feel like you want to get to know someone better but I don’t think it’s ever been clear after 20 minutes...at least not for us.
For us, No. 20 minutes isn't long enough. We would like to hang out and get to know the other couple a little better. We're not real heavy into the lifestyle, so hooking up to just hook up isn't going to work for us. The friends that we have made, weren't made in the first 20 minutes. We feel that it's better to spend a little time with the one's you meet and be patient to see if the compatibility is there. Personality goes a long way with us.
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It's hard sometimes to find what we think are good friends but we have found a couple that are friends we can go do things with like go camping drinks dinner and of course getting naked and fucking
Would love to find a friendship in and out of the bedroom
It’s possible to find out if there’s a connection in the first meet. It would likely take more time than that to know if you want to take it further from there. Typically we don’t go on a first meet if we don’t already think there’s potential.
Friendship evolves over time but I think you know relatively quickly if you are compatible.