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How do you go about finding people on here effectively? Do you filter by distance and go one by one through the profiles? Whats your best method? What works for you?
NOFun wrote:

How do you go about finding people on here effectively? Do you filter by distance and go one by one through the profiles? Whats your best method? What works for you?
I’ll say probably commenting on the forums puts your profile out there.. and someone is liking you guys already I have no doubt.. well, I don’t care much for searching these days.. I’ll see a nice comment or cool random profile and I’ll say something that’s it pretty much BUT I get some messages and it’s because they saw my comment on one of these forums.. that has been my experience so far
And I just jinxed it. LOL
I guess that's what we need to do, just be more interactive.
That's exactly what we did, started being more active in the group posts. It helped for a little bit but it seems like this place has really slowed down a lot. Maybe we just aren't looking in the right place but we have noticed there isn't much action going on.
Agreed, I guess we just need to create our own action 😘
I hate searching. I wish you could search active profiles. That's why I like above mentioned. I originally started messaging people very little response. Made a comment on here and wam found some hotties.
Distance, profile pic, age for starters. Then from there we look at what they're looking for and what things they are into
So when I first became active I sent out messages... after I met a few of one percenters who I did not even see their profile on my searches.. I was like “interesting” then I went back to see those who I sent messages to especially the ones that read my messages and did not respond my reaction basically and simple put was “LMAO what was I thinking” and “OMG look at this one, even this one didn’t respond?” I am really cracking up writing this... I just saw someone I sent a message to in another forum and I am totally like “thank you for not responding” lol I love this site.. I will pay for the laughter.

I played around with my profile.. rearranged some pics.. speaking of pics.. I used to have my BBC plastered all over my profile until I realized that didn’t represent me very well..

I think I blew my chances sending messages when my profile was still sucky.. So I’ll Say before you start sending messages.. you probably want to be very pleased with your profile.
I agree, posting and participating has lead to more friend requests and convos than any other method.

1 - If someone is posting they’re active on the site.

2 - I think there’s less likelihood of someone being a cheater-creeper if they’re holding down an intellectual convo!

But really I’m just here to see all the tits I can from your private photo albums!
[sinister laugh]
Ucouple wrote:

I agree, posting and participating has lead to more friend requests and convos than any other method.

1 - If someone is posting they’re active on the site.

2 - I think there’s less likelihood of someone being a cheater-creeper if they’re holding down an intellectual convo!

But really I’m just here to see all the tits I can from your private photo albums!
[sinister laugh]
OMG nailed it number 2! That didn’t even cross my mind. Heck maybe that’s why I am kinda cool (as a single guy) it seems like other single males like LURKING. LOL
We disagree with distance. A little travel time never hurt anyone for an amazing time. We are open from Logan to nephi.
I have been wondering the same thing lol. It's hard to find people who are active on here. We just moved to logan UT and need some friends!
Where did you move from? I lived in salt lake for a bit - it can be a tough place to find a place.
We agree. We got more responses just by being active on the site.
We've found this method to be at LEAST as reliable as any other way to search. Pick a profile, shake hard, do what it says. :-P

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EVILDOERS wrote:

We've found this method to be at LEAST as reliable as any other way to search. Pick a profile, shake hard, do what it says. :-P

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Did you notice the severe abuse of process? Lol People have been throwing comments for comment sake and several “notice me” moves. WOW