I find it interesting how people are so closed minded and think if a marriage or relationship isn’t conventional, then it isn’t love. Relationships come in all forms and along the way we’ve had some great times in the lifestyle. It’s come with it’s fair share of challenges, but through it all it’s brought us closer together because it’s been about making each other happy and communicating - which seems like a better marriage than the white sheet, boring marriages a lot of people endure.
Living in such a conservative, religious state, opening up your marriage is obviously frowned upon. It’s not for everyone. A lot of people can’t curb their emotions when being with someone else intimately. For those people who can handle it and keep their shit together, it can be quite fun and fulfilling. Sex is an important part of a relationship but it’s not what defines a marriage. It seems a lot of people can’t comprehend the idea and think we’re all crazy. Maybe we all are, but at least we’re having fun lol
What are your thoughts about the lifestyle and how so many people don’t get it and look down on it.
Living in such a conservative, religious state, opening up your marriage is obviously frowned upon. It’s not for everyone. A lot of people can’t curb their emotions when being with someone else intimately. For those people who can handle it and keep their shit together, it can be quite fun and fulfilling. Sex is an important part of a relationship but it’s not what defines a marriage. It seems a lot of people can’t comprehend the idea and think we’re all crazy. Maybe we all are, but at least we’re having fun lol
What are your thoughts about the lifestyle and how so many people don’t get it and look down on it.
New to the lifestyle. Really liked this read!
The REALLY fucked up thing is how many people would or DO look down on swingers and swinging as something aberrant, abnormal, and disgusting, yet think people cheating and having affairs is a fairly normal part of life. It would seem that being open and upfront about your sexual desires with your spouse is somehow bad and sneaking around lying and cheating is good. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Well said Sammie117!
We like how you guys think.
Hope to meet you sometime.
Happy 4th of July!
Pete & Sandy
We like how you guys think.
Hope to meet you sometime.
Happy 4th of July!
Pete & Sandy
Dilly Dilly! It took me quite some time to be able to see the difference between love, and sex. I love the open communication that we have together, and the amazing friends we’ve made through the lifestyle. We love being around like minded people so we don’t have to pretend to be who we’re not.
Oh my where to start...
Being a swinger...participating in the lifestyle means different things to different folks. For those who judge it negatively and put it down...well most of the time they have no idea of what it is. Tell a vanilla friend that your a swinger and let them tell you what that means...wow what a range of explanations. Now you may not be able to that but it amazing the misinformation vanilla have about the lifestyle. Of course many people felt that way about homosexual relationships 20 years ago and still do.
Sammie117 swinging for the loving couple that trust one another and enjoys seeing their mate pleasured by someone else (compersion) is extremely liberating. When you can leave the hang ups, drama and other bull shit behind it one of the greatest adventures you can share together or otherwise.
Don't let others define you through their judgements about what you enjoy. Life is too short for that.
Being a swinger...participating in the lifestyle means different things to different folks. For those who judge it negatively and put it down...well most of the time they have no idea of what it is. Tell a vanilla friend that your a swinger and let them tell you what that means...wow what a range of explanations. Now you may not be able to that but it amazing the misinformation vanilla have about the lifestyle. Of course many people felt that way about homosexual relationships 20 years ago and still do.
Sammie117 swinging for the loving couple that trust one another and enjoys seeing their mate pleasured by someone else (compersion) is extremely liberating. When you can leave the hang ups, drama and other bull shit behind it one of the greatest adventures you can share together or otherwise.
Don't let others define you through their judgements about what you enjoy. Life is too short for that.
The irony is getting forced to listen to other close-minded opinions about the “right” way of doing things and how they think it’s a mistake. even more ironic coming from people who’ve cheated or have terrible relationships. Love isn’t a one size fits all kind of thing. We’ve heard it all. We don’t really have that drama right this moment, I just wanted to get people thinking and stir the pot 
Sammie117 that where a good sense of humor comes in. We just dont take any of it too seriously although we understand some cannot be in that situation.
There is no right way...its all about what best for you.
There is no right way...its all about what best for you.
Well put Evil