Hey, so here is my question. I have quite a few friends on here, and according to the site it says “(so and so) has approved your request to be a friend. If either of you have any private albums, you both will be able to view each others albums now. “ however, that’s not the case. I’m still blocked from seeing anything. Does anyone know why that might be the case? Thanks in advance for any help. Happy playing 😘
Wondering why anyone would friend you when you have no private pictures? But do not know why if they are friends and not just requests you sent you can’t view. Maybe it is finally friend request karma.
I have like 4 pictures. Is that not showing? Also, I’ve only sent like 2 friend requests. All others have been sent to me, so that’s a solid “no” to your karma theory. Thanks for your thoughts.
Yeah, people may accept the request then remove you as a friend after they see your profile, and/or realize you do not have any private pictures. Having said this, I realize your public pics already have your face and body in them, but people like to get the warm fuzzies and feel like thy get something in return when they give you something.
Incentivize
Play ball
Tit for tat
Do unto others....
Etc. etc.
I often find it funny how many members of this site land themselves in a Mexican standoff. For example, many people won’t show a face pic until they’ve seen a face pic. Put two of those people in a room and you wind up with two ding dongs worried that the other person may or may not be their uncle/aunt.
Incentivize
Play ball
Tit for tat
Do unto others....
Etc. etc.
I often find it funny how many members of this site land themselves in a Mexican standoff. For example, many people won’t show a face pic until they’ve seen a face pic. Put two of those people in a room and you wind up with two ding dongs worried that the other person may or may not be their uncle/aunt.
Maybe beef up your profile text a little bit too. Tell people who you are. Lack of detail often suggests any of three things; people are being secretive (major red flag), people are too lazy to write (major red flag) or people are just plain old boring (major red flag).
Sincerely B of B n K
Aka (swingular profile life coach)
Sincerely B of B n K
Aka (swingular profile life coach)
We do not fully understand why some people can or can't see some pictures. We assumed that people could see your private albums if you accept a friend request. People who are guest or trial members have limited access. People who purchased a more inclusive membership, it would seem have access to more. We are a bit confused as to how custom albums actually work. You can set them up so that they are not private, but unavailable to guest or trial members. We have tried using that option and we are not sure if it really works. It seems that with custom albums, people still are unable to see them unless they are verified "real" unless you have actually granted them permission. We are not sure if this is actually true or not, but that is our impression.
Ucouple wrote:Lol. You guys are pretty good FYI, pretty sure you are aware of that already... I think this site needs more Ucouple.
Maybe beef up your profile text a little bit too. Tell people who you are. Lack of detail often suggests any of three things; people are being secretive (major red flag), people are too lazy to write (major red flag) or people are just plain old boring (major red flag).
Sincerely B of B n K
Aka (swingular profile life coach)
Thanks Ucouple for the awesome advice. Much appreciated. You’re hired to be my coach. I agree with massage BBCguy. We need more of you guys
Except that we don't really need more single guys on here.
Your public pics show up and I must say yours are quite sexy! Love a tall man!
However you have no private pics so I would be reluctant to open my private pics when you have none. As mentioned before if you are a free member they limit how many texts you can send out and what pictures you can see. I didn't know there was such thing as a lifestyle coach..... they're definitely times I could use some advice and have some questions.
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However you have no private pics so I would be reluctant to open my private pics when you have none. As mentioned before if you are a free member they limit how many texts you can send out and what pictures you can see. I didn't know there was such thing as a lifestyle coach..... they're definitely times I could use some advice and have some questions.
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Unicornwantstoplay, how do I add “private” pics? And what is the benefit of adding them? Thanks also for the compliment.
You go to Gallery pic private and put pics in there and only people can see them are the ones that you allow them access to that gallery...... it's a place where some people put their face pics sexier pics naughty pics nude pics..... many people and couples want discretion so it is a way to have some discretion and choose who you let see more.